FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me or does everyone have trouble getting replies. I send a nice message a dirty message and all it keeps saying is message deleted. Where am I going wrong?

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

Go to a club and social's ... Mix with real people. Use this site to keep in touch with them and to keep up to date on club reviews. You are going wrong by assuming you can get meets on here, plenty do meet ... Lots don't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And stop looking at your sent box!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Is it just me or does everyone have trouble getting replies. I send a nice message a dirty message and all it keeps saying is message deleted. Where am I going wrong?"

Are you sending them all to the same person?

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Way too many cock pics on your profile. You have face pics but none where your smiling which make you look very grumpy. Your not exactly selling yourself. Sorry but you did ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And stop looking at your sent box!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can try that tigeroooo thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the faith mate you have had a meet so far and there are some that have been here longer than you without any joy.

Keep posting in the forums and get yourself known and also like has been said try to get to a few socials / clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noted guys will change the pics and stop looking in my sent box lol. Thanks for the honesty.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I didn't realize I was invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club and social's ... Mix with real people.

Use this site to keep in touch with them and to keep up to date on club reviews.

You are going wrong by assuming you can get meets on here, plenty do meet ... Lots don't."

Spot on!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have made some changes to my picture settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realize I was invisible

Who said that? Crap I think I am hearing things

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I have made some changes to my picture settings."

Now look at your profile text!

It is pretty much blah blah blah

Nothing there to entice the ladies on here!

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Is it just me or does everyone have trouble getting replies. I send a nice message a dirty message and all it keeps saying is message deleted. Where am I going wrong?"

I think you'll struggle to get a consistent and precise answer to your question. You're doing nothing wrong as long as your messages are polite. Some will welcome a more flirtatious message and others a more subtle approach.

Just be yourself pal

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Is it just me or does everyone have trouble getting replies. I send a nice message a dirty message and all it keeps saying is message deleted. Where am I going wrong?"
. Your profile does not list any hobbies or interests . Not quite sure why you state that you have no desire for men to suck your cock. Does that statement actually achieve anything ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will have a look at my profile. I thought I had changed that ages ago must not have hit save lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It does when I get loads of messages from gay guys wanting to suck it. But as I said I thought I had changed it must have done it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its Russian roulete, its about luck and hope it lands on your profile

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I didn't realize I was invisible

Who said that? Crap I think I am hearing things

Nah....just a post from a bisexual man...what do I know?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"It does when I get loads of messages from gay guys wanting to suck it. But as I said I thought I had changed it must have done it wrong."

That's why you should use the filters to block guys from messaging you if your really not interested in them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Changed my profile and settings see what happens now eh lol.

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