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Oral sex and STI's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently went for a routine STI check (all clear and am happy to say) and the nurse that did it was talking about the dangers of oral sex.

While appreciate that any exchange of bodily fluid runs a risk, non protected oral sex does seem to be much more accepted within the swinging society.

My question is this - how many people on this site can put an STI that they have picked up down to oral sex.

I cant believe that it is any less risky than other forms of non protected sex.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I just make sure they do throat swabs when I get tested. If others feel they wish to use protection while doing oral then that's fine. I have weighed the risks vs the rank taste of condoms and made my decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms taste disgusting. End of. That and strangely I like the taste of cock in my mouth. . I just make sure I get checked often enough and that includes mouth swabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told if the guy does not cum in your mouth the risks are very low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our time on fab we have either been very lucky , or perhaps the fact that a monthly visit to the gum clinic may have helped , but we have had no sti's . And would never dream of performing , or receiving , protected oral .

We would rather not have a meet if there was an insistence on protected oral , and have turned meets down for this reason .

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I was told if the guy does not cum in your mouth the risks are very low"

Other than for herpes simplex, chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis, human papilloma virus , molluscum contagiosum, HIV and hepatitis A, B & C the risks are very low.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"molluscum contagiosum"

Wha??

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

I ( mrs ) do oral sex without condoms. I don't have anyone but Mr come in my mouth ( which I swallow every drop!)

Still a risk when playing yes, but regular visits to the Gum clinic , with throat swabs included helps me make that informed decision to continue how I do.

Oral sex with a condom? I would rather go without and refrain from the awfull condom breath too ... To date... Never had a possitive result from a clinic , from any tests I have had. Complacent is something I am not either tho. We both take our sexual health seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I cant believe that it is any less risky than other forms of non protected sex. "

It is a much lesser risk than unprotected anal or vaginal. Anal being higher risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one if any are going to admit to it if they had.. The % must be very low though.. Myself and several of my very greedy companions who always do oral without and have never had a positive test result yet.. Could be just luck but the amount we have had.. If someone is/ was going to catch something it would be us and we haven't ( yet! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one if any are going to admit to it if they had.. The % must be very low though.. Myself and several of my very greedy companions who always do oral without and have never had a positive test result yet.. Could be just luck but the amount we have had.. If someone is/ was going to catch something it would be us and we haven't ( yet! ) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"molluscum contagiosum

Wha??"

If you shave apparently you can get little slugs around your pubes. Apparently they prefer shaven havens to pubes because it's easier to slime around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rememberer several years ago, a young girl admitting in forums that she'd contracted some STD. I think it was herpes. What should have been an educational thread turned into something quite horrid for the girl concerned. It wasn't nice reading.

Anyway I'm all for raising awareness. I visit GUM a few times a year, however I'm not aware any of my sexual partners do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"molluscum contagiosum

Wha??"

Do not grow on the face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"molluscum contagiosum

Wha??"

Wikipedia - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molluscum_contagiosum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got gonorrhea from unprotected oral. It does happen. No symptoms either and no idea who it came from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so glad not to have done anything with anyone, just waiting for the right one I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how everyone vindicates oral without as there choice and they know the risks, yet if a barebacker says the same they are vilified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Amazing how everyone vindicates oral without as there choice and they know the risks, yet if a barebacker says the same they are vilified "

Yep. This always makes me smile and the way that protected oral is almost looked down on. There have been posts from women in the past who had oral gonorrhea so it is very possible to catch something this way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I got gonorrhea from unprotected oral. It does happen. No symptoms either and no idea who it came from. "

Oh sorry.didn't see your post when I wrote mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything you have to weigh up your risks. Get tested regularly, get a hep b jab and choose if oral without is for u.

I've always been lucky and not contracted anything but I know that it could happen I do oral without but I don't usually let men cum in my mouth, it does reduce the risk quite dramatically and I'll continue 3 monthly checks and choose to take the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok gum clinic?

This is a new word for us.

How does one go about getting tested and what should you say when they ask why you need testing?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ok gum clinic?

This is a new word for us.

How does one go about getting tested and what should you say when they ask why you need testing? "

Make an appointment (so you don't have to wait with the drop ins), then get in and tell them you swing and ask for the full works. That's all you have to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry is this at gp surgery?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sorry is this at gp surgery? "

if you google GUM (genito urinary medicine) clinic in your area it will tell you where your nearest one is.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Sorry is this at gp surgery? "
local hospitals usually have a gum clinic dept too , just call for details or look on the hospitals web sites .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry is this at gp surgery?

if you google GUM (genito urinary medicine) clinic in your area it will tell you where your nearest one is. "

Can I ask, is there a charge for regular users? xx

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Sorry is this at gp surgery?

if you google GUM (genito urinary medicine) clinic in your area it will tell you where your nearest one is.

Can I ask, is there a charge for regular users? xx "
no not at all , you just need check opening times, see if it is a walk in clinic or need an appointment to attend.Just be open and honest. Let them know you swing.. They also privide free condoms . Is all very matter if fact these days and with less stigma than the old 'Clap clinics'

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Opps! Sorry... Just realized I replied and you didn't ask me! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opps! Sorry... Just realized I replied and you didn't ask me! Lol "

It was meant for anybody, and cheers for answering the question xx

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Opps! Sorry... Just realized I replied and you didn't ask me! Lol

It was meant for anybody, and cheers for answering the question xx "
your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go 3 monthly and there is about 5 in a ten mile radius near us. they are called new attitudes clinic u don't even have to speak to receptionist just check ur self in. I had a girly gossip with my nurse, talking about our jobs and she was asking all oboist the clubs etc

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