FabSwingers.com forum: Out Of Curiousity (Profile Question)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because the profile stands as 'Single Male' (despite the fact that everything's explained on there) I understand about having to send the first message to people I'd like to talk to and meet.

What I'm unsure with is if they're put off by the following:

- Have a partner, and Bi-Curious. We play alone and together.

- The profile's a long read.

- Not many pictures/Saying I'm shaven (which I am) and having bearded picture.

- Or anything else you can think of.

I ask this out of curiousity due to the people who I've messaged and their 'reactions'. Whether it be; a typical 'Read & Delete' scenario, a polite "No thanks", or (most recently) an outburst saying how I'm 'fake' and 'lead a fantasy life'.

This is more a question out of curiousity, than to improve chances of meeting others. I'm content with where I am at the moment, but opinions are most welcome.

Thanks,

Th1ngy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

P.S. - I also 100% respect people's decisions, preferences and desires. Whether I'm someone's cup of tea or not is up to them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its very confusing and you sound desperate

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its very confusing and you sound desperate "

Ah ok. Thankyou. To be honest, my partner suggested the majority of it in a re-write. Probably having me on by suggesting all sorts.

Thankyou.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Re-writing profile now, but that question can still stand with what it gets turned into.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Taken male'?? You 'consult each other to avoid aggravation and confusion'? It sounds like you have a bunny boiler.

Apologies if that's not the case but that's how it comes across.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'Taken male'?? You 'consult each other to avoid aggravation and confusion'? It sounds like you have a bunny boiler.

Apologies if that's not the case but that's how it comes across. "

No apologies necessary. I'm the one who should say sorry if that's the way it comes across.

Not really sure how else to word it to be honest.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

You must have made some changes as I do not see anything that would be off putting in your text.

Your pic is nice but you may consider adding one or two more....not cocky pics though. Women prefer chests, bums, and full (clothed) body shots.

Good luck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Taken male'?? You 'consult each other to avoid aggravation and confusion'? It sounds like you have a bunny boiler.

Apologies if that's not the case but that's how it comes across.

No apologies necessary. I'm the one who should say sorry if that's the way it comes across.

Not really sure how else to word it to be honest."

Looks good now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I changed it. Thanks again.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread