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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just been to meet someone off here for a meet. Went to the address I was told to go to and the poor guy at the door had no idea.

What should I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if he ordered a tesco delivery ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Report "

But it's my word against his although I have the messages to prove it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo report, what a nasty thing to do to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have they said about it? Could it have been a typo?

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By *hesterfieldfunMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

Yeh def report not fair play at all.... Given this is a site for meeting people thats not cricket at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report...there might end up being no action taken but at least you'll feel better that you tried! What a dick thing to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What have they said about it? Could it have been a typo?

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Nope said I didn't use the password but the guy at the door was about 15 years older n the message said that a woman would answer the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nasty people on here that seem to get off on giving people the run around. I always meet socially first because as a woman, going to a private address of a stranger I've never met would be a big no no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel as though it's my fault. The guy had some decent veris and his story of a fuck bud sounded plausible. I just feel a total fool atm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not a fool. Sadly it sounds that you have been at the mercy of some idiots giving you the run around. Please report them. And never give up. Lots of nice genuine people here. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I go on reporting someone x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Nope said I didn't use the password but the guy at the door was about 15 years older n the message said that a woman would answer the door. "

so are you 100% sure you was in the right place? Or did you panic and run when a women didn't answer the door?

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Just been to meet someone off here for a meet. Went to the address I was told to go to and the poor guy at the door had no idea.

What should I do?"

Happened to me a couple of times. Report them. Put it down to experience and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I go on reporting someone x"

Click on their profile and there is report user option, click on that and explained what happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the guy at the door, sorry wrong door nr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell the guy at the door, sorry wrong door nr."

That's exactly what I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell the guy at the door, sorry wrong door nr.

That's exactly what I did."
Good, best thing to do.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Had that happen to me a few years ago when I was still new to the scene. After exchanging lots of messages with a woman for a meet I arrived as instructed to find an empty flat... no calls to the number were answered. I saw a Postie and checked it was the right address and he said, 'that's funny, you're the third bloke to ask me that today' ...

If you're sure it was not a mistake then report as others have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what (fab) is fastly becoming. A, take the piss site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you chat on the phone before going to the meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you chat on the phone before going to the meet? "

Nope I've learnt some valuable lessons today x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel as though it's my fault. The guy had some decent veris and his story of a fuck bud sounded plausible. I just feel a total fool atm!"

Anyone can be fooled by someone taking advantage of their trust. Chalk it up to experience and don't let it put you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been given the run around before, but you do develop a 6th sense sometimes. Nothing tangible but something gives you a red flag.

I was on another site and was meeting not a million miles from where the OP is - in fact will send a PM sounds familiar

They (he) kept promising to meet but never did so anytime he was in chat I kept outing him as a timewaster didthe trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Just been to meet someone off here for a meet. Went to the address I was told to go to and the poor guy at the door had no idea.

What should I do?"

Go home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once arranged a meet with a women and turned up at the address and knocked on the door but no one answered. I was knocking a few times for a couple of minutes and thought I'd been led on so went back to my car.

I thought I'd check the message one more time and relised I was knocking on the wrong door number

Luckily nobody answered that door or I would have been really shocked and embarassed lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also been up that path a few times but as others have said chalk to experience!! Personally i never leave the house unless i have a phone chat first unless i am pretty certain through veri's or others that some one is genuine!! But it still happens!! Had a cpl speak on phone as i was leaving to meet, drove over an hour to location but when i phoned for house number! No answer... Checked on here and had been blocked!! So never a 100% just experience!! And some peoples idea of "FUN" ...

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Always have a "plan B"

Go for a coffee with friends........

A nice quiet drink in a country pub......

I always have my dancing shoes at the ready.......

So if a meet goes "tits up "

Then I have lost nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's what (fab) is fastly becoming. A, take the piss site. "

This is why i have stopped meeting... Huge influx of gobshites latley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a daft question, but have you spoken to them since?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know what happens when/if you do report them. Do they get banned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a meet they showed up i paid 90 quid for hotel gave them 25 quid for there petrol and women said get me vodka got it we was chatting fine then when it came to play she banged her head and said had to go they was just skint on a Saturday took piss just like they have with you so u not on your own mate not everyone like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet they showed up i paid 90 quid for hotel gave them 25 quid for there petrol and women said get me vodka got it we was chatting fine then when it came to play she banged her head and said had to go they was just skint on a Saturday took piss just like they have with you so u not on your own mate not everyone like that"

Why would you give anyone money for petrol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet they showed up i paid 90 quid for hotel gave them 25 quid for there petrol and women said get me vodka got it we was chatting fine then when it came to play she banged her head and said had to go they was just skint on a Saturday took piss just like they have with you so u not on your own mate not everyone like that

Why would you give anyone money for petrol?"
didn't think at time they was only 30 miles down road just got had off skanks but had 2 great meets since just one bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report, admin have access to all messages on here even "deleted" ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to know what happens when/if you do report them. Do they get banned?

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If there are mulitple reports over time yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet they showed up i paid 90 quid for hotel gave them 25 quid for there petrol and women said get me vodka got it we was chatting fine then when it came to play she banged her head and said had to go they was just skint on a Saturday took piss just like they have with you so u not on your own mate not everyone like that"

Oh my god some people are just piss takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet they showed up i paid 90 quid for hotel gave them 25 quid for there petrol and women said get me vodka got it we was chatting fine then when it came to play she banged her head and said had to go they was just skint on a Saturday took piss just like they have with you so u not on your own mate not everyone like that

Oh my god some people are just piss takers"
it did my head in wouldn't mind but they blocked me an hour later wound me up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

also people enjoy harassing others by sending takeaways, taxis etc. to their door its not beyond the realms of possibility that this is what sometimes happens with these incorrect address situations.

Always meet in a neutral location first, even if you intend to go straight back to their house would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why the need to use a password at the door unless you were meeting them blind- surely you all would know what you look like and were expected - that aside definately report - we had a girl once give us a fake postcode - when we looked it up on route planner it didnt exist - when we asked if she typed it correctly she went off site - ah well

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It wouldn't cross my mind to go "blind" to someone's house, let alone someone claiming to arrange a threesomes meet and I hadn't spoken to the woman.

If it sounds too good to be true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't cross my mind to go "blind" to someone's house, let alone someone claiming to arrange a threesomes meet and I hadn't spoken to the woman.

If it sounds too good to be true..."

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