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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anybody advise me why im getting very little replies, im always polite, courteous, and respectful. Maybe its just me!!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You've had 1 meet but only been here 3 weeks. That's bloody good going.

That said, I personally wouldn't answer a message from you, your profile screams married, and is a little aggressive, although I imagine you think you are being funny.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

References to gunfire I find quite terrifying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs not another look at me thread from someone who has had meets. Ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say delete the sniper word, i would reply if you was nearer, happy swinging ??

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"You've had 1 meet but only been here 3 weeks. That's bloody good going. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anybody advise me why im getting very little replies, im always polite, courteous, and respectful. Maybe its just me!! "

It's the hat.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Can anybody advise me why im getting very little replies, im always polite, courteous, and respectful. Maybe its just me!!

It's the hat. "

LMAO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've had 1 meet but only been here 3 weeks. That's bloody good going.

That said, I personally wouldn't answer a message from you, your profile screams married, and is a little aggressive, although I imagine you think you are being funny. "

Ok, well point taken, but im not married, so i cant understand why people would think i am? These are the things im trying to erradicate. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can anybody advise me why im getting very little replies, im always polite, courteous, and respectful. Maybe its just me!!

It's the hat. "

Thats only my profile pic, im not wearing a had in my other pics. But thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say delete the sniper word, i would reply if you was nearer, happy swinging ??"

Thanks Lisa,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say delete the sniper word, i would reply if you was nearer, happy swinging ??"

Thanks Lisa,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a contentious issue - some people don't care about, others do - but as your profile is your shop window it might help if you did a spelling and grammar check first, there are some errors in there.

Like I say, most won't care (I wouldn't if it was a female profile, but then I know I make lots of spelling and grammar errors too) but it would be a shame to miss out on the local hottie just because she's a spelling freak!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

maybe you are not serious about meeting, but just like the attention ?

Connie xx

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"You've had 1 meet but only been here 3 weeks. That's bloody good going.

That said, I personally wouldn't answer a message from you, your profile screams married, and is a little aggressive, although I imagine you think you are being funny.

Ok, well point taken, but im not married, so i cant understand why people would think i am? These are the things im trying to erradicate. Thanks. "

people will think your married because your a single guy that can't accommodate I have never been one to subscribe to such nonsense but many on this site do so just be aware good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite how many replies did you think you'd get in 3 weeks?

I think the only thing that needs to change is your expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur not the the only one mate same here I can't accommodate cause I am looking after my dad cause he has had 3 strokes and my mum is not well with cancer. Just makes u wonder what ppl really think on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur not the the only one mate same here I can't accommodate cause I am looking after my dad cause he has had 3 strokes and my mum is not well with cancer. Just makes u wonder what ppl really think on here. "

Says you can accomodate on your profile, perhaps that's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit similar to t4mike, i live with my sick mother since i split with my ex 2 years ago,

Im not expecting a shag, just replies of no thanks or fuck off or at least something, but now i realise how many messages ladies get i understand.

I thank you all for your feedback, and i take it all on board. Kinda sorry i asked now. Ha. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit similar to t4mike, i live with my sick mother since i split with my ex 2 years ago,

Im not expecting a shag, just replies of no thanks or fuck off or at least something, but now i realise how many messages ladies get i understand.

I thank you all for your feedback, and i take it all on board. Kinda sorry i asked now. Ha. Thanks. "

No reply is a response. It tells you that they are not interested. Agree with the above - it's your expectations that are off not necessarily your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is crap sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone can accommodate in Hotels - screams 'tight' to me - just being honest - perhaps you could mention hotel meets in your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another thing (I'm on a role here - lol). I FI, would never come and say 'hello' I would always expect to be chased. It differs for everyone but you have to be flexible when your a single guy. Some men/women liked to be chased, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anybody advise me why im getting very little replies, im always polite, courteous, and respectful. Maybe its just me!! "

you've been here 3 weeks......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur not the the only one mate same here I can't accommodate cause I am looking after my dad cause he has had 3 strokes and my mum is not well with cancer. Just makes u wonder what ppl really think on here. "

you've been here 5 weeeks ffs!!! takes months to get a meet on here, try going out to clubs and socials

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