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"So im having a gangbang on nov 7th at a club in salisbury im not normally the shy type but even thinking about it fills me with nerves. Being a bbw i always think guys wouldnt be interested in me but they obviously are and now to add to my nerves ive kinda been convinced by someone that having another girl there is a good idea said girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match i feel quite intimidated and questioning whether or not to go through with it. Any advice would be great " we've done 2 and i was nervous first but then the other side comes in and its smiles all round | |||
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"So im having a gangbang on nov 7th at a club in salisbury im not normally the shy type but even thinking about it fills me with nerves. Being a bbw i always think guys wouldnt be interested in me but they obviously are and now to add to my nerves ive kinda been convinced by someone that having another girl there is a good idea said girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match i feel quite intimidated and questioning whether or not to go through with it. Any advice would be great " Hang on...Someone suggested "that having another girl there.... girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match" and THEY thought this was a good idea? Its your fantasy Your fun how about saying NO. You dont have to explain. Whoever said about the other girl obviously wants her there for selfish reasons not to make things better for you. Thell them and her to fuck right off. Its your gangbang you make the rules. | |||
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"So im having a gangbang on nov 7th at a club in salisbury im not normally the shy type but even thinking about it fills me with nerves. Being a bbw i always think guys wouldnt be interested in me but they obviously are and now to add to my nerves ive kinda been convinced by someone that having another girl there is a good idea said girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match i feel quite intimidated and questioning whether or not to go through with it. Any advice would be great Hang on...Someone suggested "that having another girl there.... girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match" and THEY thought this was a good idea? Its your fantasy Your fun how about saying NO. You dont have to explain. Whoever said about the other girl obviously wants her there for selfish reasons not to make things better for you. Thell them and her to fuck right off. Its your gangbang you make the rules. " It's at a club. So their rules. And most likely the other girl is there to boost the numbers of single guys paying to get in. Private GB's are one thing - club ones often have different agendas!!! One club (coincidentally in Salisbury too!) even broadcast one live in the Fab SW chat room the other week. (Didn't go or watch - it was publicised in the forums!!) A | |||
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"So im having a gangbang on nov 7th at a club in salisbury im not normally the shy type but even thinking about it fills me with nerves. Being a bbw i always think guys wouldnt be interested in me but they obviously are and now to add to my nerves ive kinda been convinced by someone that having another girl there is a good idea said girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match i feel quite intimidated and questioning whether or not to go through with it. Any advice would be great Hang on...Someone suggested "that having another girl there.... girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match" and THEY thought this was a good idea? Its your fantasy Your fun how about saying NO. You dont have to explain. Whoever said about the other girl obviously wants her there for selfish reasons not to make things better for you. Thell them and her to fuck right off. Its your gangbang you make the rules. " If you're not comfortable......then don't agree. Also, check out one of the posts in the Slim Ladys [sic] thread, she mentions her experience in a greedy girls night in a similar scenario to the one that you describe. It's your fantasy, and nothing should risk that, but it sounds like it's getting hijacked by somebody else. Good luck xx | |||
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"I was a little nervous my first time but no way I would of had another girl there. Especially not one I considered nicer looking than me. The host of the one I went to was very welcoming and I felt instantly at ease. Guys fortunately turned up at a steady flow and we all had a drink and chatted before the play started. Totally loved it and had more since. Me always being the only girl among bi guys " See now this sounds ideal to me | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys " Your feelings ane comfort mean more than anything else I don't understand why the host would be so hostile,any decent host would take peoples comfort levels very seriously Another good reason to have cancelled really | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys " Good for you, it's important to feel comfortable and not pushed and it sounds like you were neither | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys " Good on you stick to what you want | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys Your feelings ane comfort mean more than anything else I don't understand why the host would be so hostile,any decent host would take peoples comfort levels very seriously Another good reason to have cancelled really " Simple answer. He'll now have a whole load of guys who've paid quite a bit to attend with no willing participant to offer the GB. A | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys Your feelings ane comfort mean more than anything else I don't understand why the host would be so hostile,any decent host would take peoples comfort levels very seriously Another good reason to have cancelled really Simple answer. He'll now have a whole load of guys who've paid quite a bit to attend with no willing participant to offer the GB. A" | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys Your feelings ane comfort mean more than anything else I don't understand why the host would be so hostile,any decent host would take peoples comfort levels very seriously Another good reason to have cancelled really Simple answer. He'll now have a whole load of guys who've paid quite a bit to attend with no willing participant to offer the GB. A" He'll be fine he has another woman there on the same night and a few weeks to get more guys in,if he had given a monkeys about the OPs level of comfort,then she wouldn't have felt she had to cancel | |||
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"He'll now have a whole load of guys who've paid quite a bit to attend with no willing participant to offer the GB. A There is the other girl there for that. Im not being made to feel guilty that i cancelled plus they pay on the night " No reason you should either! I'd be willing to put money on the fact that at certain events the women involved are 'hired help'. As for paying in the night? Not always the case as some are advertised as 'limited numbers' and 'guest list only' re single males attending - just look at the ads in the events forums. If someone wants to do a GB as a fantasy fulfilment or by choice - it's best to be aware of the set up/environment/attendees list. Otherwise you may find yourself being used as bait to make someone else a lot of money. A | |||
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"He'll now have a whole load of guys who've paid quite a bit to attend with no willing participant to offer the GB. A There is the other girl there for that. Im not being made to feel guilty that i cancelled plus they pay on the night " Its a difficult one, but you have to go with your heart and what you feel. Some clubs are more interested in packing people in, over the best interests of the ladies who want this type of thing (im not suggesting this particular club is doing that) but the fact you were having second thoughts means something wasn't completely right and you have probably made the right choice for yourself x | |||
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"Jenny if.im ever in wales again or ur near Brighton and ud like to do a gb or bukkake with someone thats not a skinny minny id be very happy to assist u (providing the guest list was hand picked by us).. i dont beleive in a club hosting a gb where the lady has no say in who attends.. for me id love to do a gb with the men i havey eyes on.. not any tom dick or harry" Well thats sounds great i live in devon just home visiting family atm. But it would be good to arrange something at some point xx | |||
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"So im having a gangbang on nov 7th at a club in salisbury im not normally the shy type but even thinking about it fills me with nerves. Being a bbw i always think guys wouldnt be interested in me but they obviously are and now to add to my nerves ive kinda been convinced by someone that having another girl there is a good idea said girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match i feel quite intimidated and questioning whether or not to go through with it. Any advice would be great Hang on...Someone suggested "that having another girl there.... girl is lovley but stunning with an amazing body to match" and THEY thought this was a good idea? Its your fantasy Your fun how about saying NO. You dont have to explain. Whoever said about the other girl obviously wants her there for selfish reasons not to make things better for you. Thell them and her to fuck right off. Its your gangbang you make the rules. " | |||
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"Jenny if.im ever in wales again or ur near Brighton and ud like to do a gb or bukkake with someone thats not a skinny minny id be very happy to assist u (providing the guest list was hand picked by us).. i dont beleive in a club hosting a gb where the lady has no say in who attends.. for me id love to do a gb with the men i havey eyes on.. not any tom dick or harry" That sounds like a great idfea And I'd love to be on the list lol I'm sure you could find plenty of guys wanting to help | |||
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"Yeah ive cancelled it. Personally i said atleast 10 times i wasnt comfortable with it but the host kept trying to change my mind as did the girl in question i feel bad because she said she would cancel hers but thats not fair if it was double booked. Mine was booked weeks ago and i clearly stated i didnt want another girl there as the host said my night my rules so now ive cancelled it and being called a let down and time waster But i feel relieved ive said no. Anyway thanks all for the replys " do what your happy with only dont let others tell you what too do . | |||
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