FabSwingers.com forum: Ex on Fab with new girlfriend.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

BOO! He has already looked at my profile. I've blocked them so they can't look again. I don't want him back but still hurts. Or am I being a pussy? More upset as this is MY HOBBY. Lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"BOO! He has already looked at my profile. I've blocked them so they can't look again. I don't want him back but still hurts. Or am I being a pussy? More upset as this is MY HOBBY. Lol. "

no you're not being a pussy but he has as much right to be here as you. I agree it can't be easy though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"BOO! He has already looked at my profile. I've blocked them so they can't look again. I don't want him back but still hurts. Or am I being a pussy? More upset as this is MY HOBBY. Lol. "

I know. Just ranting. None of my friends know about my hobby so I don't have anyone to talk to about it really. Just ppl in here and the forums. Xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't talk with anyone about anything sexual except people on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"BOO! He has already looked at my profile. I've blocked them so they can't look again. I don't want him back but still hurts. Or am I being a pussy? More upset as this is MY HOBBY. Lol.

I know. Just ranting. None of my friends know about my hobby so I don't have anyone to talk to about it really. Just ppl in here and the forums. Xx "

Rant away

. At least with the block feature you know he can't look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not an easy one hun but it is what it is

try not to look at what they're upto, will make it easier to move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time. I would block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes time. I would block them."

Yeah I have. Well I hope they have fun. I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope they don't use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hope they don't use the forums."

Don't care if they do.

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By *illynmintCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I hope they don't use the forums."

My thoughts too

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By *antasyhelperMan
over a year ago

hednesford

Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x "

No no no no. No naming and shaming! Lol. Everyone is intitled to a sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the look of your pics its his loss.x

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Good on you whats passed is passed just enjoy your own life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and have fun to both of you, no point looking back only forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From the look of your pics its his loss.x"

Thank u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x "

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol

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By *ndy8goldMan
over a year ago

blackburn

As one door closes lots more open

. Jusayin x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol"

I don't think (well I hope anyway) that the op intended this to be a thread to bash her ex but more just saying she felt a little sad.

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By *ort123Man
over a year ago

Tredegar

As its been said before, never look back........................... unless of course your getting fucked doggy style, then its ok........... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol

I don't think (well I hope anyway) that the op intended this to be a thread to bash her ex but more just saying she felt a little sad. "

Oh I know, I can completely understand her feeling that way. It was more aimed at the guy saying he should be named & shamed. It never ends well when that happens! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully you'll be in a better place, if you bumped into them in a club or something that wouldn't be ideal I imagine

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

the woman my ex left me for was someone we had met through swinging he told her they would have to give up swinging bloody arsehole wouldnt give it up when i wanted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BOO! He has already looked at my profile. I've blocked them so they can't look again. I don't want him back but still hurts. Or am I being a pussy? More upset as this is MY HOBBY. Lol. "

Why worry? Why block? I would have just ignored its his life let him get on with it thats what the Ex bit means.

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By *antasyhelperMan
over a year ago

hednesford

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol"

Just trying to pick her up a little.

Bit of mob mentality lol x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol

I don't think (well I hope anyway) that the op intended this to be a thread to bash her ex but more just saying she felt a little sad. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave him a shit verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im here as a friend to help i know how it feels to be hurt betrayed and get through it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure your profile pic consists of you enjoying a dick much bigger than his an hell feel shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol

Just trying to pick her up a little.

Bit of mob mentality lol x"

All it would achieve is this thread getting closed & the OP receiving a forum ban.....not sure how that would pick her up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play for not getting.freaked out and leaving the site.

Keep your head up and just keep enjoying.what your doing.

And.once.you have blocked a person then they cannot see anything.you.post even in the forums or chat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Fair play for not getting.freaked out and leaving the site.

Keep your head up and just keep enjoying.what your doing.

And.once.you have blocked a person then they cannot see anything.you.post even in the forums or chat"

They can see what you say in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol

Just trying to pick her up a little.

Bit of mob mentality lol x

All it would achieve is this thread getting closed & the OP receiving a forum ban.....not sure how that would pick her up."

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"Name and shame so we can all block them lol x

And that would achieve what exactly? Lol

Just trying to pick her up a little.

Bit of mob mentality lol x

Sounds to me like you still care for him and like wise he still cares for you life is to short and I am

Sure in a while you will both move on and be happy I hope so there is to much sadness in the world good luck anyway and you can see that there are a lot of carring people on this site who care about the feelings of others and that is so nice xxxx

All it would achieve is this thread getting closed & the OP receiving a forum ban.....not sure how that would pick her up.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Fair play for not getting.freaked out and leaving the site.

Keep your head up and just keep enjoying.what your doing.

And.once.you have blocked a person then they cannot see anything.you.post even in the forums or chat

They can see what you say in the forums."

Forums comments can be seen be anyone, blocked or not.

Don't know about comments in chat as we don't use the chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the site as a single woman just try not to get involved with anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only human! You're dealing with it the way anyone would. At least you're talking about it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh, that must hurt, no matter why or how you splt up.

My ex and I both used to play with occasional other partners, but eventually decided that we had to go our separate ways, although we both still had feelings for each other.

We agreed not to ever be on the same sites though - I don't think that I could stand that.... it would still hurt too much..

I empathise strongly, and hope that you can find your own way through it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the look of your pics its his loss.x

Thank u.

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