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verified still hard to find meets, any profile advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey Guys and girls, do you find it hard to find meets even if you are verified? would love to know what you think about my profile and how I could potentially improve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would really improve it by not doing one of these posts as soo many guys try it as a way of saying look at me.....and then get the hump if people tell them the actual reasons

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Another one

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No visible pics.

Limited profile text.

Generally - you're not showing/telling anyone anything. Most will pass by for a more detailed profile.

A

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

How would I improve it? Put some of your personality into it! It's very bland and doesn't really let people know much about you at the moment

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap it is very blah......

Does it make you stand out at all? NO! Is the answer to that.

Do you have any public pics? NO! Common theme occurring here.

If you were female? Would you contact you? I sincerely doubt it!

Effort in = Effort out

I really don't understand these oh please help me threads, when guys have basically done sweet FA about helping themselves.

Maybe you just thought this site was full of desperate women who would drop at your feet at just a hint of interest?

Think you now have a reality check....Will you do anything about it? I sincerely doubt it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As I said thread started 32 mins ago, my response and others 22mins ago +, any changes to profile? NO!

Has he returned to the thread? NO! And still online....

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"As I said thread started 32 mins ago, my response and others 22mins ago +, any changes to profile? NO!

Has he returned to the thread? NO! And still online.... "

that's upto him relax he might have a pen and a pad in hand trying to come up with the perfect changes does he really have a time limit?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No point in me posting, my advice is never taken. What would I know, after all?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"No point in me posting, my advice is never taken. What would I know, after all? "

who said that???

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By *ala.malaMan
over a year ago

poole

Good grammar helps

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No point in me posting, my advice is never taken. What would I know, after all?

who said that??? "

FFS! I seem to be trapped inside some invisibility cloak

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"As I said thread started 32 mins ago, my response and others 22mins ago +, any changes to profile? NO!

Has he returned to the thread? NO! And still online....

that's upto him relax he might have a pen and a pad in hand trying to come up with the perfect changes does he really have a time limit? "

A pad and pen in hand? Pull the other one, it has bells on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on mate . You have a short profile that tells yer nothing and one pic that a lady would have to ask to see .and you are asking why are you not having any luck . Toshs Top Tip for you mate . The ladies dont need to work hard to get meets so its up to you to stand out from the rest

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i clicked on and not even a single pic ...im mailing him now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point in me posting, my advice is never taken. What would I know, after all?

who said that???

FFS! I seem to be trapped inside some invisibility cloak "
hey gimme back my cloak

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"No point in me posting, my advice is never taken. What would I know, after all?

who said that???

FFS! I seem to be trapped inside some invisibility cloak "

no seriously who said that

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"i clicked on and not even a single pic ...im mailing him now ! "

Good for Freelove, share the love to show they joined with the right expectations

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No point in me posting, my advice is never taken. What would I know, after all?

who said that???

FFS! I seem to be trapped inside some invisibility cloak hey gimme back my cloak "
def NOT invisible (check your fabs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, give me time... Was trying to use my with without balls but ended up picking the other one I'm working on it haha

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"... Was trying to use my with without balls but ended up picking the other one "

Is anyone else struggling to make any sense of this sentence?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hey Guys and girls, do you find it hard to find meets even if you are verified? would love to know what you think about my profile and how I could potentially improve it "

I always say look at the people's profiles that offer you advice... Then look back at yours

Hand on heart, would you answer your own profile?.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No effort at all. Assume you must have the gift of the gab in emails or in person to have got the verification you did. But that certainly doesn't come across in the profile, and as that is the first dealing people would have with you it needs to be better. I wouldn't get past the profile.

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I've got a very negative profile on here, why, co I've been on and off here for a few years and have very little confidence of this site. The second part of it, is who i am and im not going to try and be something in not.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I've got a very negative profile on here, why, co I've been on and off here for a few years and have very little confidence of this site. The second part of it, is who i am and im not going to try and be something in not."

I don't quite see the relevance of this message to this thread but it does very much sound as if this site is not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we've changed our profile a few times it really hasn't made any difference most people answer out messages and we don't have to many problems getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we've changed our profile a few times it really hasn't made any difference most people answer out messages and we don't have to many problems getting meets "

Just re read my post don't want to sound arrogant I understand it's much more difficult for a single male, my best advice would always be get out and meet real people rather than relying on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a very negative profile on here, why, co I've been on and off here for a few years and have very little confidence of this site. The second part of it, is who i am and im not going to try and be something in not.

I don't quite see the relevance of this message to this thread but it does very much sound as if this site is not for you"

Negativity isn't attractive, losing confidence in the site implies that any problems you have on here are somehow the sites fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Guys and girls, do you find it hard to find meets even if you are verified? would love to know what you think about my profile and how I could potentially improve it "

Its three lines of text at the moment so its fair to say there could be a lot of improvement on that for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we've changed our profile a few times it really hasn't made any difference most people answer out messages and we don't have to many problems getting meets

Just re read my post don't want to sound arrogant I understand it's much more difficult for a single male, my best advice would always be get out and meet real people rather than relying on fab "

I tgink that is really good advice, however I also think alot of people just dont get swinging and would struggle just as much in the real world as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there is not a magic profile formula. Some men have 1 line and have loads of meets. A good pic, couple of paragraphs on profile and use the chat room and send messages. I have always tried to get to know people first before talking about sex. There is 60 men within 5 miles of me who have been online within the last week, between 40 and 50. So there is a lot of competition. good luck and keep plugging away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So Profile is now updated Tell me what you think

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

intelligent....picky....not out for just fucking...need to connect mentally and physically

this is fabs not the samaritans

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

everyone is different

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