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By *atisfactionKing OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I joined this site for sexual experiences i would love to join in with couples and in group sessions and i know that the easiest way to get involved is to attend the posted events.

The problem i'm having is finding older women (for one on one or couples), it's one of my biggest fantasies but there just doesn't seem to be any women looking for younger men. I may be young but i'm not inexperienced or immature in any way.

so is there any advice that anybody could give me?

thankyou

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

For us it isn't anything to do with wether younger men are experienced enough or mature enough, it just wouldn't feel right for me ( Mrs) to play with anyone younger than my kids ( adults really but I am guessing you know what I mean )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, there is just an "ick" factor when the person is of an age that could be your child, for us, anyway. Or the same age as nephews etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for us,we do meet younger guys but wont meet them as young as you only reason is my son is same age as you and just wouldnt feel right..

But there are plenty of older couples who do meet younger guys so its just a case of searching for them and making sure you are what they are looking for

Good luck

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By *atisfactionKing OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

ok i can understand that completley, its just a shame that there aren't more women looking for younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a post in the suggestions forum today for a search function to search for people looking for *your* age group, I do think that'd be useful, especially for guys like this.

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By *atisfactionKing OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

that would be useful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep looking, have patience, haven't looked at your profile but hopefully you have put lots of effort and information into it, stand out from the crowd, send well thought out messages to people whose criteria you fit, always read thier profile before sending a message.

Copy and pasting general information into a message is (despite comments to the contrary in the forums)a very good thing, just remember to add some personal bits to show that you have read thier profile in with the general stuff and pertaining to them.

It is not always enough to say

can travel - how far ?

can accommodate - when ? overnight or just for the meet ?

can't travel - well maybe locally ?

available when ? daytimes ? evenings ? weekends ? short notice ?

The more info in your profile the more chance you have

Got a sense of humour ? let them know that

Can hold a conversation - show them that in your message or tell them

Will you respect all those you meet (male half of couple, the woman you hope to play with - make sure they know you understand the importance of respect.

The likes box, don't just leave them all in, if your not into watersports take it off the list, it might put some off, if your happy with it leave it in lots of people enjoy it and so on with all the options.

Failing to complete that box indicates people cant be bothered and some think if you cant be bothered with your profile you probably wont bother too much with the meet or turning up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello martyn

I have to say you are wrong, once you become a verified member it will be alot easyer for you

you seem like a nice guy and it really comes through and that will work in your favour.

be polite and respectfull always! and your a good looking guy so I think you will go far

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually it was the pics on your profile that put me off. Its the false kind of posing that my teenage godson does in photos.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Actually it was the pics on your profile that put me off. Its the false kind of posing that my teenage godson does in photos."

I hope I've misread that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol Yes you did. my godson is fully clothed. its the head down leaning back arms crossed arms arrogant he thinks he's a gangster poses.

lol that was the comparison i was making

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By *atisfactionKing OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

thankyou for all the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i dont know i thought the pics showed what us ladies could be missing out on.......

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By *atisfactionKing OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

thankyou lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very nicely written post and profile.

wish you lots of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the age factor is twofold:

Firstly the 'ick' factor that another poster mentioned - shagging someone young enough to be your son is not to everyone's liking.

But i think the second is compatability sometimes and the knowledge of shared experiences when you were growing up that you both can relate to. Lol for me it was big hair in the 80's, Spandau ballet and opal fruits (fuckers now changed to starburst good god!). It is this 'click' factor when you chat that is impossible to replicate with an unusually large age gap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the age factor is twofold:

Firstly the 'ick' factor that another poster mentioned - shagging someone young enough to be your son is not to everyone's liking.

But i think the second is compatability sometimes and the knowledge of shared experiences when you were growing up that you both can relate to. Lol for me it was big hair in the 80's, Spandau ballet and opal fruits (fuckers now changed to starburst good god!). It is this 'click' factor when you chat that is impossible to replicate with an unusually large age gap."

I think you've got it there, i fail to see what we have in common with young people so i dont see that there will be compatibility at all.

No matter how mature someone thinks they are, its what we think that matters and youngster have little experience so thats rubbish too

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hi Martyn

I think you look fine on your pictures, and I am looking for young guys.

( You just might have to grow a bit more hair . . . lol )

I would always want to chat and explore a person's views and opinions before arranging a meet, to make sure that the wow factor was there.

Good luck

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the age factor is twofold:

Firstly the 'ick' factor that another poster mentioned - shagging someone young enough to be your son is not to everyone's liking.

But i think the second is compatability sometimes and the knowledge of shared experiences when you were growing up that you both can relate to. Lol for me it was big hair in the 80's, Spandau ballet and opal fruits (fuckers now changed to starburst good god!). It is this 'click' factor when you chat that is impossible to replicate with an unusually large age gap.

I think you've got it there, i fail to see what we have in common with young people so i dont see that there will be compatibility at all.

No matter how mature someone thinks they are, its what we think that matters and youngster have little experience so thats rubbish too"

Yes, have to agree with you there!

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By *atisfactionKing OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

interetsing points made i understand alot more now i just hope i run into a few of these older women on this site

p.s. _ohjane you look stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, we like guys your age!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nothing against guys of any age, i do tend not to meet guy your age thro simply because i feel very insecure getting my saggy bits and stretch marks out next to a 20 year old

I think the fantasy is there for a lot of guys your age but the reality is....older women have older bodies and i really dont think young guys think about that

I just really dont think if i met someone your age they would like me once they saw what i had to offer lol

So i stay with guys my own age as they are more understanding that your dont look 18 forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have nothing against guys of any age, i do tend not to meet guy your age thro simply because i feel very insecure getting my saggy bits and stretch marks out next to a 20 year old

I think the fantasy is there for a lot of guys your age but the reality is....older women have older bodies and i really dont think young guys think about that

I just really dont think if i met someone your age they would like me once they saw what i had to offer lol

So i stay with guys my own age as they are more understanding that your dont look 18 forever

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My playmates range from 36 - 56.

All bar one are athletes/sportsmen. The one who isn't a sportsman is a 6ft 4 dancer model, one runs marathons for fun and will be doing the Great North Run as an afternoon workout.

Their bodies are fine, fit and toned: mine is not!

The Michelin man is suing for his tyres back and everything, with the aid of gravity, headed south years ago.

I prefer not to play with men the same age as my children with whom I have nothing in common, doesn't mean I don't like toned, fit, handsome men!

Oooooh, it's a huge turn on and confidence booster having sexy men trying their best to please you, regardless of flaws!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have nothing against guys of any age, i do tend not to meet guy your age thro simply because i feel very insecure getting my saggy bits and stretch marks out next to a 20 year old

I think the fantasy is there for a lot of guys your age but the reality is....older women have older bodies and i really dont think young guys think about that

I just really dont think if i met someone your age they would like me once they saw what i had to offer lol

So i stay with guys my own age as they are more understanding that your dont look 18 forever

My playmates range from 36 - 56.

All bar one are athletes/sportsmen. The one who isn't a sportsman is a 6ft 4 dancer model, one runs marathons for fun and will be doing the Great North Run as an afternoon workout.

Their bodies are fine, fit and toned: mine is not!

The Michelin man is suing for his tyres back and everything, with the aid of gravity, headed south years ago.

I prefer not to play with men the same age as my children with whom I have nothing in common, doesn't mean I don't like toned, fit, handsome men!

Oooooh, it's a huge turn on and confidence booster having sexy men trying their best to please you, regardless of flaws! "

When i went to the beach party i pulled a very hot, fit toned sexy guy, ive had 2 kids so ive a fat one pack as opposed to his 6 pack but my god was he hot. And he has invited me to accompany him to a club again, beat that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oooooh, it's a huge turn on and confidence booster having sexy men trying their best to please you, regardless of flaws! "

Here here!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While at Chams for the Beach Party, I just could not resist the advances from a fit young gentleman with a pert botty either! Hopefully, I'll meet up with him for more another time at the club!

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