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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

and a teacher thats all i ever wanted from here as i really dont know what to do anymore. i have actually forgotten what to do in a sexual situation now as it been so long without, knowing me if i met anyone i would fumble and not know what the hell im doing, but im always willing to relearn. so im asking will any ladies or couple please take me under them, or should i say under their wing, i know im going to get a lot of criticism and moaning about me on this one, about how crap my profile is and my overall look about things, but im ready to learn, so take me please

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

judging by the quietness that is emanating from you all then, it would be a disconcerting and 100% no then on helping me out, but i am quietly hopeful of something, i have no idea what it is though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The only thing about your timing is that 'The Italian Job' is on so noone will be meeting for another hour and a bit.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"judging by the quietness that is emanating from you all then, it would be a disconcerting and 100% no then on helping me out, but i am quietly hopeful of something, i have no idea what it is though "

Sounds like your looking for a sympathy shag to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked a very similar questoon 17 weeks ago. Did you take on board any of the advice?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You asked a very similar questoon 17 weeks ago. Did you take on board any of the advice?"

He did change his profile 3 weeks ago

Ps. Op! It's the mafia in the mountains scene!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence OP but im here for fun not to be anyones teacher or take them under my wing. given how these threads have gone down in the past, you will probably find thats the mjority vote on the subject too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence OP but im here for fun not to be anyones teacher or take them under my wing. given how these threads have gone down in the past, you will probably find thats the mjority vote on the subject too"

This call it selfish but we want pleasure and fun for all concerned. We meet rarely enough for our liking as it is. Don't want to waste time teaching people the ropes.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"and a teacher thats all i ever wanted from here as i really dont know what to do anymore. i have actually forgotten what to do in a sexual situation now as it been so long without, knowing me if i met anyone i would fumble and not know what the hell im doing, but im always willing to relearn. so im asking will any ladies or couple please take me under them, or should i say under their wing, i know im going to get a lot of criticism and moaning about me on this one, about how crap my profile is and my overall look about things, but im ready to learn, so take me please "

In a spirit of genuinely trying to help. Your post screams "needy"!!

This is a swinging site not a shaggin site for single guys who can't function in the real world. Honestly, lIsten to yourself!

Go out to a pub or a club, talk to women, actually talk to them with no expectation of getting a shag or being "taught" anything.fab is no substitute for real life. It's incredible how many single guys don't get this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had a vagina you would have a list of people offering to help. Unfortunately that is not the case.

You will just have to keep plugging away like the rest of us. Posting you have forgot what to do won't help matters.

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

yep if i had a vagina i would have multiple emails, but seeing as i havent, it looks like ill have to use my hand yet again, i dont want a pity shag or anything like that, i would like some mutual respect on this site, it does feel like im unworthy of being on this site as i dont meet peoples expectations or sound needy when all i ask is to have some fun like the rest of you. i understand im ugly and have a bleak outlook on life, but that is what i have become as i dont expect anything in life, as i have to work and show what i can do. but i am telling you the truth about forgetting what to do, i just thought someone might be kind enough to help me out, it seems not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow your coming off as amazing on this thread, bet it's made them queue round the block.......

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"yep if i had a vagina i would have multiple emails, but seeing as i havent, it looks like ill have to use my hand yet again, i dont want a pity shag or anything like that, i would like some mutual respect on this site, it does feel like im unworthy of being on this site as i dont meet peoples expectations or sound needy when all i ask is to have some fun like the rest of you. i understand im ugly and have a bleak outlook on life, but that is what i have become as i dont expect anything in life, as i have to work and show what i can do. but i am telling you the truth about forgetting what to do, i just thought someone might be kind enough to help me out, it seems not."
Oh woe is me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like your looking for a sympathy shag to be honest "

...and as you may have gathered, this approach is rarely successful.

Given the high number of single guys compared to women and couples on this site, do you really think that you're making yourself appealing to anyone?

You need to stand out for the right reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your comments do come across as a "woe is me" kinda thing, how active are you in trying to get meets? Do you go to socials or clubs?

Your sex life is your responsibility and no one else's, you might find someone who is willing to "take you under their wing" and teach you. It wouldn't be our cup of tea though.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doom and gloom, wanting someone to teach you and wanting someone to take you under their wing.

Negativity will get you no where, being posetive, upbeat and thick skinned will get you places. You want sex and don't we all but swinging is about mutual pleasure, you have said what you need and what you want but nothing about what you can offer.

You post is thick with self pity and wanting sympathy, man up!

You need to be strong here or you will fall by the wayside all bitter and twisted. Internet swinging isn't the only way, there is a real world, get out there go to socials go to clubs meet people your going to have far better luck than Sat at home staring at a screen wondering about your self worth, it's soul destroying so stop it. Turn your p.c. off and go to a club.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"yep if i had a vagina i would have multiple emails, but seeing as i havent, it looks like ill have to use my hand yet again, i dont want a pity shag or anything like that, i would like some mutual respect on this site, it does feel like im unworthy of being on this site as i dont meet peoples expectations or sound needy when all i ask is to have some fun like the rest of you. i understand im ugly and have a bleak outlook on life, but that is what i have become as i dont expect anything in life, as i have to work and show what i can do. but i am telling you the truth about forgetting what to do, i just thought someone might be kind enough to help me out, it seems not."

yeah right I believe that you have forgotten how to have sex ok mate

To me you just come across like your want someone to feel sorry for you all this talk about your ugly and know it oh come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep if i had a vagina i would have multiple emails, but seeing as i havent, it looks like ill have to use my hand yet again, i dont want a pity shag or anything like that, i would like some mutual respect on this site, it does feel like im unworthy of being on this site as i dont meet peoples expectations or sound needy when all i ask is to have some fun like the rest of you. i understand im ugly and have a bleak outlook on life, but that is what i have become as i dont expect anything in life, as i have to work and show what i can do. but i am telling you the truth about forgetting what to do, i just thought someone might be kind enough to help me out, it seems not."

Dude, have a bit of self respect. Give yourself a slap, delete your profile now, go out and start a life away from this site. It is doing you no good and distorting your view of what sex is and how people get it.

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could"

bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could"

If you expect people to shag you to do you a favour what does that say about them.

You want something in this life you go get it. Your verification shows your capable so stop moping an get out and get some action.

Confidence is an attractive trait we are not a charity we are in this for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could"

So you would help someone else and not yourself?

Seriously get a grip, your not cut out for this lifestyle you need thick skin here, the internet can not help you with your problems but people can. Go out and spend some time with some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep if i had a vagina i would have multiple emails, but seeing as i havent, it looks like ill have to use my hand yet again, i dont want a pity shag or anything like that, i would like some mutual respect on this site, it does feel like im unworthy of being on this site as i dont meet peoples expectations or sound needy when all i ask is to have some fun like the rest of you. i understand im ugly and have a bleak outlook on life, but that is what i have become as i dont expect anything in life, as i have to work and show what i can do. but i am telling you the truth about forgetting what to do, i just thought someone might be kind enough to help me out, it seems not."

OP - you have said you are ugly and have a bleak outlook on life. Do you seriously think these qualities will make people want to meet you? Seriously? If yes - you need help. If no - you still need help. I'd usually advise go to socials but I doubt that would help you. As was previously advised on your other thread - an escort would be more appropriate.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

We don't know you. We have given you advice - lots of it over many months. Only you are in charge of your destiny, not us. If you wanted sex so bad, you can easily buy it, prostitutes don't care what you look like. 'ugly' is also subjective not objective so one persons ugly is anothers fittie.

May I give you an example of pointlessness? Why mention you lost your virginity at 25? In what way do you think that helps you get a meet? It doesn't, does it? So why put it in your profile? Self fulfilling self destructionalised failure? Or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could"

Maybe this lifestyle isn't for you, if you can't go out and meet people in your normal everyday life how do you think your going to go about meeting people on here?

And seriously your quote of " your never going to help a person in need" is just awful, a person in need is someone who is genuinely someone that needs help with day to day living not someone who can't get a meet and isn't having sex! So don't try and pull the guilt card trick on here as it really won't do you any favours. Maybe get your normal life into shape before indulging into the swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't know you. We have given you advice - lots of it over many months. Only you are in charge of your destiny, not us. If you wanted sex so bad, you can easily buy it, prostitutes don't care what you look like. 'ugly' is also subjective not objective so one persons ugly is anothers fittie.

May I give you an example of pointlessness? Why mention you lost your virginity at 25? In what way do you think that helps you get a meet? It doesn't, does it? So why put it in your profile? Self fulfilling self destructionalised failure? Or what? "

I agree, but what's happening in the Italian Job

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Its all just such a pain really...isn't it? Messages don't work so a wink will do. The pics are rubbish but your hair's a mess and the comb's in the other room. There are socials but you don't drive so you'd have to catch the bus...so there's the timetable to look up. You've changed your profile so surely to goodness that'll do for the next six years. My sympathy has run screaming out the door! Would you like us to find you someone, bring her round and take her home when you're finished? We can even choose one of your condom collection, put it on for you and plonk her on top!!! Yes, i've reached outspoken rude old lady stage. Just grow up and bloody well get on with it and stop moaning. If you're not prepared to put the effort in, you'll get hee haw out!!!

This is not my quote, but a very apt one from a female who quoted on your last plea for help 3 weeks ago! If you want someone to do the work for you, you will have a very long wait and your desperation is getting very tiresome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could"

Thing is the people on this thread have helped you, theyve gave you great advice, but that isnt good enough, your only interested in a lady opening her legs by the sounds of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep if i had a vagina i would have multiple emails, but seeing as i havent, it looks like ill have to use my hand yet again, i dont want a pity shag or anything like that, i would like some mutual respect on this site, it does feel like im unworthy of being on this site as i dont meet peoples expectations or sound needy when all i ask is to have some fun like the rest of you. i understand im ugly and have a bleak outlook on life, but that is what i have become as i dont expect anything in life, as i have to work and show what i can do. but i am telling you the truth about forgetting what to do, i just thought someone might be kind enough to help me out, it seems not."

Maybe its not us you should be ask8ng but a Sex Therapist

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell"
Face palm

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell"

if your that insecure why are you on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are so unsexy. Go to a club, watch and learn. Most of us have busy lives and don't wish to waste our precious 'Fun' moments teaching others - although Brad and Ange we would make exceptions for xxxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You didn't waste my time, mate, cos I was watching 'The Italian Job' and posting at the same time. Who sez men can't multi-task?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pitiful whingeing won't make anyone feel sorry for you.

You have been given advise but won't listed.

Your clearly depressed, the help you need is not here but with an appropriate specialist.

What do you expect from swinging, it's a serious questions that you should think long and hard about before answering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

if your that insecure why are you on a swinging site "

OP if you insecure, socially inept, cant handle rejection or all of the above swinging is not meant for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell"

Oh wait wait!! I'll meet ya! I'm only here to service insecure men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have been given plenty of advice, if your not willing to listen to the advice then that's your problem and not ours.

You got to help yourself and learn to like yourself get out and about and live your life

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell"

FFS - please make it stop!

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

Oh wait wait!! I'll meet ya! I'm only here to service insecure men "

no you wouldnt, i know that for a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

Oh wait wait!! I'll meet ya! I'm only here to service insecure men

no you wouldnt, i know that for a fact"

Oh dear God you can't be that stupid!

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

FFS - please make it stop! "

i did everyone keeps on going though, END

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

FFS - please make it stop!

i did everyone keeps on going though,

END"

Or is it?

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

A most interesting read!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, sorry I know you wanted the thread to stop but I just wanted to wish you all the best - growing up I had a lot of confidence issues which limited me and I wish I could go back and relive all those years of lost opportunities.

People saying 'stop whining' and 'man up' really doesn't help. I know.

I hope you find what you're looking for.

But possibly that won't be on here.

If it's love, try a dating site. If it's sex, an escort site. All the best buddy.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"and a teacher thats all i ever wanted from here as i really dont know what to do anymore. i have actually forgotten what to do in a sexual situation now as it been so long without, knowing me if i met anyone i would fumble and not know what the hell im doing, but im always willing to relearn. so im asking will any ladies or couple please take me under them, or should i say under their wing, i know im going to get a lot of criticism and moaning about me on this one, about how crap my profile is and my overall look about things, but im ready to learn, so take me please "
. What interests do you have outside this site ?. Most people I meet are achievers who do things and have lots of other interests .

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Go visit a dominatrix she'll whip some sense into you and hopefully gag you to stop your wingeing!

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"and a teacher thats all i ever wanted from here as i really dont know what to do anymore. i have actually forgotten what to do in a sexual situation now as it been so long without, knowing me if i met anyone i would fumble and not know what the hell im doing, but im always willing to relearn. so im asking will any ladies or couple please take me under them, or should i say under their wing, i know im going to get a lot of criticism and moaning about me on this one, about how crap my profile is and my overall look about things, but im ready to learn, so take me please . What interests do you have outside this site ?. Most people I meet are achievers who do things and have lots of other interests . "

i know i said "end", but i will answer this one. I love to cycle, enjoying camping in the great outdoors, walking over hills and vales along the sea front in particular, i read a lot of sci-fi books and certain historical books, love to listen to rock, heavy rock, a bit of heavy metal and what they are calling indie i do believe (not indian, no offense meant)

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"yep im a twat for asking for any help on here, i should have known my insecurities would get the better of everyone and putting you all off. sorry to have wasted all of your time and apparently mine aswell

Oh wait wait!! I'll meet ya! I'm only here to service insecure men

no you wouldnt, i know that for a fact

Oh dear God you can't be that stupid!"

seems he can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and a teacher thats all i ever wanted from here as i really dont know what to do anymore. i have actually forgotten what to do in a sexual situation now as it been so long without, knowing me if i met anyone i would fumble and not know what the hell im doing, but im always willing to relearn. so im asking will any ladies or couple please take me under them, or should i say under their wing, i know im going to get a lot of criticism and moaning about me on this one, about how crap my profile is and my overall look about things, but im ready to learn, so take me please . What interests do you have outside this site ?. Most people I meet are achievers who do things and have lots of other interests .

i know i said "end", but i will answer this one. I love to cycle, enjoying camping in the great outdoors, walking over hills and vales along the sea front in particular, i read a lot of sci-fi books and certain historical books, love to listen to rock, heavy rock, a bit of heavy metal and what they are calling indie i do believe (not indian, no offense meant)"

Suggestion for you. Look up the meetup app. It's on the android play store and the iThing app store, I'd hazard a guess there's a olde skool website too.

Basically it lists events in your area for a whole range of activities. I'm in Leeds and there are regular meets for sci-fi, fantasy, knitting, book clubs, ramblers, role players, beer lovers etc etc etc.

Find a few that sound interesting. Tag along, I can guarantee you'll find new people to get along with. Don't worry about trying to fuck anyone, just go along to make friends. The more friends you have, the more mutual friends you have who might be a potential partner/hookup/fuckbuddy/whatever. But if you don't get out there and take that first step then you'll never know.

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

thanks jennidee, two technical hitches there, i havent got an android or iphone types at all, just a simple touchphone unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.c.? Local internet cafe? Library? Surely you can get internet access somewhere?

Your getting good advise but you have to run with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Think you have to have a certain mind set to swing OP ... With the basics at the very least to set you on the right road and start the swinging adventures. . Without that you will find it very difficult . Most have experience in the real world... Be it social skills... Life skills, sexual experience and confidence to do all these .. Is this the place for you? Only you can answer that .... The ownus is not on everyone here to teach you all .... Not something we would be interested in ... Maybe someone will tho ... Possitivity is the word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your skills have deteriorated as much as you indicate OP perhaps a visit to a Sexual Therapist might be beneficial? Its unreasonable to expect someone looking to enhance their own sexual experience to "help" you with yours. We are all in charge of our own lives after all.

You've been given advice which you seem to take pleasure in ignoring and continue to play the "poor me" card. I'm very much afraid that every time you post in such a negative manner you decrease your chances even more. The answer to your problem lies with you....

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

I thought members weren't supposed to be personal about other members in the forums?

Several people here pointing out what the op has done before...will they get a ban? I doubt it. Rules for them and rules for everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could

bollocks!"

I choked on my tea when i read this!^

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could"

In that case stop being SELFISH wanting a sympathy shag and let others have fun instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought members weren't supposed to be personal about other members in the forums?

Several people here pointing out what the op has done before...will they get a ban? I doubt it. Rules for them and rules for everyone else"

Since when has using the green arrow been against forum rules? Strange that the site would give you a tool that you aren't allowed to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence OP but im here for fun not to be anyones teacher or take them under my wing. given how these threads have gone down in the past, you will probably find thats the mjority vote on the subject too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks jennidee, two technical hitches there, i havent got an android or iphone types at all, just a simple touchphone unfortunately"

So use the website on your PC or mac? I've just checked and it does exist and can be used on a desktop browser. There are at least 25 groups within 25 miles of Lowestoft too.

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Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine. I've known him since school, I was a few years above him. But he was one of those kids that everyone got to know. From about age 15 onwards he went through most of the female population of the school, he was never really sporty and was about 5 foot 7 tall and maybe 7 stone when wet. Not good looking either, he just had a knack of talking to people and really getting to know them.

Then he joined the army while I went off to uni. He doesn't talk much about what happened but he's ended up missing an ear, is blind in one eye and is scarred up one side of his body and face.

He is still going out on the pull and is bedding the prettiest girls you ever saw.

How? Personality! He has a positive attitude that overcomes his disfigurement. Well that and he loves to pop out his false eye and dare girls to put their finger in his eye socket. I don't understand it myself but it really seems to make their knickers fly off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could

In that case stop being SELFISH wanting a sympathy shag and let others have fun instead "

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"If your skills have deteriorated as much as you indicate OP perhaps a visit to a Sexual Therapist might be beneficial? Its unreasonable to expect someone looking to enhance their own sexual experience to "help" you with yours. We are all in charge of our own lives after all.

You've been given advice which you seem to take pleasure in ignoring and continue to play the "poor me" card. I'm very much afraid that every time you post in such a negative manner you decrease your chances even more. The answer to your problem lies with you.... "

well said but this will be ignored like all the other good advice the op has been given

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could

bollocks!

I choked on my tea when i read this!^ "

sorry

let me make it upto you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm someone who has been through a lot of shit.

Lost my job years ago due to Depression. Found life a real challenge at times.

Once recovered found it impossible to find work.

My personal and professional life isn't where I want it to be, but you'll NEVER see me moaning about it or adking for sympathy because I am the only person who can do anything about it.

I'm starting up my own business and having a more positive outlook is definitely the way to go.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and look on the bright side.

What gets you out of bed in the morning? What puts a smile on your face?

Be positive and positive things will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you forget how to have sex? Or is it a cunning marketing ploy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the big question is if someone has no self confidence, no social skills and paralising shyness can they achieve in the swinging scene?

Maybe my previous comments were too forthright and even a little "mean" but even good looking guys with game here have to work really hard to get what they are after, no one gets it handed to them on a plate no matter how much they beg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no one gets it handed to them on a plate no matter how much they beg. "

I've noticed that this is the third such thread started by OP with this approach.

I am surprised that he has not yet realised, even regardless of all the advice he has been given, that this approach does not work.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

with an age limit of 76 sure you will find someone, why not try standing outside spec savers ?

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By *yLongJourney OP   Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

look i have got the message alright, ill shut the frak up and leave everyone alone okay. now leave me alone okay

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"look i have got the message alright, ill shut the frak up and leave everyone alone okay. now leave me alone okay"

you started the thread and people will always comment on it aslong as it is open no point getting upset just don't look at it again if you feel that way

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Moderators should close this now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could

bollocks!

I choked on my tea when i read this!^

sorry

let me make it upto you "

Nae bother. I'll put the kettle on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe pay for an escort (not a prostitute) and maybe she could teach you some stuff

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"what life, i have none, i am so self conscience that i never had the ability to go out and meet people, but this is me and your never going to help a person in need, i would help you all in a heart beat if i could

bollocks!

I choked on my tea when i read this!^

sorry

let me make it upto you

Nae bother. I'll put the kettle on! "

not ttbe answer I was looking for but while you're there I have one 2 sugars please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know i said "end", but i will answer this one. I love to cycle, enjoying camping in the great outdoors, walking over hills and vales along the sea front in particular, i read a lot of sci-fi books and certain historical books, love to listen to rock, heavy rock, a bit of heavy metal and what they are calling indie i do believe (not indian, no offense meant)"

And that post reveals more about you than any other. An insight in to your personality rather than a self pitying whinge. OP focus on who you are and like yourself for being that person. It will make you far more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A most interesting read!!!"

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