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Coping mechanisms?

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By *aughtyButExtraNice69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

If your going through a sh*tty tough time,, whats your go too thing? N why do you go for that?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Exercise

Make a list of the positives

Good upbeat music

Art

A lovely autumn walk

Good luck

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Take my 2 German Sheperds for a walk love to watch them playing and running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from Fab forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music is great... as is an early night.. sleep can work wonders...

As a big rugby league fan, indulging in my passion is also something I would look to do

I hope things are looking up soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I eat sweet stuff and have a tendency to bottle things up. I'll willingly help or try to help others but Im not good at accepting the same when it's offered to me

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

Exercise.

Find a way to get a hands free endorphin release.

Bury my head in the sand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a cuddle and remind each other what's important in life.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i like solitude ..i spend all day in parks running ..working out with my own thoughts ...if you get up around 4.40 - 5 am you are the only person in the park ...the dawn chorus is special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my own company and my headphones with some good music playing through them, and a long walk!

Always blows away the cobwebs and makes me feel 100% better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go to music and a nice bottle of red. Doesn't make the problem go away but I can forget about it for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a solitary drive into the Welsh mountains to think.

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By *heDevilsinthedetailMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Go jogging or take motorbike out for a ride. Clear my head and get some fresh air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take myself off for a walk etc and then a chat with a close friend can usually help me see light at the end of the tunnel. Xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

realise tomorrow will no doubt be better than the shitty one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually getting my bike out early morning, turning my phone of and going for a long ride helps most things for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trace back who dumped their bad mood on me x

Sometimes you just have to realise that's it's not within your control and let it go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea,little blue pill and bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going for a run with loud music playing in my ears.. Makes me forget everything..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. The hubby use my wicked sense of humour to deal with shitty times. I always try to remain upbeat. 2 redundancies will do that to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at YouTube and concentrate on all the fails videos. There is nothing better than shadenfreude to lift your mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually go to music and a nice bottle of red. Doesn't make the problem go away but I can forget about it for a while.

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By *amesGBMan
over a year ago

Cyprus

Living in Cyprus currently - scuba diving or kite surfing. Can't think of anything else while doing those.

Good luck.

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By *ewexperience83Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Gym cloths on, headphones in music full blast go to my little corner in the gym and work out like a mad women. I get so wrapped up in my own little routine I forget negative things taking over.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Depends on what caused the shitty mood and what mood I was in previously.

Sometimes it is bash the shit out of a punch bag. Or running. The endorphin release at the end makes it worthwhile.

Other times I cross stitch or read tarot cards. Just shut the world out, and ignore everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be wierd. I don't have a go to place. I tend to just be miserable whilst getting on with stuff I need to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I like song lyrics let me quote Family Guy episode - 420 "A bag o' , a bag o' , oh everything is better with a bag o' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I eat sweet stuff and have a tendency to bottle things up. I'll willingly help or try to help others but Im not good at accepting the same when it's offered to me "

This and I become ocd at cleaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to cook a lot. I find banging the pots and pans about and making things from scratch therapeutic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide, a few days by myself not talking to anyone and doing exactly what I like makes me feel much better @):-

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Bike ride with good music or go for a walk. Take time for yourself

I also have a lighthouse tattoo that says shine on. Helps me keep optimistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music for me.

I can choose a new mood by the music I put on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sit and bawl - cany help it i cry if im angry or sad but if im depressed the house gets a good clean through top to bottom and 'stuff' gets thrown away (but in a demented way and its non stop until its all done) -- off to sit in my corner and rock to and fro

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