FabSwingers.com forum: How to get meets without asking every girl on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New to all this and just wondering what the best advice is to meeting local girls on here.dont want to ask everyone on here.replies would be grateful

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

look and then send to the profiles that take your fancy.

it is not compulsory.

good luck and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like he (above me) said, just message the people you fancy.

Or put up a meet and hope someone replies.

Try to even get to know some people on here, plenty of them like to take their time to get to know someone before meeting.

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By *abyfacenelsonMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Try going to swingers clubs ?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

The first thing to do is ditch most of the cock pics on your profile.

The girls like to see more than just cock, in fact many will not reply if that is the only pic available.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Reading profiles greatly helps, no point just going by the pic as they might not be into what you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first thing to do is ditch most of the cock pics on your profile.

The girls like to see more than just cock, in fact many will not reply if that is the only pic available."

This!

Your profile is, I'm sorry to say, dreadful. Most women/couples look at the profile before deciding to reply or not....a zillion cock shots and nothing else is the worst possible thing you could have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks like a saveloy exhibition. Way too cock heavy 12 out of 14 cock shots.

Read profiles and message people that are looking for someone like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was you I'd reduce the amount of verifications from the same couple. A little weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I'd reduce the amount of verifications from the same couple. A little weird."

This. Getting one woman to repeat over and over how hard your cock is isn't appealing.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

change you avatar.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"change you avatar. "

He did!

My advice is not to take Everyones advice - try and think for yourself because otherwise your profile won't be yours, it will be subsumed by others _iews when your profile should be your _iew. How do you know you'll be any more successful now? It's not just your profile, it's what you say in messages, how you say it and to whom and when. No one can help you with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a straight meet on here yet, do I worry? no. do I have a red hot sexy wife? Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles and only message those that meet your requirements and vise versa. Try clubs. Follow the usual no cock pic, be polite etc. Sooooo many guys get it wrong its not that hard to stand out amongst the crap on here.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Put a notice in a shop window... female wanted for swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you change your status you have about zero chance of any woman being interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless you change your status you have about zero chance of any woman being interested

this.

Was just about to comment on your status... It pays to be able to take rejection well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP posts these kinds of rants a lot in his status. Probably the main reason for his lack of meets.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Pretty much agree with what's been said so far.

Poor pics.

Limited profile text.

Verified by 7 different people yet showing 5 from the same couple.

Ranty status update.

And you wonder why you're not fighting them off with a big stick?

Browse other guys in your area and see how those getting meets portray themselves. Then - rather than just copy them or take the advice of others - try and create a profile that would interest you if you were your target audience.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Having read your profile it looks like that's one of your biggest stumbling blocks.

Poor grammar, full stops and no spaces afterwards, starting sentences without capitals etc etc.

Sounds petty, but intellect is as big a turn on as is a picture of a big cock!!!

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Would also add, having seen your meets profile that "Bareback is a must" will put a lot of people off!

Would never meet someone who isn't careful sexually to prevent infections!

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