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am I being too fussy

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By *_and_A_6569 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

I have a meet posted for saturday looking for a singke male to join us. But had no messages yet. Am I being too fussy with my needs.

Im not using here as an extra place to advertise but would like some feedback.

Ty in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How an anyone,other than yourselves,possibly answer that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought about being pro active and searching yourself as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can be too fussy, is it being fussy or is it your preferences?

Have you done a search for your potential meet? Sent out messages?

Good luck OP

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By *_and_A_6569 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds


"Have you thought about being pro active and searching yourself as well?"

I have been. Ive sent about 20 messages since monday morning but only had 1 reply. I think I may have to send a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you thought about being pro active and searching yourself as well?

I have been. Ive sent about 20 messages since monday morning but only had 1 reply. I think I may have to send a lot more. "
You only need one reply to get a meet hang in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a meet posted for saturday looking for a singke male to join us. But had no messages yet. Am I being too fussy with my needs.

Im not using here as an extra place to advertise but would like some feedback.

Ty in advance"

nothing wrong with being fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussy at all. Stick to what you both want and dont be pressurised into comprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said above, nothing wrong with being fussy. This is you're wife they would be fucking so be as choosey as you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My girl is a little fussy from time to time about people (Non-pregnant ones anyways, she knows what she likes).

But that's fine. You often find once you find someone interested you'll likely meet them more than once anyways and occasionally they know other people as well. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, if your doubt urself to be fussie , maibe you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Am I being too fussy with my needs.

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You may as well ask " Should I lower my sights"

Should I change what I want just to meet someone/anyone?

We dont have loads of meets because we stick to what WE want and not just happy with any meet for the sake of a shag. When we do meet we really enjoy ourselves because its exactly what we want- not just a standby.

Stick to your guns..patience is a virtue ( and you'll enjoy it more )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't lower you're standards ?? I wait until I feel an attraction I would rather wait a year to find correct playmate than turn myself of sexually and that's what you would do trust me been there in past never again and I love sex and god dam sexy people good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never be too fussy. Why compromise your standards for a fuck? I like to be able to look myself in the eye in the morning and if I did something that knocked my ability to respect myself, I wouldn't be able to do that. This hobby of ours just isn't worth it

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

you can never be too fussy. We are really really fussy. 99% of email we get are rubbish.

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