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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have an attractive fuck buddie. In all fairness she's a very good looking girl. Last 6 times though she's had multiple orgasms ans I've not cum once. Is there something wrong with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts on Doctors hat.

Some single males have this problem when they have sex because they have become used to orgasaming through personal hand relief.

Basically if you haven't been getting a lot of female action lately and have been taking care of yourself, yup we all do it, then maybe this is the problem.

If this is the case does she "finish you by hand" if so does that always work.

Don't let her, don't do it yourself, go through the pain barrier of not getting the release for a while.

Your body will soon get back to having an orgasm through penatrative sex and it won't take long because without finishing by hand you will be able to orgasm much quicker as the pressure builds (ask BP they know about pressure building up)

hope this helps

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Well, there's nothing wrong with your self-promotion technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... Is there something wrong with me"

Yes, but not what you think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, there's nothing wrong with your self-promotion technique."

Not just me...good I was beginning to think I was getting very cynical.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

[Removed by poster at 19/07/10 11:49:50]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some of us are too cynical...maybe some of us aren't cynical enough.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

So every question asked on the forums is a "look at me " thread? I think maybe he might have thought of a different subject to do that.

To the OP, it is like everything, the more we get wound up and worry about things, , the worse it gets.

Can you cum when alone? Is it just with others that you can't? then it could be something in your mind blocking it.

Try not to put a huge importance on it, enjoy the rest of the fun that goes on and try not to think too much about it, and it may just happen.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Maybe some of us are too cynical...maybe some of us aren't cynical enough."

Maybe some people just don't know a middle ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some of us are too cynical...maybe some of us aren't cynical enough."

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Are you just trying to put people off posting or trying to annoy other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is never put off perving Rugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you just trying to put people off posting or trying to annoy other people?"

If you let us know the full list of people that are allowed to have an opinion,as well as you,it may clear things up.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"is never put off perving Rugger "

lol hello couple.....perving is a good thing

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Are you just trying to put people off posting or trying to annoy other people?

If you let us know the full list of people that are allowed to have an opinion,as well as you,it may clear things up."

Everyone......including the OP who asked for help.

The quickest way to put people off posting is to ridicule what they say.

The man may genuinely have a problem and if others want advice about anything they may well not post if that is the reaction they will get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would have thought everyone who posts on these forums is old enough and big enough to look after themselves.Now if I am of the opinion that certain people are using forums cynically then I have every right to express that opinion...but IF people are genuinely looking for advice I would have thought it would express that problem and only that.I cannot read what is written by OP and take it seriously.THAT is MY opinion...expressed.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

* steps away from the keyboard *

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Speaking personally...

Every single post on here is a "look at me" one - this is an unavoidable result of the type of site.

In respect of the genuine problem/subtle advert question - some problems are described with unnecessary detail ("attractive" girl, "multiple" orgasms, "six" times) as to trigger my cynicism. If it seems genuine, I'll treat it as such, if it doesn't, ditto. If I'm wrong, I'll apologise.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I read it as the man saying the last six times we met she had multiple orgasms, ie lots of, there is nothing surprising about that, women have them when horny.

Ok he could be blowing his own trumpet with that one, but he isn't by saying he can't cum and does anyone have advice. I know a person who genuinely has the same problem and thinks it IS a problem.

Anyone having an opinion that this is a cynical post is allowed it, and there is no need to apologise for it, but don't be surprised if those of us who are only a 70% cynical person questions it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to say the OP's name doesn't help me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got to say the OP's name doesn't help me either."

its a Swinging Support and Advice

he jester an ur bertie wats wrong with

his id? rugbycpl gd idea 2 step away

from keyboard think ill do the same xx

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Can I shout "knob" then step away from the keyboard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing that question was rhetoical...I'll step away too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I shout "knob" then step away from the keyboard?"

Feel free to shout whatever you want...as long as you are happy for the shout you may get back.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Well, there's nothing wrong with your self-promotion technique."

Lol I was thinking that but did not want to post it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some might say that those taking the piss and not giving advice are "promoting themselves" by just using the thread to make a comment.

Others might say that those giving advice are only doing so to "promote themselves"

There are people who start threads to "promote themselves"

We ALL have the option to ignore threads, unless of course some people think that if they ignore a thread they might not get noticed and feel they need to post to "promote themselves"

Just a thought

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Some might say that those taking the piss and not giving advice are "promoting themselves" by just using the thread to make a comment.

Others might say that those giving advice are only doing so to "promote themselves"

There are people who start threads to "promote themselves"

We ALL have the option to ignore threads, unless of course some people think that if they ignore a thread they might not get noticed and feel they need to post to "promote themselves"

Just a thought "

I agree, that's what I said earlier in the thread.

Is this the first time we've agreed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surprisingly not, there have been a number of occasions when we have agreed (sorry ) I will try not to in future God it would be terrible in the forums if you and I started agreeing on everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest problem with "attention seeking" posts be they advice, questions, cyinical is that most of the time they get the type of attention the post doesn't want or need.

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By *othsidesnowMan
over a year ago

Charlton

It's all in the technique mate, just keep practicing. You must be doing something right if you can be verified for kissing so well via webcam - that's quite an achievement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Puts on Doctors hat.

Some single males have this problem when they have sex because they have become used to orgasaming through personal hand relief.

Basically if you haven't been getting a lot of female action lately and have been taking care of yourself, yup we all do it, then maybe this is the problem.

If this is the case does she "finish you by hand" if so does that always work.

Don't let her, don't do it yourself, go through the pain barrier of not getting the release for a while.

Your body will soon get back to having an orgasm through penatrative sex and it won't take long because without finishing by hand you will be able to orgasm much quicker as the pressure builds (ask BP they know about pressure building up)

hope this helps "

Does that make him a wanker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit more practise and by the time you get to 60 as my "cough" regular is, you should be able to come at least 10 times

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