FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging while pregnant

By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

Just out of curiosity how many couple would play with a couple if the female half was pregnant? Not really interested in guys views as we've already seen a fair amount via message.we were going to go to a club tonight but the female half is worried that people will avoid us or look down as tho it's the wrong place a pregnant woman should be. What's couples views? Would you wouldn't you? That sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's up to you but we wouldn't and def wouldn't have played whilst pregnant. Nothing is worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's personal preference and I'm not here to criticise in any way.

If it was me I'd never play whilst pregnant- to me it's a massive NO NO!!

But it's your body and your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's personal preference and I'm not here to criticise in any way.

If it was me I'd never play whilst pregnant- to me it's a massive NO NO!!

But it's your body and your choice."

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

Maybe you should listen to her maternal instinct? Sorry if that seems a little harsh, but you are talking about an unborn baby that needs taking care of even before they enter the world.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm not a couple, but I wouldn't anyway.

However If I was pregnant when I was a swinger and was a regular at a club I would still attend but only to have fun with my partner if we wanted to.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I expect plenty of single guys would want to play with a pregnant woman (it's a fantasy for many and almost a fetish for some). It's your choice whether to play when pregnant or not - but for me, playing with a pregnant woman would be a no-no. I just think 'aww' when I see a bump - it's like sacred ground. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to stop myself thinking 'there's an innocent little baby in there' - it just wouldn't sit well with me.

Others will have a very different view and I'm sure you'll probably find plenty of couples who'd have no problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont see a problem once your carefully and its not rough sex your having. do what makes you happy and enjoy the ride as it a wondeful experience.

mrs macmully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I expect plenty of single guys would want to play with a pregnant woman (it's a fantasy for many and almost a fetish for some). It's your choice whether to play when pregnant or not - but for me, playing with a pregnant woman would be a no-no. I just think 'aww' when I see a bump - it's like sacred ground. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to stop myself thinking 'there's an innocent little baby in there' - it just wouldn't sit well with me.

Others will have a very different view and I'm sure you'll probably find plenty of couples who'd have no problem with it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a turn off for us

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

Nice to see people's opinions, I still have such a high sex drive an love the thought of still playing, maybe not penetrative sex with somone else but everything else, I'm happy to play with my partner but don't particularly like the idea of people looking down on me just because I'm pregnant. End of the day it was sex that got me here lol see what people are saying, does surprise me tho how many messages we've had with offers for fun with couples, unfortunately all way further north than we wish to drive in a Saturday night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you have sex with other people with your baby lying in her Moses basket in the same room? If not then why is it ok a month or two earlier when she is even closer to the action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you have sex with other people with your baby lying in her Moses basket in the same room? If not then why is it ok a month or two earlier when she is even closer to the action?"
We would do niether of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't but I don't see what difference there is from having sex with her partner or another guy! It's not as if the cock is going to touch the baby's head is it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't swing whilst I was pregnant for me it doesn't seem quite right.

As mentioned earlier, if I was a regular club goer than I would attend and stay with my partner, either being just with him or watching him play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't. Just my personal choice. The health and wellbeing of my unborn child would be more important to me than sex with randoms. No brainer really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I wouldn't. Just my personal choice. The health and wellbeing of my unborn child would be more important to me than sex with randoms. No brainer really."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go along and carry on as normal, just listen to your own instincts.

I've had sex throughout all three of my pregnancies and all was good.

In fact I was extremely horny right up to the birth...

As far as I can see as long as you're not into rough play and use protection, what risks are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity how many couple would play with a couple if the female half was pregnant? Not really interested in guys views as we've already seen a fair amount via message.we were going to go to a club tonight but the female half is worried that people will avoid us or look down as tho it's the wrong place a pregnant woman should be. What's couples views? Would you wouldn't you? That sort of thing "

Being totally honest we wouldn't but that's our choice each to their own.

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

That's a bit harsh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not in a couple but I wish to comment anyway for me when I see a pregnant lady I do not see a sexual being I see the bump and think awww I remember that.So for me I would not play with a pregnant lady but as some others have said if your a regular at a club then keep doing that? I don't see the harm in going just not sure how many people would actually take you up on it in full view of others. Congratulations aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

The whole swinging scene is about choice of lifestyle, some people have actually responded with fair point an comments, others have taken a high stance on their soap box without remembering that clubs an swinging in general is viewed by many to be immoral.so because Elle is pregnant she should stop wanting to suck a cock then? As this will harm the baby? Or shouldn't allow another woman to touch her bump incase it brings on early labour? There is more to swinging than generally fucking your way round the club, her views are more to the fact that some of you have proved a point, regardless of wether she wants to play or not have decided that you would look down on her without really know to what extent she would play (if at all)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

If you don't want to hear people's opinions then don't ask, simple

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

Thank you, a real adult answer, I do wonder how many of these woman would stop sex altogether once they fell pregnant? Turn the lights out an a cocks a cock, am I wrong? It's more to do with attitude of people of seeing a pregnant girl at a club,

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X "

Oops this sounds like your using this account for a sperm donor! Maybe clarify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

It was the negative looking down at you comments that were bad as if they were whiter than white ffs

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

If you don't want to hear people's opinions then don't ask, simple"

Opinions was what we wanted to see, wether it was going to be seen as a sin to go to a club while pregnant, unfortunately the majority sit high on there horses an look down, is it not sex that gets a woman pregnant? (Usually) Or is it a case of a woman can only play if not pregnant?

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

It was the negative looking down at you comments that were bad as if they were whiter than white ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what you asked:

the female half is worried that people will avoid us or look down as tho it's the wrong place a pregnant woman should be. What's couples views? Would you wouldn't you?

So they answered you and now you are complaining that they are looking down at you. You asked them if they were and they answered you. Did you expect everyone to be supportive and encouraging really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once told I shouldn't be dancing at a wedding when I was 6 months pregnant because apparently "it doesn't look right"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what you asked:

the female half is worried that people will avoid us or look down as tho it's the wrong place a pregnant woman should be. What's couples views? Would you wouldn't you?

So they answered you and now you are complaining that they are looking down at you. You asked them if they were and they answered you. Did you expect everyone to be supportive and encouraging really?"

Another negative judgemental answer.....posing as a genuine caring reply but masked by a filthy look .....we know where you stand so shut up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

If you don't want to hear people's opinions then don't ask, simple

we can't win then can we?!

if we answer your question with a no it's not for us we're accused of looking down at you....

some people have strong opinions on the subject whether you like it or not.

the act of sex isn't dangerous to an unborn baby, we all know a cock can't bash it in the head. but your immune system is weakened by the pregnancy hormone which makes you more vulnerable to infection ~ however small that might be.

Ask our learned poster Mr BlueSky he seems to know all about pregnancy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would want to continue going to clubs and parties through a pregnancy. We enjoy the atmosphere and the social side of swinging as much as the sexual side. I don't see anything wrong with it at all! I don't know how I would feel about having sex with others as I have never been pregnant myself.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

What worries me is all the people who are saying it's safe to have sex during pregnancy as long as you don't be rough and play safe, condoms are never 100% safe and some STD's can be caught even with a condom so no sex is 100% safe. This is the reason I wouldn't of engaged in any swinging activity with others whilst I was pregnant. Not because I was concerned that a mans cock might bump the babies head!

STD's can be passed through the placenta or passed on at birth and can prove fatal in some cases, not a risk I'd be willing to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

If you don't want to hear people's opinions then don't ask, simple

we can't win then can we?!

if we answer your question with a no it's not for us we're accused of looking down at you....

some people have strong opinions on the subject whether you like it or not.

Ask our learned poster Mr BlueSky he seems to know all about pregnancy...

Risk is lessoned by a condom ...but even if you were not pregnant there is still risk with a condom and I just think its their choice but my point has been the looking down at her comments...no more no less.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

South East London

I love the social side too but if pregnant, I would protect my baby as much as possible from the chance of infections.

Do what you are comfortable with however and stay safe.

Good luck with the baby!

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"This is what you asked:

the female half is worried that people will avoid us or look down as tho it's the wrong place a pregnant woman should be. What's couples views? Would you wouldn't you?

complaining? Not in the slightest, just am used me how people's attitudes change in certain ways, as the question was asked In General terms rather than us specific it would appear that this post research has determined that anyone pregnant shouldn't live the lifestyle? Wether that's going to a club to have a drink an chat or wether somone intends to fuck their way through multiple men, we thought swinging was about open mindedness, but you are proving that you are judgmental by a persons look rather than knowing anything about them. Sound prejudice? It has never been on our cards to have sex with multiple people at a club, rather the fact that you wold assume as it's adults in a lifestyle having a drink an chat without the "pressure" of actually having to go an fuck each othe there wouldn't be a problem, I really feel for any couples out there in the same situation as us, enjoy the lifestyle but God forbid you should continue with any part of it while pregnant

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"I love the social side too but if pregnant, I would protect my baby as much as possible from the chance of infections.

Do what you are comfortable with however and stay safe.

Good luck with the baby!

Thanks hun x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

If you don't want to hear people's opinions then don't ask, simple

we can't win then can we?!

if we answer your question with a no it's not for us we're accused of looking down at you....

some people have strong opinions on the subject whether you like it or not.

Ask our learned poster Mr BlueSky he seems to know all about pregnancy...

Lessened yes. The difference being imho is that pre pregnancy if you choose to take those risks that's just you and your body. Not the case when pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

Lol your must be having a laugh? Surely?

If you don't want to hear people's opinions then don't ask, simple

we can't win then can we?!

if we answer your question with a no it's not for us we're accused of looking down at you....

some people have strong opinions on the subject whether you like it or not.

Ask our learned poster Mr BlueSky he seems to know all about pregnancy...

Of course all sexual acts have a risk attached whether you are pregnant or not.

it's their choice, no one is denying that but don't post in a public forum if u don't want to hear the answers!

and for me it's the most intimate time you can ever share with your partner ~ why you'd want to bring others into equation is not something I understand.

each to their own.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women choose to stop doing a lot of things they might enjoy when they are pregnant, smoking, drinking, taking painkillers etc. because it is only for a few short months and they then minimise any risk to their child. You will be making decisions for your child for a while and once your child is born you will be expected to make those decisions in the best interest of your child rather than your own personal preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What worries me is all the people who are saying it's safe to have sex during pregnancy as long as you don't be rough and play safe, condoms are never 100% safe and some STD's can be caught even with a condom so no sex is 100% safe. This is the reason I wouldn't of engaged in any swinging activity with others whilst I was pregnant. Not because I was concerned that a mans cock might bump the babies head!

STD's can be passed through the placenta or passed on at birth and can prove fatal in some cases, not a risk I'd be willing to take. "

This!

OP if you care more about fucking strangers and your own horniness than the life and wellbeing of your unborn child... good luck. And good luck to the baby too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

Then she'll be able to tell you about the special precautions they have to take during delivery for neonates with to protect them from their mother's genital herpes and what it does to newborns...condoms don't protect you from that...If swinging is that important to people that they can't go without it for a few months, then so be it...Each to their own and all that but don't make it out to be others faults that they feel you're inappropriate in a swing club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the right circumstances and the right person with protection there seems to be no risk at all to the unborn child.....sex isn't dangerous during pregnancy.

Unusual as this thread is its not surprising that there are negative comments when in fact there is no risk factor and it is just their decision if they choose to do it.

Why are ladies saying that she is risking the childs health wwhen you should know its safe to have sex during pregnancy ...my Fb is a senior midwife.

Just to clarify that this is a public thread and everyone is entitled to their opinion and I can take critisisim.

My real opinion is I wouldn't have sex with a pregnant woman.My replies were aimed at the judgmental negative threads as if not only is it wrong to swing while pregnant but that the lady in question was dispiccable in some way and that they were better behaved when they were pregnant.I bet a few ladies have swung on here before and been in the early stages of pregnancy and not eknown this fact therefor being at the same risk.The fact that she would risk catching some STD wasn't my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Just to clarify that this is a public thread and everyone is entitled to their opinion

Then maybe it best not to tell people to shut up when they have that opinion.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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To the OP...if we had been swinging when having our children we wouldn't be playing or wanting to play with others.

Putting our child at risk for the sake of sex would be a big no....and no matter what a post says up there, like all of us swinging who are at risk of STD's..a child is at risk also.

Having sex with your partner is a different kettle of fish.

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

A view is a view until aimed at someone who didn't ask for it to be aimed at them. The origional question was purely your view in going to a club while pregnant. Virtually all of you who replied were negative, an that's your opinion, unfortunately those negativity were based upon assumptions that Elle was planning to screw anything with a cock, an put our child at risk. At what point did we say we were going there for her to fuck men other than me? At what point was it implied that safety of the unborn child would be put at risk? At what part did any of you with negative responses aimed at myself and Elle actually stop an read the whole question before typing your responses of "self respect" an "putting your shilf at risk"? The ones who replied with valid opinions are the ones that looked at the question an asked them selves how they would feel if they saw a pregnant girl at a club. At no point was it implied that anything other than the social side of the swing scene was ever on mind, so we actually take it personal that you would again, implie that we would knowingly put our child's health at risk.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So you are not looking for full swop tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

Oops this sounds like your using this account for a sperm donor! Maybe clarify"

Well reading the profile would clarify that, my HUSBAND will be the one getting me pregnant, and I don't have sex with other men anyway we do soft swap.

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

Definition of full swap doesn't always imply full penertrative sex. Unfortunately as there isn't a universal dictionary of swinging terms widely used by the swinging scene it would only become apartment to potential meets that messaged what was game an what was not. An after having several invitations, alas further than we'd like to travel tonight, it would also appear no other people had issues with that. For us a full swap is actually having all parties involved. On several occasions now we've have the whole "I'll touch your mrs but you can't touch mine" attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually to be fair your opening line was.

"Just out of curiosity how many couple would play with a couple if the female half was pregnant?"

Play....being the operative word here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe to socialise .

But socialise only

Once you are pregnant your body is not your own , you are sheltering a growing child inside .

Std can be passed on and can be fatal - even with condoms or oral or even fingers .

Socialising is fine but I certainly don't feel it's the place for a pregnant woman .

You must not think of yourselves as soon as you are pregnant your baby should be a million percent your priority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not forgetting , how would your child feel with photos being posted of them growing inside you on a swing site .

And how would that child feel thinking their mother had been naked near another person during the pregnancy .

Come on think of your baby

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Definition of full swap doesn't always imply full penertrative sex. Unfortunately as there isn't a universal dictionary of swinging terms widely used by the swinging scene it would only become apartment to potential meets that messaged what was game an what was not. An after having several invitations, alas further than we'd like to travel tonight, it would also appear no other people had issues with that. For us a full swap is actually having all parties involved. On several occasions now we've have the whole "I'll touch your mrs but you can't touch mine" attitude "

I am not sure that answers me but never mind.

Like everything on here, you will find some people who will play with pregnant ladies and some won't......but as pointed out, you did ask the question of would anyone play with a pregnant lady so you can't really complain when people answer the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you feel comfortable with, and bollacks to the rest

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

"Not forgetting , how would your child feel with photos being posted of them growing inside you on a swing site .

And how would that child feel thinking their mother had been naked near another person during the pregnancy .

Come on think of your baby "

Pretty sure most children, unless extremely disturbed would find the thought of their mother sleeping with random men a bit of an issue to, or do you not think? Or that their father could not possibly sleep with anyone other than their mother? No? If that is the case from that opinion I would assume you have no children to worry about how they would feel if they were to know your private life

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By *ornysxcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Maldon

I am not sure that answers me but never mind.

That is a fair point, an nice to see someone actually read the OP. But play an sleep with the entire club as some would insinuate are two very different things. as said, yes we were looking for an opinion, but how many replies asked what we'd be open to in such a situation? Or did many assume Elle would be shagging any bloke that made a pass and thus putting our unborn baby at risk? more chance of her having an accident while driving that the odd fondle with a guy other than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not forgetting , how would your child feel with photos being posted of them growing inside you on a swing site .

And how would that child feel thinking their mother had been naked near another person during the pregnancy .

Come on think of your baby "

This will sound odd but when I was pregnant with my son, first pregnancy, once I knew I was pregnant, all sex stopped. not sure why, whether fear of harm or lost libido. I definately wouldnt play with another man, nor post pictures of my pregnant self on here. just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you went to a club and just played then thats your choice. Everyone will have a different opinion. You can only do what u feel comfortable doing and then only if there is someone at the club willing to reciprocate. There are risks with all sexual activities youre never 100% safe. What you need to consider is could you forgive yourself if something untoward did happen. Would the management of the club you attend be comfortable with having you there.

Weigh up the pros and cons and make a decision. Its your choice at the end of the day.

Congratulations with the pregnancy and take care.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

What I wrote on the last "Pregnant and swinging" thread...

Being pregnant was a special time for my husband and I. He got rid of our cat because he heard cat faeces was harmful to pregnant women. I didn't eat soft cheeses etc, I avoided anything that could cause potential harm to my unborn child.Sex with my husband was special and magical: I couldn't imagine sharing that with a random stranger or asking random strangers what they thought...but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not forgetting , how would your child feel with photos being posted of them growing inside you on a swing site .

And how would that child feel thinking their mother had been naked near another person during the pregnancy .

Come on think of your baby

Meow hilarious answer

Take a look at yourself and see what you are considering

And don't reply to people because all you are looking for is a row with anyone who dares to tell you how shocking it is

For god sake !!

Socialise and think of your baby

Go play and risk your baby . Can't treat herpes plus other things you know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly congratulations to you both. I think it's completely your choice what you do but for me Fi, being pregnant is such a gift and therefore should be cherished. Certain STI's can have a devastating effect on an unborn child leading to blindness and other difficulties and there is also an increased risk of miscarriage with certain STI's. Just be really careful who you play with. Condoms are never 100% reliable and even soft play can put you and your unborn child at risk. You look gorgeous in your pics, simply beautiful, and I know a lot of people find a pregnant lady very sexy but right now you are a goddess and should be treated as one by those around you. Only you can decide what's right for you but bear in mind you also have a responsibility to that little person that you are carrying on board. For me their safety & development would always come before an increased sex drive. It's only four more months to wait. Have fun and play safe xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure that answers me but never mind.

The point is, STD's are not just caught through penetrative sex, You can get a sexually transmitted disease from sexual activity that involves the mouth, anus, or vagina so one of those fondles could be harmful to a baby.

Either way, like others have said, it is your choice and there will be someone who will play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's just going to a club and having fun - socially, no sexual contact with others (besides your hubby) then 100% yes, go and have a great time xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You keep changing your mind about all this.

Quote: At no point was it implied that anything other than the social side of the swing scene was ever on mind, so we actually take it personal that you would again, implie that we would knowingly put our child's health at risk.

So why post an ad looking for a full swap couple tonight? You going to play scrabble with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our opinion is we would not play with a pregnant lady in any way shape or form. If we seen a pregnant lady in a club we would talk with her. But that would be all.

Health risks are too great. People give up smoking drinking to protect their unborn baby. Perhaps choosing to put 'lifestyle' on hold until after the birth would be a good idea? Just socialise or fuck partner only?

*disclaimer - no dig at any person made. We did not say 'your' - we made a general comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You keep changing your mind about all this.

So why post an ad looking for a full swap couple tonight? You going to play scrabble with them?"

Isn't it up to them? As I said previously, personally I wouldn't play when pregnant but if they want to knowing there are some risks then surely that's their decision to make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is. I was just pointing out the contradiction.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

At the end of the day it's your body, you look really sexy and you should do what you want. We wouldn't think anything negative of you. My ex used to get incredibly horny when she was pregnant, we didn't swing, but we did have some great sex & it wasn't always gentle as she didn't want it that way! Do your thing, enjoy yourself and don't be too worried about what other people think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure that answers me but never mind.

I read your OP & commented accordingly & that's before i realised you had a full swap meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex loved pregnant women we met two couples where the woman was pregnant and we did full swap with both, I couldn't play with either, it just didn't feel right to me to be licking the muff of a pregnant woman, don't know why just felt wrong

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X "

Safe sex is safe sex.Not risking the baby having some girl on girl fun for goodness sake! Or giving a BJ!

Pregnant women and mothers can still be sexual!! I for one think they are very very HOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

Safe sex is safe sex.Not risking the baby having some girl on girl fun for goodness sake! Or giving a BJ!

Pregnant women and mothers can still be sexual!! I for one think they are very very HOT

There's no such thing as safe sex. The only safe sex is no sex. You can still catch some STI's from oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

Safe sex is safe sex.Not risking the baby having some girl on girl fun for goodness sake! Or giving a BJ!

Pregnant women and mothers can still be sexual!! I for one think they are very very HOT

There's no such thing as safe sex. The only safe sex is no sex. You can still catch some STI's from oral sex.

And even if the pregnant woman doesn't play, but her partner does fuck other people- he could pass something on to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

Safe sex is safe sex.Not risking the baby having some girl on girl fun for goodness sake! Or giving a BJ!

Pregnant women and mothers can still be sexual!! I for one think they are very very HOT

I think you need some sex education

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say my view anyway ner ner lol

but yes I like pregnant women, love to suckle their boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entirely up to the couple.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I was playing in couples room a few years ago next to a pregnant lady and her partner - no idea if he was her significant other but I guess it's most likely it was...I just thought she looked gorgeous riding him with a lovely swelling belly (and that's from someone who's never had ankle biters)...again, it's down to a personal preference and whether it's for social or sexual reasons then I'd say whatever is comfortable for you both then so long as you take the most reasonable precautions to protect your unborn, then do what you feel best - yep, there's no such thing as 100% safe sex! but if your risk assessment takes that into account then fair dos. Congratulations

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

Glad to see you aren't put off by the moralising and half baked health advice.

But in terms of comfort my pregnant woman friend tells me tantric sex, oral and anal are more enjoyable...

If you want to try any or all...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

Safe sex is safe sex.Not risking the baby having some girl on girl fun for goodness sake! Or giving a BJ!

Pregnant women and mothers can still be sexual!! I for one think they are very very HOT

Women can pass stis to women and you can contract an sti from oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was once told I shouldn't be dancing at a wedding when I was 6 months pregnant because apparently "it doesn't look right"!!"

During my first pregnancy I last went salsa dancing at just over 8 months. As I was wearing a onesey thingey that made my small bump even less noticeable my dance partners did not spare me so I had to tell them I was heavily pregnant.

I would only go to a swingers' club to socialise though if I had someone to get pregnant by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe a little respect for yourself and your precious unborn wouldn't go amiss here.

it is lacking....

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

South East London

This is aimed at EVERYONE & not just the OP.

Please be aware of Hep B. Very easily caught through different means of transmission (not just sexual fluids etc). Its now an infection that's more difficult to treat than H.I.V. and having a huge surge of carriers now who are possibly unaware that they have it as it can also be doormant for 2 decades. .

Hubby could get vaccination now whereas I believe the Mum may have to wait untill post pregnancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you want to play I say go for it but just make sure you are all safe! I think you look great in your pics by the way. Pregnant ladies radiate a certain sexy look in my eyes!

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over a year ago

"I personally wouldn't and think it's quite selfish and dangerous, your responsible for a precious tiny life growing inside of you.. Why risk that?

As soon as we've conceived this acc will be deleted! X

Safe sex is safe sex.Not risking the baby having some girl on girl fun for goodness sake! Or giving a BJ!

Pregnant women and mothers can still be sexual!! I for one think they are very very HOT

There's no such thing as safe sex. The only safe sex is no sex. You can still catch some STI's from oral sex.

You wonder where some people get their sexual health info from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pregnancy is for 9 months

A child in most cases is for a lifetime

I think waiting to have sex with other parties until the child is born is a good idea.

Think of it as swingternity leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to hang out even with s pregnant lady. Even if it was just a cuppa. I find pregnant females very attractive.

I'd play yes but often a bond is needed and am more than happy for the social aspect. Even after the baby.

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