FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice (one thing).

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok. My profile says I'm not interested in married men. Is it clear that I mean married men hiding this from their wife and cheating without permission or should I word this differently?

If I should word it differently, can someone give me a hint how to plz.

I only want that line to be short coz I don't wanna take up much room on my profile with what I'm not interested in.

TIA.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Just say no married or attached unless you have verified permission, that is what I say on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would put single men only. Can't guarantee it works

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

so if they aren't married but in a LTR its ok?

I think you have to specify that you aren't interested in men in relationships where the partner is unaware.

It won't make any difference though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"so if they aren't married but in a LTR its ok?

I think you have to specify that you aren't interested in men in relationships where the partner is unaware.

It won't make any difference though

It will. I won't be contacting her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou.

Yes I should mention committed relationships as well.

Think I have all the advice I need now already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so if they aren't married but in a LTR its ok?

I think you have to specify that you aren't interested in men in relationships where the partner is unaware.

It won't make any difference though

No that isn't ok either, glad it's been mentioned as I just presumed people in relationships would also think that.

Thanks, this is why I ask for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it is important to you then you need to make it stand out more. Maybe have it as the first thing or capitals (I know that's shouting but gets point across). At tge end of the day it is important to you. If it puts people off they were probably married or people you wouldn't want to meet anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think if it is important to you then you need to make it stand out more. Maybe have it as the first thing or capitals (I know that's shouting but gets point across). At tge end of the day it is important to you. If it puts people off they were probably married or people you wouldn't want to meet anyhow."

Yeah it's important. Did just change the words but can edit as many times as I want lol so will shove capitals in as I like the layout of my words and do t want to change that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im pretty clear on mine,but doesnt seem to make much difference!...i say very local too...and get married men in the bloody outer hebrides messaging!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im pretty clear on mine,but doesnt seem to make much difference!...i say very local too...and get married men in the bloody outer hebrides messaging!"

Yeah, it is obvious. And you have a short profile so not like people can miss that either, you made me lol about the car accommodation.

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By *aura001Woman
over a year ago

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"Ok. My profile says I'm not interested in married men. Is it clear that I mean married men hiding this from their wife and cheating without permission or should I word this differently?

If I should word it differently, can someone give me a hint how to plz.

I only want that line to be short coz I don't wanna take up much room on my profile with what I'm not interested in.

TIA."

I always think if I put this it gives "cheating" men the heads up to hide it

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