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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON

2 women - 30somethings, fit, cute, great bodies, waiting blindfolded, expecting to be serviced by as many men as possible, ad has been up for ages, TONS of emails from men, and how many turn up?

One.

I mean, seriously??!!??

Talk about All Talk.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If something sounds wrong it usually is. Its a load of bollocks obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they thought it was too good to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you the one man or one of the women?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"2 women - 30somethings, fit, cute, great bodies, waiting blindfolded, expecting to be serviced by as many men as possible, ad has been up for ages, TONS of emails from men, and how many turn up?

One.

I mean, seriously??!!??

Talk about All Talk....."

If it was for today i.e monday. That usually means people are at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were you the one man or one of the women?"
Sounds like it was lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no offence but I would look at the effort you have put into your profile, looked at the advert and thought, not sure....

that being said, once they engage in conversation with you, you may have given more information out there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were you the one man or one of the women?Sounds like it was lol"
I meant sounds like the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if this is serious or not. Surely most guys would look at this and think it looks too good to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no offence but I would look at the effort you have put into your profile, looked at the advert and thought, not sure....

that being said, once they engage in conversation with you, you may have given more information out there..

"

Lol after their opening line I was expecting an epic, but ended up turning my laptop around to see if there was more on the back.

They may be genuine but what little is there screams lazy to me but some will look at it as fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen their profile before. It had more to it before. I can only assume the minimalisation is in response to what happened.

I must say I despair at the behaviour of some other single guys

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"Were you the one man or one of the women?"

Neither - I was the man organising it. A play-friend asked me to help her fulfil a fantasy, and another play-friend wanted to join

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"maybe they thought it was too good to be true."

The one guy who did turn up said that as well

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"sounds about right"

Nope - sounds very very wrong

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"no offence but I would look at the effort you have put into your profile, looked at the advert and thought, not sure....

that being said, once they engage in conversation with you, you may have given more information out there..

"

No offence, but that is nonsense. Of course the profile has changed since last week as it is no longer relevant. There was A LOT of information, and a special flier was emailed to everyone who had expressed interest. This was very carefully thought out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one did turn up well hey fab is working

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I'm not sure if this is serious or not. Surely most guys would look at this and think it looks too good to be true."

1.) it was VERY serious

2.) that simply means the guys are fools! It was there on a plate (well, bed). Two hot, good-looking women, blindfolded, waiting. I felt like I had let them down! Thank goodness for the one dude that did turn up, as well as my lover's boyfriend.

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I've seen their profile before. It had more to it before. I can only assume the minimalisation is in response to what happened.

I must say I despair at the behaviour of some other single guys "

Yup.

They are all very good at talking and bombarding me with messages, but when it comes to putting their money where the ladies mouths are.... All talk....

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"What one did turn up well hey fab is working"

You're really not getting the point of a GANGBANG, are you.....

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"2 women - 30somethings, fit, cute, great bodies, waiting blindfolded, expecting to be serviced by as many men as possible, ad has been up for ages, TONS of emails from men, and how many turn up?

One.

I mean, seriously??!!??

Talk about All Talk.....

If it was for today i.e monday. That usually means people are at work."

1.) It wasn't for Monday

2.) We all work! This was scheduled for 7pm till 11pm. If you can think of a better way to relax after work, you're on the wrong website....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already "

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me."

Sorry!! I was only trying to help!! I wouldn't ever go to a private flat to play and with and attitude like yours I'm not surprised your in the position your in. You were asking people to do something for you. You weren't doing them a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What one did turn up well hey fab is working

You're really not getting the point of a GANGBANG, are you....."

Yes but u aint getting the point of wit are you

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

This kind of frustration is quite common, but most in that position are forgetting that their product is competing with the many other distractions, available to entertain single guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Acting like the world owes you penis'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me."

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Sorry!! I was only trying to help!! I wouldn't ever go to a private flat to play and with and attitude like yours I'm not surprised your in the position your in. You were asking people to do something for you. You weren't doing them a favour. "

You - obviously - have no idea what my attitude was pre being pissed off, so very silly comment. Plus, SO doing them a favour! You have no idea what was laid on for them.

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"What one did turn up well hey fab is working

You're really not getting the point of a GANGBANG, are you.....

Yes but u aint getting the point of wit are you"

Had you been witty, I may have gotten it.

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"This kind of frustration is quite common, but most in that position are forgetting that their product is competing with the many other distractions, available to entertain single guys..."

Yup. Porn at home is better than being in two bushes. Or something like that.

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer....."

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A"

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby..."

A gang bang!

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"Acting like the world owes you penis' "

No one owes me a thing.

But making a whole lot of noise, and boasts, and bombarding with emails, and then just one person actually turning up from fab (one guy from another website also showed up, and said he was too nervous to take his clothes off) - kind of a letdown

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

A gang bang! "

Trust me, they can be sensual and erotic experiences with the right people - I'm hardly new to this. Just used to a very different crowd

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

That's a borderline classic!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"no offence but I would look at the effort you have put into your profile, looked at the advert and thought, not sure....

that being said, once they engage in conversation with you, you may have given more information out there..

No offence, but that is nonsense. Of course the profile has changed since last week as it is no longer relevant. There was A LOT of information, and a special flier was emailed to everyone who had expressed interest. This was very carefully thought out."

Nonsense cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 women - 30somethings, fit, cute, great bodies, waiting blindfolded, expecting to be serviced by as many men as possible, ad has been up for ages, TONS of emails from men, and how many turn up?

One.

I mean, seriously??!!??

Talk about All Talk....."

Sounds crazy, a real shame.

Like someone else asked though, was this a free event or was a 'contribution' required? If so that might have deterred some people. Either way poor form to say you're coming then not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glamorous, sensual and erotic are 3 words I've never heard associated with a gang bang.

Does the name gang bang sound glamerous or sensual like say a candle lit massage nooo, more of a gang banging your misses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

A gang bang!

Trust me, they can be sensual and erotic experiences with the right people - I'm hardly new to this. Just used to a very different crowd"

Ah a kk fan, what you doing with us riff raff then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Acting like the world owes you penis'

No one owes me a thing.

But making a whole lot of noise, and boasts, and bombarding with emails, and then just one person actually turning up from fab (one guy from another website also showed up, and said he was too nervous to take his clothes off) - kind of a letdown"

I can empathise. My first meet in here a few weeks back was a GB in the morning where I was the only person there despite others saying they'd come. I ended up with a 1 on 1 in the end which was great but not really what they wanted.

Sadly they didn't verify me (no idea why, they said they would) despite me bring the only bugger to bother to turn up! Therefore please make sure you verify the guy who did turn up (if he wants it) as it's only fair after he at least made the effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby..."

Okay i am now well confused....

how can what you've described ever be sensual & glamorous....?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

Okay i am now well confused....

how can what you've described ever be sensual & glamorous....?! "

An orgy maybe but can't ever imagine a gang bang being glamerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we agreed the meet and post is genuine ? maybe.

Do we think the tone is a bit sharp from the OP to replies ? possibly.

However, if it was genuine and the we over look the possible sharpness.

Maybe suggestions of how to get this great event to work might help.

1)Use clubs on mixed nights as a social to get a little circle of men together.

If they are in the clubs then they are the real players.

2)Go to a greedy girl night and select your players and find a locked room.

or use the greedy girl night to select you play partners for another time.

3)Try VA in Templesford on a Friday and invite as many men as you can. Contact the owners and see if you can do a themed night with them.

4)Try CapDagde for a weekend holiday, if you cannot find a group of men there then they don't exist. Get on the beach during the day and give invites for the evening. You will be able to chose exactly the guys you want. Cap has a 1000's on the beach naked every day most of them fucking each other. You have to see it to believe it.

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"Are we agreed the meet and post is genuine ? maybe.

Do we think the tone is a bit sharp from the OP to replies ? possibly.

However, if it was genuine and the we over look the possible sharpness.

Maybe suggestions of how to get this great event to work might help.

1)Use clubs on mixed nights as a social to get a little circle of men together.

If they are in the clubs then they are the real players.

2)Go to a greedy girl night and select your players and find a locked room.

or use the greedy girl night to select you play partners for another time.

3)Try VA in Templesford on a Friday and invite as many men as you can. Contact the owners and see if you can do a themed night with them.

4)Try CapDagde for a weekend holiday, if you cannot find a group of men there then they don't exist. Get on the beach during the day and give invites for the evening. You will be able to chose exactly the guys you want. Cap has a 1000's on the beach naked every day most of them fucking each other. You have to see it to believe it.

"

Astonishing to think that there is doubt regarding the post and meet.

Beyond that though, thanks for tips!

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

Okay i am now well confused....

how can what you've described ever be sensual & glamorous....?!

An orgy maybe but can't ever imagine a gang bang being glamerous."

What a shame

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

A gang bang!

Trust me, they can be sensual and erotic experiences with the right people - I'm hardly new to this. Just used to a very different crowd

Ah a kk fan, what you doing with us riff raff then"

Well, quite!

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

Okay i am now well confused....

how can what you've described ever be sensual & glamorous....?! "

That statement has put a sad smile on my face...

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By *ityadventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON

Well, it's been lovely chatting and venting.

Must get back to reality now.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

So OP - I'll ask again.

Was this a free event or was there a 'cost' to attendees?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 women - 30somethings, fit, cute, great bodies, waiting blindfolded, expecting to be serviced by as many men as possible, ad has been up for ages, TONS of emails from men, and how many turn up?

One.

I mean, seriously??!!??

Talk about All Talk....."

HAHA! really?!?

Come on! - Little bravery for god sakes. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Well you obviously didn't get it right as only 1 turned up...!!

I'd be looking at what I did wrong, learn from it & move on.

If you came across in your contact with them as you are on here ~ I think you may have found the answer.....

Nope - very different. But that may have been the problem. It was an actually fantasy game, as opposed to a grubby situation. It seems that that was the problem. Too glamorous, sensual and erotic as opposed to sleazy and grubby...

Okay i am now well confused....

how can what you've described ever be sensual & glamorous....?!

That statement has put a sad smile on my face...

"

a sad smile.....isn't that a smirk?

Damn, where's the emoji for that on here..?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one."

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too"

Twice!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

Twice!

A"

Yes I also wonder why they don't arrange it with the kk people?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

Twice!

A

Yes I also wonder why they don't arrange it with the kk people?"

Maybe they didn't pass the eligibility test?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All talk no balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

Twice!

A

Yes I also wonder why they don't arrange it with the kk people?

Maybe they didn't pass the eligibility test?

A"

What's the eligibility test? You must be beautiful people and minted? I only know about kk from reputation rather than the facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were you the one man or one of the women?

Neither - I was the man organising it. A play-friend asked me to help her fulfil a fantasy, and another play-friend wanted to join"

Out of interest have you organised many events like this? I mean lets face it was clearly a disaster and however much you try and blame the men that didn't turn up, ultimately you have to take responsibility for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps some people on this thread were trying to lighten the mood, maybe if you didn't take things quite so seriously you might get on better, possibly a club would be a better setting as then you know the guys won't flake out as they are there already

You're right, obviously a club is better. I mean, who wants to come to a private flat where there are bottles of bubbles laid out, not to mention two hot, naked, 30something women, blindfolded, on a bed, waiting to get fucked by as many men as possible.

Silly me.

Sorry!! I was only trying to help!! I wouldn't ever go to a private flat to play and with and attitude like yours I'm not surprised your in the position your in. You were asking people to do something for you. You weren't doing them a favour.

You - obviously - have no idea what my attitude was pre being pissed off, so very silly comment. Plus, SO doing them a favour! You have no idea what was laid on for them."

Um no. How about you apologise for being patronising. Asking people to help you live out your fantasies is not doing them a favour, you clearly thinkbyour better than most here so why don't you do everyone a favour and take your stinking attitude somewhere else. Humph.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

Twice!

A

Yes I also wonder why they don't arrange it with the kk people?

Maybe they didn't pass the eligibility test?

A

What's the eligibility test? You must be beautiful people and minted? I only know about kk from reputation rather than the facts. "

"When you create your Killing Kittens account and log-in, make sure you upload photos of your and complete your profile fully as your KK profile will be considered during the process. If we need to ask you further questions we will message you internally via the website so please check your Inbox for any communications."

They vet all applicants. Didn't proof read their FAQ's though!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

Twice!

A

Yes I also wonder why they don't arrange it with the kk people?

Maybe they didn't pass the eligibility test?

A

What's the eligibility test? You must be beautiful people and minted? I only know about kk from reputation rather than the facts.

"When you create your Killing Kittens account and log-in, make sure you upload photos of your and complete your profile fully as your KK profile will be considered during the process. If we need to ask you further questions we will message you internally via the website so please check your Inbox for any communications."

They vet all applicants. Didn't proof read their FAQ's though!

A"

I think I'd rather stay here with the good, the bad and the ugly if the op is an example of kk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest - was this a free 'event' or were there 'costs' involved for the men attending?

A

Very good question, but I suspect it was a free one.

Though interestingly this appears to be the only post the OP hasn't replied too

Twice!

A

Yes I also wonder why they don't arrange it with the kk people?

Maybe they didn't pass the eligibility test?

A

What's the eligibility test? You must be beautiful people and minted? I only know about kk from reputation rather than the facts.

"When you create your Killing Kittens account and log-in, make sure you upload photos of your and complete your profile fully as your KK profile will be considered during the process. If we need to ask you further questions we will message you internally via the website so please check your Inbox for any communications."

They vet all applicants. Didn't proof read their FAQ's though!

A

I think I'd rather stay here with the good, the bad and the ugly if the op is an example of kk"

This

I am dissapointed though, I was expecting hoops, jumping though hoops.

All joking aside though good luck to them there is a niche for everyone in this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen their profile before. It had more to it before. I can only assume the minimalisation is in response to what happened.

I must say I despair at the behaviour of some other single guys

Yup.

They are all very good at talking and bombarding me with messages, but when it comes to putting their money where the ladies mouths are.... All talk...."

if you were charging people for money then that is not allowed on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rainbows and fairy dust

Am I on the wrong thread? Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen their profile before. It had more to it before. I can only assume the minimalisation is in response to what happened.

I must say I despair at the behaviour of some other single guys

Yup.

They are all very good at talking and bombarding me with messages, but when it comes to putting their money where the ladies mouths are.... All talk....

if you were charging people for money then that is not allowed on the site"

Really? What about all the events in the meetings section? Would this be any different?

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

I hope someone's gonna put all those toys back on the pram !!!

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

I hope someone's gonna put all those toys back on the pram !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically the op is obviously just a pimp. And if 1 turned up, well they do say there's one born every minute

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By *mmie2014Man
over a year ago

London

Just wondering how long it will be before a moderator closes this thread.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen their profile before. It had more to it before. I can only assume the minimalisation is in response to what happened.

I must say I despair at the behaviour of some other single guys

Yup.

They are all very good at talking and bombarding me with messages, but when it comes to putting their money where the ladies mouths are.... All talk....

if you were charging people for money then that is not allowed on the site

Really? What about all the events in the meetings section? Would this be any different?"

if you mean by swingers clubs, yes it is different. they are charging entrance to come into a club, sex is not guaranteed.

Charging people to come to a GB that another user has organised or poorly organised in this instance, is against the rules, look at the site's FAQ's. And is also classed as prostitution because you're paying for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's London for you...would never happen in Malvern!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

So, at the risk of sounding like an echo... were there costs involved for those wishing to turn up and have some fun?

As has been pointed out, the OP seems to have missed this question on the (numerous) occasions that it has been asked lol!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

At the risk of stating the obvious, I'd say the reason for the non-reply is that financial gain was at the root of this initial "meet" request, and the OP just doesn't want to admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in short the guy wanted to pimp his wife out at a glamorous and sensual gang bang.

They do say reality is better than fiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no answer on if it was a free or paid event....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could always ask the one that showed up but that would be devilment and very unfair,

shouldnt have pointed that out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So op tried to set up a cut budget brothel an found punters lacking?

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