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By *utecouple4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

San Jose

OK - So I know this is a swingers site.

What my boyfriend and I were initially looking for is another woman to have some fun with ("good luck", "who isn't?", I know, but still trying!)

So we found this site, joined to trade videos & pictures with other couples. Exchanged e-mails with a few couples, and I started thinking about soft-swapping, but with only 50% of the couple, female - female, while the men watched. I received some criticism from a couple, saying this is the wrong place? My boyfriend and I have communicated with each other and cleared out what would be our boundaries, and full swapping is not something to explore. I stated on my profile what we are looking for.. is it so wrong that I just want to play with another female and not both members of the other couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being honest about what you're looking for is a good thing. Everyone has their limits and you guys know yours-it may restrict who approaches you or wants to meet but there just might be a couple looking for the same so what's the harm?

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

No it's not wrong, it's just not every couples cup of tea!! Are you saying your bf would not participate either. I the male of our party am very happy to watch my partner with another woman & would love for us to meet the illusive single bi-female. I don't really get on well with condoms & DON'T BAREBACK, watching & soft swap works well for us. When are you guys coming round lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure there are couples out there that would be into just fem/fem play. May even be a single fem or two. Personally it would not be for me as only play with both of the couple. If I wanted fem on fem it would be just that. Otherwise its just like being a performing seal for some randomer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK - So I know this is a swingers site.

What my boyfriend and I were initially looking for is another woman to have some fun with ("good luck", "who isn't?", I know, but still trying!)

So we found this site, joined to trade videos & pictures with other couples. Exchanged e-mails with a few couples, and I started thinking about soft-swapping, but with only 50% of the couple, female - female, while the men watched. I received some criticism from a couple, saying this is the wrong place? My boyfriend and I have communicated with each other and cleared out what would be our boundaries, and full swapping is not something to explore. I stated on my profile what we are looking for.. is it so wrong that I just want to play with another female and not both members of the other couple?"

I don't know why people are saying it's the wrong place. People on here always say that. What other place is there. You stick to your guns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya, we're looking for the same as you however we have met men, but my preference is just fem fem fun, and the hubbys preference is to just watch! We get told all the time it's "wrong" and to get off this site..

Stay and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya, we're looking for the same as you however we have met men, but my preference is just fem fem fun, and the hubbys preference is to just watch! We get told all the time it's "wrong" and to get off this site..

Stay and enjoy! "

Cheek of it. People should be more accepting. Too many folk on here doling out so called advice and orders. It's up Rio you what you like in bedroom department. We are into this too. Hubby loves to watch me. Her wouldn't say no to joining in. But he is a watcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you I mean. Not rio. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all on here for different reasons stick to what you want, there will be loads of others after the same thing.good luck

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By *utecouple4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

San Jose

Thanks everyone! This is my first experience on a swingers site, although I have noticed there are others here for different reasons. Well, have a good night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might just mean the chances of finding someone on here are very small so it's not the place to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on this site for 4 years with my husband and all we do is soft swap and fem fem. We have never had a problem getting meets or having a great time on the meets.

I think you may have just encountered the wrong person telling you that. There are plenty on here looking for the same as you so don't give up

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"OK - So I know this is a swingers site.

What my boyfriend and I were initially looking for is another woman to have some fun with ("good luck", "who isn't?", I know, but still trying!)

So we found this site, joined to trade videos & pictures with other couples. Exchanged e-mails with a few couples, and I started thinking about soft-swapping, but with only 50% of the couple, female - female, while the men watched. I received some criticism from a couple, saying this is the wrong place? My boyfriend and I have communicated with each other and cleared out what would be our boundaries, and full swapping is not something to explore. I stated on my profile what we are looking for.. is it so wrong that I just want to play with another female and not both members of the other couple?"

Absolutely not, and the couple who have criticised you clearly did not read your profile and understand what it is you are looking for. These are your choices and decisions and this is exactly what this site is for.

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