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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any point in reporting a truly awful meet? Right now i just feel like leaving fab because it's left me feeling so shit

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By *ornyguy414uMan
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

What on earth happened ? X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It really depends. If there was abuse or danger then probably you should. If it was a case of the other person was just a twat then there's not much the site can do about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! If it's left you like that you need to protect other woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what kind of bad it was hun.so sorry it wasnt what you hoped.it will take time to get over,but you will.put it behind you and look forward.xxxxx

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"It really depends. If there was abuse or danger then probably you should. If it was a case of the other person was just a twat then there's not much the site can do about that."

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He seemed ok when i spoke to him on the phone, and i'd already told him about having a few bad experiences lately with other meets and timewasters. The whole thing took 10 mins, with a tiny amount of foreplay and he left right after he came (but i didn't cum onc). He didn't see a problem with this and told me i was "getting upset about nothing". I think it might actually have been the worst meets i've ever had.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Report to admin and if necessary, the police. It might help, saying what happened in a public forum for you to get advice, but it might not.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ah.....just block him and find a man better at sex. Sounds like a selfish git to me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"He seemed ok when i spoke to him on the phone, and i'd already told him about having a few bad experiences lately with other meets and timewasters. The whole thing took 10 mins, with a tiny amount of foreplay and he left right after he came (but i didn't cum onc). He didn't see a problem with this and told me i was "getting upset about nothing". I think it might actually have been the worst meets i've ever had. "

Oh hun, that's just him being a twat. I had a meet like that once, luckily not a guy from here. Just chalk it up to a bad experience and block him and move on.

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By *ornyguy414uMan
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

Wtf are police gonna do ???

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm guessing that something more than just bad sex or incompatibility was up. Inform fab after a chance to unwind and reflect. None of us want to overload admin but they will be able to make an appropriate decision. Most importantly make sure you're ok and safe. Please get some personal support if you need it

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land


"He seemed ok when i spoke to him on the phone, and i'd already told him about having a few bad experiences lately with other meets and timewasters. The whole thing took 10 mins, with a tiny amount of foreplay and he left right after he came (but i didn't cum onc). He didn't see a problem with this and told me i was "getting upset about nothing". I think it might actually have been the worst meets i've ever had. "

Not much you can do really !!!

As long as you hare safe ! Then you just have to put it down to experience ! Did he have veris? What did others say about him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was obviously crap at sex so just block him and move on and make sure you talk more about what you like and expect before meeting anyone else

xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"He seemed ok when i spoke to him on the phone, and i'd already told him about having a few bad experiences lately with other meets and timewasters. The whole thing took 10 mins, with a tiny amount of foreplay and he left right after he came (but i didn't cum onc). He didn't see a problem with this and told me i was "getting upset about nothing". I think it might actually have been the worst meets i've ever had. "

I might be reading this wrong or you might not be telling the full story of what happened because your so upset but if it was a bad meet because you didn't cum and he did and left early I guess a lot of women would be phoning the police

But obviously if there's more and he did something to you when you said stop etc then it needs reporting

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By *ornyguy414uMan
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

He was obviously a selfish guy only out to please himself . Dont think the admin or police would be interested . 2 consenting adults . Unless he done abything untoward ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Was writing my message whilst other stuff was posted, so a little off track.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 minutes.... Christ.. sounds a right inconsiderate plonka... I am sure there are more considerate people on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He seemed ok when i spoke to him on the phone, and i'd already told him about having a few bad experiences lately with other meets and timewasters. The whole thing took 10 mins, with a tiny amount of foreplay and he left right after he came (but i didn't cum onc). He didn't see a problem with this and told me i was "getting upset about nothing". I think it might actually have been the worst meets i've ever had. "

Not sure you can really report anyone for being a shit/selfish shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regardless..its not something to report ffs...if you want to measure this meet with the countless others(that may be good), I think thats just being silly.

lets just say you didnt get on sexually and thats the end of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought he was joking at first to be honest, he stood up, put his shorts back on and said "right i have to get going". I was like "WHAT??". He is a truly selfish cunt and i wish i could warn other women so they don't end up feeling the way i do right now. I trusted him enough to let him come to MY HOUSE which i don't often do and he abused that trust

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your replies btw, very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought he was joking at first to be honest, he stood up, put his shorts back on and said "right i have to get going". I was like "WHAT??". He is a truly selfish cunt and i wish i could warn other women so they don't end up feeling the way i do right now. I trusted him enough to let him come to MY HOUSE which i don't often do and he abused that trust "

You look like a gorgeous girl, I'm sure there are a lot of guys on fab who would love to show you how a guy SHOULD treat you. Don't. Let one selfish shit spoilt it for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if he waa off here then a thread slagging the guy off (even though he's not named) is pretty poor form particularly as the melodramatic first post has got everyone condemning tge poor guy of non-existant crimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes two people to have shit sex and being a selfish shag isn't against any rules. Sorry you're feeling upset, but there isn't really anything the site can do about what you experienced. You mentioned you've had a few bad meets, perhaps have a look at your selection process as that might be the issue.

I'd say the only option you have I'd chalk it up to experiance, block the guy and move on.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

hi leave a veri so we can all keep clear..connie xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You could always send him a crap veri. He won't show it but it might make you feel a bit better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg "

Sometimes a quick shag is what is needed, but I must admit I get a bit testy if I don't get at least one orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the record it wasnt me...lol

and thank fuck...nothing to do with my sexual prowess, the level of in-discreetness shown by the op...and of course, the fawning that follows.

nobody knows the full story...and what If the OP came on the forum saying things about the meet.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg

Sometimes a quick shag is what is needed, but I must admit I get a bit testy if I don't get at least one orgasm."

1 squirt=orgasm

am off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg

Sometimes a quick shag is what is needed, but I must admit I get a bit testy if I don't get at least one orgasm.

1 squirt=orgasm

am off"

Paddy, you make me cum just by being within a mile of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg

Sometimes a quick shag is what is needed, but I must admit I get a bit testy if I don't get at least one orgasm."
YEs few times its been so quick I haven't cummed, just penetrated the pussie, but yes orgasming is more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for the record it wasnt me...lol

and thank fuck...nothing to do with my sexual prowess, the level of in-discreetness shown by the op...and of course, the fawning that follows.

nobody knows the full story...and what If the OP came on the forum saying things about the meet....... "

*Sorry, I meant the meet came in talking about the OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"for the record it wasnt me...lol

and thank fuck...nothing to do with my sexual prowess, the level of in-discreetness shown by the op...and of course, the fawning that follows.

nobody knows the full story...and what If the OP came on the forum saying things about the meet....... "

Have you got a problem with me because you're being very nasty for no reason i can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought he was joking at first to be honest, he stood up, put his shorts back on and said "right i have to get going". I was like "WHAT??". He is a truly selfish cunt and i wish i could warn other women so they don't end up feeling the way i do right now. I trusted him enough to let him come to MY HOUSE which i don't often do and he abused that trust "

how did he abuse your trust? he turned up had sex and left wheres the abuse? inconsiderate yes, abusive no. just a crap meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for the record it wasnt me...lol

and thank fuck...nothing to do with my sexual prowess, the level of in-discreetness shown by the op...and of course, the fawning that follows.

nobody knows the full story...and what If the OP came on the forum saying things about the meet.......

Have you got a problem with me because you're being very nasty for no reason i can see. "

not being nasty at all.If the guy you met came in slagging you off I wouldnt accept that either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Have you got a problem with me because you're being very nasty for no reason i can see.

not being nasty at all.If the guy you met came in slagging you off I wouldnt accept that either."

Whatever. I'm not getting into a slanging match with you petal. Thank you for your input.

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land


"for the record it wasnt me...lol

and thank fuck...nothing to do with my sexual prowess, the level of in-discreetness shown by the op...and of course, the fawning that follows.

nobody knows the full story...and what If the OP came on the forum saying things about the meet.......

Have you got a problem with me because you're being very nasty for no reason i can see.

not being nasty at all.If the guy you met came in slagging you off I wouldnt accept that either."

Paddy go make her cum !!!! To make up for being nasty !!! Win win that way everyones happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought he was joking at first to be honest, he stood up, put his shorts back on and said "right i have to get going". I was like "WHAT??". He is a truly selfish cunt and i wish i could warn other women so they don't end up feeling the way i do right now. I trusted him enough to let him come to MY HOUSE which i don't often do and he abused that trust

how did he abuse your trust? he turned up had sex and left wheres the abuse? inconsiderate yes, abusive no. just a crap meet. "

I thought the same, not sure how your trust was abused. From just hearing your side of the story it just sounds like you had differing expectations of the meet, he was after a quickie, you weren't.

I do hope the guy doesn't read the forum as this isn't really an appropriate subject & you should be discussing it with him in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree to, nothing bad was done, just don't meet him if you wanna shag for longer lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe look at your selection process if you've has a few bad experiences off here.

Do you meet socially first, you might find that helps you suss the other person out before you commit to more.

Obviously doesn't safeguard you totally from shit shags....*disclaimer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Have you got a problem with me because you're being very nasty for no reason i can see.

not being nasty at all.If the guy you met came in slagging you off I wouldnt accept that either.

Whatever. I'm not getting into a slanging match with you petal. Thank you for your input."

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for the record it wasnt me...lol

and thank fuck...nothing to do with my sexual prowess, the level of in-discreetness shown by the op...and of course, the fawning that follows.

nobody knows the full story...and what If the OP came on the forum saying things about the meet.......

Have you got a problem with me because you're being very nasty for no reason i can see.

not being nasty at all.If the guy you met came in slagging you off I wouldnt accept that either.

Paddy go make her cum !!!! To make up for being nasty !!! Win win that way everyones happy "

lol...I doubt thatll happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who gave me advice and can understand why i feel rubbish.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've had shit shags in the past and I have probably been a shit shag to others as well, no idea what on earth you thought you could report him for though, you arranged a meet, he turned up, you had sex (albeit shit) and he left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a meet. I was giving him a tit wank. He came. Got dressed and said he had to go. I didn't even get to take my knickers off. He got What he wanted and left. I didn't verify him. A week later he asked to meet so I told him a few home truths and blocked him. There are guys out there that think of your needs too. Keep looking ............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had shit shags in the past and I have probably been a shit shag to others as well, no idea what on earth you thought you could report him for though, you arranged a meet, he turned up, you had sex (albeit shit) and he left "

am still hoping for a shit shag from ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had shit shags in the past and I have probably been a shit shag to others as well, no idea what on earth you thought you could report him for though, you arranged a meet, he turned up, you had sex (albeit shit) and he left "

I wouldn't report a shit shag. Just those that are abusive or not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After very little foreplay, I personally wouldn't of allowed it to get to full sex, but that's just me and I'm selfish

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I've had shit shags in the past and I have probably been a shit shag to others as well, no idea what on earth you thought you could report him for though, you arranged a meet, he turned up, you had sex (albeit shit) and he left "

Ditto. I can't imagine anyone on here hasn't had at least one shit shag in their time but what's a shit shag to one person may not be to another. Unless he threatened, harmed or abused you I really don't get the drama around reporting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dude may have been embarrassed and made a run for it with a red face it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Second thread I've seen in two days with women claiming that men have left them unsatisfied. Personally I find it indiscreet.

Imagine the outrage if a guy posted this way about a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Second thread I've seen in two days with women claiming that men have left them unsatisfied. Personally I find it indiscreet.

Imagine the outrage if a guy posted this way about a woman."
YEs and same if you have sex with a married woman even worse the coments would be then lol.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've had shit shags in the past and I have probably been a shit shag to others as well, no idea what on earth you thought you could report him for though, you arranged a meet, he turned up, you had sex (albeit shit) and he left

am still hoping for a shit shag from ya "

You sweet talker you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report to admin and if necessary, the police. It might help, saying what happened in a public forum for you to get advice, but it might not. "

Report him for what cumming and leaving based o op previous post bar being selfish he aint done owt illegal or done anything to warrant reporting.

As embarassing for o p it is and shows the bloke in bad light both were willing parties they had sex end of.

O p just block and hope next one is more considerate.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I thought he was joking at first to be honest, he stood up, put his shorts back on and said "right i have to get going". I was like "WHAT??". He is a truly selfish cunt and i wish i could warn other women so they don't end up feeling the way i do right now. I trusted him enough to let him come to MY HOUSE which i don't often do and he abused that trust "

I had a similar experience. I went to his place tho. We'd chatted all day, txt and phone. Seemed lovely. Was all going fine till he called me a slut. I just gave him a look and carried on. He didn't do it again. Did me from behind and cum then when I turned round he was already half dressed! When I asked are we not gonna finish he said he was too busy and had to make dinner.

As I left he said "I'll not charge you for the condom". How bloody rude.

I was furious all way home; it's so upsetting. I was treated like a prostitute that never got paid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a meet where I just licked her pussie then she said your to sexy lets do it another time and she left lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I once had a meet where I just licked her pussie"

Fuck me, I didn't think men on here did that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet where I just licked her pussie

Fuck me, I didn't think men on here did that! "
lol don't think all do but I always make sure my women leaves with a FULL servicing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I was furious all way home; it's so upsetting. I was treated like a prostitute that never got paid. "

Yes, that's how i feel right now. It's totally demoralising. The trouble is we always think that other people will treat us with the same respect and consideration that we treat them with. He sounds like a vile human being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Tina needs to diversify into "Orgasm Insurance".....

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Cant beleive what im reading here, op he has done nothing to be reported for, he hasnt betrayed any trust he was simply shit, or possibly embarrassed that he came quickly and the only thing he could think of was to get out of there, its understandable to feel a bit bad after a shit meet but you have betrayed more trust than him by coming on here and talking about the meet, if you get like this after every bad meet you seriously need to have a think whether this site/lifestyle is for you, as you are always going to come across these people, you need a thick skin.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Ah.....just block him and find a man better at sex. Sounds like a selfish git to me. "

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"After very little foreplay, I personally wouldn't of allowed it to get to full sex, but that's just me and I'm selfish "

exactly what I was thinking, so OP why did you have full sex if the foreplay was over so quickly? Not having a go just asking a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I was furious all way home; it's so upsetting. I was treated like a prostitute that never got paid.

Yes, that's how i feel right now. It's totally demoralising. The trouble is we always think that other people will treat us with the same respect and consideration that we treat them with. He sounds like a vile human being "
Hope you can get over it soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How indiscreet talking about a meet on a public forum, I hope the guy doesn't frequent the forums! Sorry to hear you had a bad meet, unfortunately the risk you take in this lifestyle, I've had a couple but just move on and forget about it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Wtf are police gonna do ??? "

I suggested the police before I knew it wa a shit shag.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

warn other women about him....

jesus, the drama that is spouted on here at times beggars belief.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Are you guys incapable of reading my posts in context of where they are placed? I suggested the police BEFORE I knew she said he was a shit shag.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"warn other women about him....

jesus, the drama that is spouted on here at times beggars belief.

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Hence my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he had problems down below and maybe felt ashamed if he couldnt get back up? Iev had that a few times but not on here. Some guys are just to proud to say anything. At least you are not hurt at all.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i read your post steve and managed to work out that the police comment was made before it was clear that this was about a 'shit shag'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this was a bloke posting what o p outcry would be lot worse agree with others o p out of order in my _iew it was shit meet get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my main point was, reading one side of a story:

If I had posted I'd just met a woman and she gave me the worst blowjob ever...let alone the fact her fanny stunk of rotten fish, it was so bad that during the shagging I had to come really quick n get out of there.

whether or not it was true or untrue...I wouldnt have posted it, and I would be prepared for people telling me off for my shit poor discretion.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i read your post steve and managed to work out that the police comment was made before it was clear that this was about a 'shit shag'

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Exactly, the explanation appeared seconds before I posted and I immediately posted my other post.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Was it you, Keen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it you, Keen? "

if u had read my posts previously u would know it wasnt..pay attention steve, hand off the cock and stop wanking at my pics!-biaaarrrch

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Was it you, Keen?

if u had read my posts previously u would know it wasnt..pay attention steve, hand off the cock and stop wanking at my pics!-biaaarrrch "

Thats a yes then

Who told you I've wanked over your pics?!?! Next time you shag me gran, tell her to keep her gob shut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your bad experience, but please don't judge us all like that. With me it is more about the womans needs rather than mine, to please you pleases me, and if we both cum thats a bonus

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Gotta lourrrrve these Forums! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you had a shit Shag, as long as he didn't hurt you or force you, what's the problem ? ?

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By *ity Slickers PartiesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Milan, Italy

Obviously he was not a true swinger and by the sound if it he might have been lucky to get a free quick release in a swinger site rather than calling and paying for an escort service!

Such people could be out with a minimum of conversation and/or by checking previous verifications with the duration of time they have been in the site. If all those steps were taken, put it down to experience and look forward and upwards.

We had a guy once at our parties who within minutes came while a girl was giving him a blow job and that's it, he was very selfishly done for the evening! The girl felt understandably humiliated and reported him. He never got invited again to our parties and that's why from now on we only welcome those single guys who have been vouched for by an existing female member.

I feel sadden about your experience as the main purpose of swinging is to pleasure your partner as much as possible and I hope you won't leave the site because of this bad experience.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Is there any point in reporting a truly awful meet? Right now i just feel like leaving fab because it's left me feeling so shit "
you look very sexy in your pics, your profile reads like you have balls of steel and you take no crap, so why are you letting this upset you just move on

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Good god. You want to report someone for crap sex?

Fuck me, whats the world coming to.

What next? Didn't enjoy your coffee, so go to the police?

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire


"Was it you, Keen?

if u had read my posts previously u would know it wasnt..pay attention steve, hand off the cock and stop wanking at my pics!-biaaarrrch

Thats a yes then

Who told you I've wanked over your pics?!?! Next time you shag me gran, tell her to keep her gob shut! "

I told him and Keen stop telling everyone about my fanny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it you, Keen?

if u had read my posts previously u would know it wasnt..pay attention steve, hand off the cock and stop wanking at my pics!-biaaarrrch

Thats a yes then

Who told you I've wanked over your pics?!?! Next time you shag me gran, tell her to keep her gob shut!

I told him and Keen stop telling everyone about my fanny! "

I just puked thinking about yours....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good god. You want to report someone for crap sex?

Fuck me, whats the world coming to.

What next? Didn't enjoy your coffee, so go to the police?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf are police gonna do ??? "

Theyre not gonna arrest him for being a shit shag...lock him up n throw away the key!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf are police gonna do ???

Theyre not gonna arrest him for being a shit shag...lock him up n throw away the key!!"

he might be a great shag in prison though....

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire


"Was it you, Keen?

if u had read my posts previously u would know it wasnt..pay attention steve, hand off the cock and stop wanking at my pics!-biaaarrrch

Thats a yes then

Who told you I've wanked over your pics?!?! Next time you shag me gran, tell her to keep her gob shut!

I told him and Keen stop telling everyone about my fanny!

I just puked thinking about yours.... "

I hope you caught it and swallowed it back up you moch!

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne


"He was obviously a selfish guy only out to please himself . Dont think the admin or police would be interested . 2 consenting adults . Unless he done abything untoward ?"

Agree here, sorry but some are like that....

Just chalk up to experience and move on

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land

To be fair to the OP its not a nice feeling, I have had it happen and it makes you feel like a hooker !

She did over react a tad with her post ! But probably felt like she needed to tell some one and getting it off her chest ! Its the first time she has posted on the forums And obviously thought this was the place to let off steam and get a shoulder to cry on ! Ooh how wrong she was !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf are police gonna do ???

Theyre not gonna arrest him for being a shit shag...lock him up n throw away the key!!

he might be a great shag in prison though...."

Pick up that soap bitch!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg

Sometimes a quick shag is what is needed, but I must admit I get a bit testy if I don't get at least one orgasm."

testy!

OP, this has happened to me but it's not really something the site can do anything about. There is no test for how we do the sex thing with others.

You're upset now but it's not something to get upset about in the great scheme of things.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Having read the entire thread I think this is just about a bad meet and nothing more.

The guy was a twat and maybe you were a bit naive here, but otherwise I'm not sure this an appropriate thread.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

You seriously think you should report someone for being a crap / disappointing shag? What exactly are admin/site going to do about it and why would they care?

I would hazard a guess that most of us have had something similar happen at one time or another. (I have...)

Some people are selfish and only care about their pleasure and getting their rocks off. That's life, draw a line under it and move on.

But dont worry,I'm sure your inbox will be full with offers promising to treat you better and give you multiple orgasms as a result of this thread.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Some men are on a hair trigger, others never cum. Some are pandas and some want to spend a whole night with lots of cuddling. Most I have met sit somewhere in-between.

Be clear about what you both want from the meet.

I also think that sometimes the texting/messaging too much immediately before a meet leads to everything being 'spent' before the meet happens.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got a veri for being a shit shag

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

Drama Queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drama Queen"

thats no way to talk about steve

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Drama Queen

thats no way to talk about steve"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Drama Queen

thats no way to talk about steve"

Shut it, Shortie. Just cos you ain't got no shit shag veri, like wot I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair to the OP its not a nice feeling, I have had it happen and it makes you feel like a hooker !

She did over react a tad with her post ! But probably felt like she needed to tell some one and getting it off her chest ! Its the first time she has posted on the forums And obviously thought this was the place to let off steam and get a shoulder to cry on ! Ooh how wrong she was !!! "

Yeah, i forgot all the utter shit people come out with on forums that they would never say in a proper face to face conversation. It's why i stopped posting on forums. But ONCE AGAIN, thank you to all those of you who took the time to post actual advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair to the OP its not a nice feeling, I have had it happen and it makes you feel like a hooker !

She did over react a tad with her post ! But probably felt like she needed to tell some one and getting it off her chest ! Its the first time she has posted on the forums And obviously thought this was the place to let off steam and get a shoulder to cry on ! Ooh how wrong she was !!!

Yeah, i forgot all the utter shit people come out with on forums that they would never say in a proper face to face conversation. It's why i stopped posting on forums. But ONCE AGAIN, thank you to all those of you who took the time to post actual advice "

Just because someone doesn't give you the answer that you want or more likely expect it doesn't mean that they are "full of shit".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant see anything wrong with it, all my shags are around 7min or below what it takes to boil an egg

Sometimes a quick shag is what is needed, but I must admit I get a bit testy if I don't get at least one orgasm."


" testy!"

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

Yep Drama Queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can understand why you were disappointed, I'd be fucking furious. But it's not really reportable.

Wonder whether the fact you only do short notice meets might attract this kind of a guy a little? Less opportunity to discuss expectations / boundaries etc.

Still a bit shit though

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By *inklou69Woman
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

really am so shocked that the OP felt the need to share this but the first post did suggest something worse had happened. Thanks to others that have said they have had shite shags. I think we can all say that we have at least one shite shag if not on here then elsewhere.

The OP should have used her own support group for this not here and not using here.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"To be fair to the OP its not a nice feeling, I have had it happen and it makes you feel like a hooker !

She did over react a tad with her post ! But probably felt like she needed to tell some one and getting it off her chest ! Its the first time she has posted on the forums And obviously thought this was the place to let off steam and get a shoulder to cry on ! Ooh how wrong she was !!!

Yeah, i forgot all the utter shit people come out with on forums that they would never say in a proper face to face conversation. It's why i stopped posting on forums. But ONCE AGAIN, thank you to all those of you who took the time to post actual advice

Just because someone doesn't give you the answer that you want or more likely expect it doesn't mean that they are "full of shit". "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

From your replies, it is indignation. Pure and simple.

He shot his load and left. Not ideal, but hey.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Some women expect to be treat like princesses and get disappointed when real men who treat them as an equal turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women expect to be treat like princesses and get disappointed when real men who treat them as an equal turn up"

How's fucking off after 10 minutes being a real man or treating someone like an equal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? You've posted a shocking thread about some bloke that you met who just shot and left? I can't see why he has abused your trust?

Maybe don't invite strange men back to your house first, perhaps a social coffee and chat before play?

I hope the man in question isn't a member of fab, or if he is I hope he doesn't read the forums

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You seriously think you should report someone for being a crap / disappointing shag?"

It would be bloody awesome if we could though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's not a real man darlin' that's an arsehole!

think people should stop being prickish if you've nothing productive to say don't say it.

OP I've been hit head on by the bandwagon myself on forum before don't take it personal hun x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Really? You've posted a shocking thread about some bloke that you met who just shot and left? I can't see why he has abused your trust?

Maybe don't invite strange men back to your house first, perhaps a social coffee and chat before play?

I hope the man in question isn't a member of fab, or if he is I hope he doesn't read the forums "

Guessing by the fact the OP was asking about reporting him that he is a fab member.

Its a shit shag, you are as in control of what happens as he was.

Might want to consider some of the above hints about not meeting at home and rushing into play. I've never had a bad meet from fab yet, but i take a while chatting, and then social meet first.

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