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By *arton Blue OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Do you feel comfortable going to a club on your own? Been to Adam & Eves with a lady friend,really fancy a Sunday afternoon session, but can't seem to pluck up the courage

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

didnt need to pluck up any courage just went as ive been to clubs in the past so knew what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam and Eves is a great one to go to by yourself... Dave and Polly will look after you.. Its a bonus you're been before too

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I tend to always go to club on my own

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'll be absolutely honest I don't think I would ever pluck up the courage

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By *punkyhelmet5Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

I nearly always go to clubs on my own but the key to success is to talk to people and not just sit in the corner alone all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I don't even like swimming on my own. The only place I could go alone was the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never go to a club on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a couple of clubs with friends then went on my own. I was nervous but figured it was just like going to a pub on my own. Just chat to people and wander around a bit.

I understand it will be harder for single guys than women though.

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

I would only go to a club on my own which I go to regularly and know the owners and regulars

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I first went to a club with a couple I had met at a social as they invited me along. I was a bit nervous, wortied about seeing someone I knew from the vanilla world and not sure what to expect, not helped by the woman from the couple being tied to a cross and 'tortured' with ice the minute she walked in!!! (It was her birthday, so she knew it was coming lol).

After that the couple dragged me off to join them and I loved it.

I went back loads of times on my own and got to know the regulars and became quite sucessful there

Go for it! Just be patient and confident and avoid being pushy and you should do okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go alone. You have to be sociable or you won't enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I'd be brave enough to go to a club totally on my own, would like to meet someone there.

Would do kestrels on my own but that's a different set up.

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By *arton Blue OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston


" I understand it will be harder for single guys than women though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I understand it will be harder for single guys than women though.

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Yes it is! Nerve racking it is, just sit back observe, mingle a bit, and slowly you will gain confidence. But always remember you need to respect and not cross lines!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. That's part of the thrill.

I went to chameleons on Monday and Abfabs Friday and was trembling for quite some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel comfortable going to a club on your own? Been to Adam & Eves with a lady friend,really fancy a Sunday afternoon session, but can't seem to pluck up the courage"

I do yes

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I usually go on my own. My first visit to a club was by myself.

Just do it. What's to be scared of?

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

I love going by myself. Just go with the expectation of relaxing. In fun occurs then thats an added bonus.

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By *ot4ujoWoman
over a year ago

Eccles

I go on my own feel free to do what I want than when go with someone else

I go to Adam and eves I find the jacuzzi is always a good place to start conversation x

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

whats the worse thing that can happen. Its not a fight club. Just go, to get laid people usually interact. Avoid the booze though, it doesn't help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a club before but am off to Mingles next Thursday on my own. Nervous, but am always nervous before a meet anyway. It's part of the attraction for me!

Oh and if anyone reading this sees me at Mingles next week, come and say Hi!

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