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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips to keep it in !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get married, no need to think about sex at all then

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Smack your nads with a metal ruler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smack your nads with a metal ruler"

Would do but would have to ask her where she keeps them first

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Smack your nads with a metal ruler

Would do but would have to ask her where she keeps them first"

LMFAOOOOO

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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This is a lady I'm scared of lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips to keep it in !"

Try delay spray "stud 100"

Don't use to much though as it becomes frustrating after you been at it for like 4 hours and still can't cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave your cock alone

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Go to B&Q and buy a cock stop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to B&Q and buy a cock stop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of katie price

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract


"Get married, no need to think about sex at all then"
he already is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of katie price "
or katie hopkins (although this may make you vomit )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get married lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Duct Tape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grab your cock and grip it as hard as you can. For a demonstration look in the gallery

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Go to B&Q and buy a cock stop x

"

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo thats a stop cock lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

go again, you should last longer the second or third time

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By *ndy8goldMan
over a year ago

blackburn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have been practising edgeing for a while now, play until your close to cumming then stop for 5 mins or even longer while your waiting play with your lady and give her pleasure, then when you have calmed down go again, repeat this for as long as you like ,

one, you will learn how to control yourself better and stop before issue.

two, the best bit , when you finally allow yourself to cum its very strong and intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy. I can control my ejaculation by wanking, its all about the build up

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Edging is a good bet for men who cum to soon, as is gripping your penis just below the helmet firmly between your thumb and forefinger and applying gentle pressure and holding until the sensation passes for needing to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a cable tie and wrap it round your balls as tight as you can. There u go problem solved. Don't worry if they change colour and fall off that's normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a cable tie and wrap it round your balls as tight as you can. There u go problem solved. Don't worry if they change colour and fall off that's normal. "

I'm not sure that using cable ties that fall off is a good idea. :D

love colour changing though- like those shirts from the 90s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a cable tie and wrap it round your balls as tight as you can. There u go problem solved. Don't worry if they change colour and fall off that's normal.

I'm not sure that using cable ties that fall off is a good idea. :D

love colour changing though- like those shirts from the 90s"

Yeah the cars are cool where they changed colour think it was when it got warm or something that were about in the 90s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yeah the cars are cool where they changed colour think it was when it got warm or something that were about in the 90s. "

Oh god, I remember those.

used to have an army Jeep that went from green to red.

oooh the simple days. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look at injaculation, its where you are about to come but you press hard on the area between ball sack and anus, it stops the come coming out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yeah the cars are cool where they changed colour think it was when it got warm or something that were about in the 90s.

Oh god, I remember those.

used to have an army Jeep that went from green to red.

oooh the simple days. lol"

Exactly the simple things!!

There was a tvr round the corner from ours that was purple to orange and it had one of those alarms on if you went to close to the car it would warn you to move away before setting the alarm off if you didn't shift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at injaculation, its where you are about to come but you press hard on the area between ball sack and anus, it stops the come coming out"

I can see that being a bit awkward to do while on the vinegar stroke. He easier to just stick a cork in the end of it to stop it coming out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can always pull out and spend some time orally pleasing your girl then when the feeling to ejaculate subsides carry on with sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips to keep it in !"

your 34 years old and you dont know how 2 stop yourself from cumming yet,or no what your private parts limit is before ejaculation???...Are you really 34?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is on about keeping it in when you have reached the point of no return if you care to read what he has put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he is on about keeping it in when you have reached the point of no return if you care to read what he has put"

Erm yes and like I say he is 34 he should know by now,what his limit is before he ejaculates,so he should know when to slow down and control the urge to cum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can always pull out and spend some time orally pleasing your girl then when the feeling to ejaculate subsides carry on with sex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he is on about keeping it in when you have reached the point of no return if you care to read what he has put

Erm yes and like I say he is 34 he should know by now,what his limit is before he ejaculates,so he should know when to slow down and control the urge to cum.."

What you never had an orgasm just sneak up on you when you weren't expecting it. I know I have and there was nothing I could of done to stop it.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Any tips to keep it in !"

Tracy Cox has a few new products called EDGE, specifically for this in mind. I think there is a masturbation sleeve and a guide/mobile app to help you last longer each time.

Other than that I know there are several delay sprays you can get but personally think you are better off downloading the EDGE app and getting a masturbation sleeve.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think about your missus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of Margaret Thatcher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the other way..when you just cant ejaculate, no matter how hard you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cock rings also help a little too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to B&Q and buy a cock stop x

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can always pull out and spend some time orally pleasing your girl then when the feeling to ejaculate subsides carry on with sex "

works for me everytime

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Try and go for a 'dry cum' where you have a mini-orgasm but don't ejaculate. You stay hard and the urgency goes, so you can happily fuck for quite a while before the need to cum builds up again. Takes practice but it works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of Susan boyle

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Think of slugs and snails and puppy dog's tails!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think of slugs and snails and puppy dog's tails! "

That's what little boys are made of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edging .. My girl does it to me .. I go through all pleasure but no cum

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Concentrate on foreplay and not just a quick lick or a 2 minute finger blasting. At least 45 mins to an hour. That will in turn take your mind off things. But be warned it can work the complete opposite and can make you last too long. It can be a vicious circle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Edging .. My girl does it to me .. I go through all pleasure but no cum "

we edge too but we take each other to the edge and stop, i love to tease her as long as I can,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about ur grandma sat on bog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Priligy (aka Dapoxetine)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull out and pleasure her orally until the feeling fades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of Margaret Thatcher"
well she fucked everybody, the fucking cow

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Just think of all the supposed st8 blokes here pretending to be fems or their wife closet wanking over the pics they got of you whilst pretending

Hopefully that just helps in you spoiling the lovely lady with your load not put you off fun at the time

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford


"Go to B&Q and buy a cock stop x

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

put a cork in the end of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smack your nads with a metal ruler"

ouch!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

the first one doesnt count .. just a practice firing... clearing the tubes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have been practising edgeing for a while now, play until your close to cumming then stop for 5 mins or even longer while your waiting play with your lady and give her pleasure, then when you have calmed down go again, repeat this for as long as you like ,

one, you will learn how to control yourself better and stop before issue.

two, the best bit , when you finally allow yourself to cum its very strong and intense"

Can't endorse this approach enough....it also works for ladies......take then

M to the edge, then pull out/stop foreplay etc. give 2 mins and move forward again. Tease like this 3 or 4 times...then go to the end and wait for the fireworks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try and go for a 'dry cum' where you have a mini-orgasm but don't ejaculate. You stay hard and the urgency goes, so you can happily fuck for quite a while before the need to cum builds up again. Takes practice but it works!"

My hubby does a similar thing except he comes a little bit as well. I never met a guy who could do this before. It is an impressive little trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try and go for a 'dry cum' where you have a mini-orgasm but don't ejaculate. You stay hard and the urgency goes, so you can happily fuck for quite a while before the need to cum builds up again. Takes practice but it works!

My hubby does a similar thing except he comes a little bit as well. I never met a guy who could do this before. It is an impressive little trick."

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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I've hardly come since joining this site lol had better luck just meeting people out an abouts. Strange!!

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By *illbraggMan
over a year ago

Dundee

I had a similar problem...

Solution:

Huge quantities of alcohol and a cock ring

Edging works most of the time but you can't beat a cock ring..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a cable tie and wrap it round your balls as tight as you can. There u go problem solved. Don't worry if they change colour and

fall off that's normal.

or you could use a jubilee clip!!! "

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Think of going shopping with a woman in the christmas sales.

Think of an ugly chick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day??

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By *myandRoryCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

I was watching "Bad Education" on TV earlier and the main charcater was trying not to think erotic thoughts - he listed lots of things to think about, including "Ian Beale crying". Made me laugh anyway.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Just think Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day?? "

She has nips of iron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips to keep it in !"

Tie a piece of string round it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just think Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day??

She has nips of iron "

Literally thought i'd pushed it too far there! Feel a bit queasy now lol

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Try edging. It will build up stamina and staying power.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop wanking?

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