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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For a good "training aid". Bought some small butt plugs, but either to small or taper to quick.resulting in "youch"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend your knees up to you chest and take it much slower. In a bit then push it out. In again, push out again.

Repeat until it pops in then push it out straight away.

I have one of those graduated didlos that looks like a stack of beads increasing in size. That's quite good to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use plenty of lube on you and on the toy. Real anal is best in doggy position. Stimulate your clit the same time. It's amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fingers are best with a lot of lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont forget ur toilet role

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

suggestions for anal:

- glass of wine, then another and another.

- slippery tongue in every crevice

- slippery fingers in every crevice

- slippery tongue and fingers in alternate crevices

- focus on a crevice

glass of wine

- focus on tits

- focus on crevice

... then a x large inflatable dildo. (optional vib)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wow

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

lol, those x large inflatable dildos... Arse's just love em!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now this is the sort of info popular search engines won't give you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ID backslide lube is superb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, doesn't seen to be the lack of lube, more the lack of stretch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait til you are really turned on... after an orgasm, after vag/clit stimulation. ... lube your ass... let him slowly and gently slip his cock in... just an inch. .. breathe and get used to it.... then YOU slide back onto it when it feels right. I love it but only like that. No pushing and shoving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, doesn't seen to be the lack of lube, more the lack of stretch!"

That lube contains ingredients that help to relax the muscle's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks, doesn't seen to be the lack of lube, more the lack of stretch!

That lube contains ingredients that help to relax the muscle's. "

Just googled it (I know, I've learnt my lesson!) And love honey sell it, sounds like fab discount time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.wholesale-sex-toys.co.uk/wholesale/asp/product.asp?add_link=true&title=ID+Lubes

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone

Always make sure you have already cum once before trying for the first time. Your muscles are more relaxed after an orgasm and just start with a couple of fingers before inserting plugs or dildo.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Wait til you are really turned on... after an orgasm, after vag/clit stimulation. ... lube your ass... let him slowly and gently slip his cock in... just an inch. .. breathe and get used to it.... then YOU slide back onto it when it feels right. I love it but only like that. No pushing and shoving "

Mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try one carved from stem ginger ....?

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Relax and try to enjoy x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Relax and try to enjoy x"

I would love to enjoy it with you sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate anal cause it hurt a lot and couldn't relax when Mr L was trying to put it in cause I knew it was going to hurt to start but now I enjoy it still hurts a little but then feels amazing I'd suggest a glass off wine or 2 to chill u out then oral get u nice and wet and orgasm b4 you try and put anything in ur bum start with fingers and a toy to relax then try putting cock in try being on top then u can control how much u put in when it starts to hurt hold it there for a min or pull it out and more lube it will go in just take it slow lots off lube and relax and u will really enjoy it xxx Mrs d xxxx

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We started off using a 'double penetration cock ring' (google it!) which allows us to build up and then swap (after a clean!), it gives a great sensation to both of us and makes anal incredibly straightforward - may have to practice tonight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more relaxed you are hun the easier it gets!

Used to be agony for me but i like it now!! As prev person said - get partner to inch in then stop until you get used to it - then you move back on to him until you have a rhythm!

Enjoy ( well - one day soon I hope!) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good anal lube with beads to loosen me up a bit

Then I do a lot of the work before screaming for a reg friend to fuck me hard

I love it when my body gets to the stage where I'm covered in goose bumps :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a lady who backs onto my cock until she feels comfortable. (With plenty of lube) result: heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief! do people actually stick things up their bottoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to a bit of spit and bite the pillow !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is an acquired taste but once you relax and take it easy it can become very pleasurable. Use plenty of lube and staart off in the spoon position or go on top and take it at your own pace. I really enjoy it both ways now. Its very erotic and pleasurable. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had gave a girl some anal on tuesday

anal bead dildos that start with small beads and get bigger seem to work well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good grief! do people actually stick things up their bottoms? "

I used to. Now I let other people do it instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is definitely a mind over matter thing I think for me it's not so much the feeling that turns me on. It's more thinking about how hot and horny the actual act is. Definitely mind over matter for me just try and relax and definitely easier after you've cum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to a bit of spit and bite the pillow !"

Ok sexy arse! You spit and bite - i'll pop out to Ms Summers for a strap-on! See ya soon lover!!

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