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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone,

The male counterpart to the profile attached here!

Could I ask a couple of questions and get some feedback please?

1, would a few of you mind giving our profile a once over and giving some feedback? We're new to this whole scene and don't want to be doing the wrong things!

2. The female counterpart to this profile (G) aka my wife, is looking for a female to play with whilst I watch, she has no interest in men and I have no sexual interest in anybody but her... I just want to perv

Thanks in advance.

W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good profile. Very clear on what you're after. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

To add to number 2...

Why is it so hard to find that woman? Lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a good profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why is it so hard to find that woman? Lol"

Because there are very few around. And some may think that when you say 'you just want to perv' that you are just after a plaything to satisfy your fantasies with scant disregard for their enjoyment.

That said, it's good that you are very honest and specific in what you are looking for with couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah good shout! Thank you!

If nothing else, that's one bit of advice I can use to alter the profile!

Thanks

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wouldnt put on a show for a guy to watch

Seems to be all about you maybe the women either want ff or mff where its both of the couple taking part ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a good shout. Thank you

When you say it seems to be all about me... Do you mean me personally or me as in us as a couple?

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That's a good shout. Thank you

When you say it seems to be all about me... Do you mean me personally or me as in us as a couple? "

Yous as a couple, me personally just wouldnt ever put on a show for someone would make me feel uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So my asking to be there whilst G is with another woman is too much?

It's not so much of a show, I'll be involved and it does say that in the profile. I just won't be involved with anyone but G.

I just thought of a Couple of edits I can throw in. A wishlist of sorts...

Cheers

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So my asking to be there whilst G is with another woman is too much?

It's not so much of a show, I'll be involved and it does say that in the profile. I just won't be involved with anyone but G.

I just thought of a Couple of edits I can throw in. A wishlist of sorts...

Cheers"

For me personally yes, but im not the only female some females may like that its just that i dont, if thats what you want then thats what you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciated all the same.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Not for me by any stretch of the imagination but if that's what you want then that's fine. Good luck and have fun - I hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be for me. If I meet a couple I want to play with both or I'd rather have a more intimate FF meet without him there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All fair points.

Unfortunately raking read out defeats the object of us being here so it's sort of written in stone.

Maybe I can reword the profile so it doesn't seem so sleazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is honest, but I think it will be very difficult to find what your looking for but good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In theory, if I was to look for a ffm threesomes, I'd have more luck?

Am I understanding that right?

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Wouldn't be for me. If I meet a couple I want to play with both or I'd rather have a more intimate FF meet without him there. "

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In theory, if I was to look for a ffm threesomes, I'd have more luck?

Am I understanding that right?"

I would say so but your going from looking for the next to impossible to something really difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In theory, if I was to look for a ffm threesomes, I'd have more luck?

Am I understanding that right?

I would say so but your going from looking for the next to impossible to something really difficult "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing easy is worth having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing easy is worth having "

Rather than focusing on what you want, why not have the attitude to make friends and connections and things just happen on your journey that's what we've found

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm with you. But given where we are, and given the fact that most of the people you connect with simply ask what you're looking for, it makes making friendships difficult.

There is no way that G would allow herself or me to be around anybody we hadn't had built a rapport with anyway.

She's the brains of the outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be for me. If I meet a couple I want to play with both or I'd rather have a more intimate FF meet without him there.

This exactly"

Absolutely! I would avoid any couple that just wanted a show for the male. Its supposed to be about fun for all not just being used as a sex toy.

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