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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Struggling to get meets or even chat here can some genuine couples or females give me advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Moving this to the Advice forum and someone might be able to help you there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moving this to the Advice forum and someone might be able to help you there"
lol cheers cock x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though it is in the support and advice section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling to get meets or even chat here can some genuine couples or females give me advice? "

Even though you aren't what we look for, just at a quick glance two things stand out.

1. No photos.

2. You are in a relationship.

We are sure you understand that there are hundreds of single guys to every couple who may be looking, so you really need to stand out from the others.

If we were looking for a single guy, those two things alone would send us walking straight past your profile.

You can do something about the photos, however you will just have to accept that being attached may well limit your chances on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Swinging support and advice' I think this is already the advice forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Swinging support and advice' I think this is already the advice forum "
10/10 for observation

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Even though it is in the support and advice section "

Pssst it is - because I moved it like I said....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even though it is in the support and advice section

Pssst it is - because I moved it like I said...."
dont understand that can you even move a post?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Even though it is in the support and advice section

Pssst it is - because I moved it like I said....dont understand that can you even move a post?"

I can cos Im a moderator. People cant move their own posts around though, but no-one was answering you in the other forum so thats why I moved it as youre more likely to get advice in here.

Like they have done ^^^^ up there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even though it is in the support and advice section

Pssst it is - because I moved it like I said....dont understand that can you even move a post?

I can cos Im a moderator. People cant move their own posts around though, but no-one was answering you in the other forum so thats why I moved it as youre more likely to get advice in here.

Like they have done ^^^^ up there "
cheers duck so your like a boss on here?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

cheers duck so your like a boss on here?"

Nah, just a moderator.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

cheers duck so your like a boss on here?

Nah, just a moderator."
ok must comment on how lovely your arse is lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Thank you. But have you taken any notice of the advice up there ^^^^ after all that or are you just having a chat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Took note of advice new pics be on sometime this week, have face pic just can't display it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. But have you taken any notice of the advice up there ^^^^ after all that or are you just having a chat? "

Never noticed your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is somewhat bunched up, OP, and while there's nothing really wrong with sentence construction or punctuation, at first sight it does look somewhat like you've rushed to get it down. It's just my view, but first impressions and all that.

One comment I will make, other than the obvious one about no photos, is that you mention that you have fantasies you'd like to fulfil, but don't mention what they are.

You might want to consider expanding on this in order to attract the right people. If you're hoping people are going to message you to find out what they are, you're likely to be in for a long wait. Most simply don't have the time, especially if the next profile they look at gives them all the information they need.

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

Don't want to burst your bubble but

1) you are attached

2) no photos

3) not a very good use of the English language

4) no verifications

5) do you actually have any idea of the male/female ratio on here?

I don't think you have much chance Hun

Perhaps you need to go back to your girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't want to burst your bubble but

1) you are attached

2) no photos

3) not a very good use of the English language

4) no verifications

5) do you actually have any idea of the male/female ratio on here?

I don't think you have much chance Hun

Perhaps you need to go back to your girlfriend

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no bubble burst, going to put some new pics on i do have pics in my friends album and writing is not a strong point of mine I must admit , thanks for advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many comments have been made and lots refer to you being attached.

You reply to all comments but sidestep the attached bits. Do you do this on purpose?

You want to speak about the being attached bit? Do we guess that she doesn't have a clue about you being on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture "

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. At least you are honest. But... She could be on this site too, doing the same as you. Have you tried chatting to her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. "
being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Awww, i'm gutted no one's given him the lecture yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had it more than once on here because it says it on my profile so I've had an inbox or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

"

Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.

The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?

By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.

And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.

The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?

By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.

And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.

The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?

By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.

And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging

"

Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.

The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?

By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.

And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging

Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.

The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?

By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.

And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging

Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it. "

Now now puff puff, however it is perfectly true. Swinging is about being open and not having to cheat, isn't it?

Honesty is a very strong value in our books, but hey, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture

Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!

Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague

Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.

The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?

By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.

And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging

Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it.

Now now puff puff, however it is perfectly true. Swinging is about being open and not having to cheat, isn't it?

Honesty is a very strong value in our books, but hey, each to their own"

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