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By *aul2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Hi Y'all

how do I get my profile verified?

Thanks!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Meet someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam in chat!

VERIFY Through the site also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly after a year on here with no veri's you might find it harder to get one. But you can also try the social events of get a cam veri to start with.

Good luck with what ever you choose to do,

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc.. "

So let's get this straight....

Those that aren't willing to "give you a try" are being selfish??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left. Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left.

Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing "

Going all the way around a roundabout is selfish?? What?? I'd say that was a pretty good, and legal, idea but what's it got to do with getting veri's? Social meets are the way to go I think, it gets you known on the scene and shows you're genuine and up for meeting and you can get several veri's in one night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left.

Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing "

What if they don't fancy you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so we are all obliged to meet you now?

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

After over a year with non I suggest you delete and start again. I wouldn't meet someone ob that long without any.

Attending clubs and socials is tge best way to get verified

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Oh and take away the cock shot. Most hate that and would be an instant no

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left.

Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing

Going all the way around a roundabout is selfish?? What?? I'd say that was a pretty good, and legal, idea but what's it got to do with getting veri's? . "

Roundabouts aside, I'm still reeling from the suggestion that people are in any way selfish for not agreeing to meet with anyone who asks them to...

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"After over a year with non I suggest you delete and start again. I wouldn't meet someone ob that long without any.

Attending clubs and socials is tge best way to get verified"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heard too many times from guys..its a sexsite ..it so isn't its a meeting place is all and as I recall freewill still aplies..the assumption people are obliged to reply and even meet simply becasuse a guy wants to seems to still be abound

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"heard too many times from guys..its a sexsite ..it so isn't its a meeting place is all and as I recall freewill still aplies..the assumption people are obliged to reply and even meet simply becasuse a guy wants to seems to still be abound"

op , put in effort and you should be fine, get rid of the dinky shots , a nice full face will help. connie xx

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"heard too many times from guys..its a sexsite ..it so isn't its a meeting place is all and as I recall freewill still aplies..the assumption people are obliged to reply and even meet simply becasuse a guy wants to seems to still be abound"
Not sure why verifications are deemed to be of any relevance. An interesting profile, decent pictures and a phone call should be sufficient. If I have a_good meet , the last thing on my mind would to be ask for a verification. Like references they seem a bit pointless to me . Like most things in life , Imake my judgement on the information available , not what others say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so we are all obliged to meet you now?"

Anything else would clearly be selfish...imagine that, keeping our sex life purely for ourselves and those we actually want to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc.. "

We are very selfish,we are in this for ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc..

We are very selfish,we are in this for ourselves"

Totally agree on this one.

If somebody isn't selfish and shags everyone that messages them, they will soon get a bad reputation and be known as a bit of a slag.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"heard too many times from guys..its a sexsite ..it so isn't its a meeting place is all and as I recall freewill still aplies..the assumption people are obliged to reply and even meet simply becasuse a guy wants to seems to still be abound Not sure why verifications are deemed to be of any relevance. An interesting profile, decent pictures and a phone call should be sufficient. If I have a_good meet , the last thing on my mind would to be ask for a verification. Like references they seem a bit pointless to me . Like most things in life , Imake my judgement on the information available , not what others say."

I never ask for a verification, and don't always get one in any case, which doesn't bother me in the slightest, but can understand how it can help to confirm that I am genuine.

It is part of the information available, along with someone's profile text and photos (which can be easily "imported") and whilst not foolproof, is often a useful evaluative tool, together with common sense and judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc..

We are very selfish,we are in this for ourselves

Totally agree on this one.

If somebody isn't selfish and shags everyone that messages them, they will soon get a bad reputation and be known as a bit of a slag."

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"heard too many times from guys..its a sexsite ..it so isn't its a meeting place is all and as I recall freewill still aplies..the assumption people are obliged to reply and even meet simply becasuse a guy wants to seems to still be abound

op , put in effort and you should be fine, get rid of the dinky shots , a nice full face will help. connie xx"
. If you want to get as far as the first hurdle in the selection process you will need a face photo (face can be partly blurred if necessary ). Without face photos_don't expect any replies.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Hi Y'all

how do I get my profile verified?

Thanks!"

Try writing a decent one to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Y'all

how do I get my profile verified?

Thanks!

Try writing a decent one to start with. "

And maybe changing the pic? Not wanting to be rude but its not the most flattering of pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a year on here and you don't know??????? Lordy

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

You say you're honest but can't accomodate does that mean you're married

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc..

We are very selfish,we are in this for ourselves"
. Well said and totally honest. Some people do not realize the truth hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"heard too many times from guys..its a sexsite ..it so isn't its a meeting place is all and as I recall freewill still aplies..the assumption people are obliged to reply and even meet simply becasuse a guy wants to seems to still be abound"
i think the crux of the post was about the use of veris to decide if a meet would be on or not. If your single and only reason for not meeting someone yuor interested in is cos they have no veri, suggests a meet would be on if they did have a veri, instead of waiting for someone else meeting them first before meeting them, why not just meet socially if they appeal to you?

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Difficult.. Taken me ages due to the vicious cycle.. Not easy getting meets,but there are some willing to give you a try, others are more selfish unfortunatly, letting others sort out the timewasters etc..

So let's get this straight....

Those that aren't willing to "give you a try" are being selfish?? "

The worst line i have ever read on here OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left. Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing Going all the way around a roundabout is selfish?? What?? I'd say that was a pretty good, and legal, idea but what's it got to do with getting veri's? Social meets are the way to go I think, it gets you known on the scene and shows you're genuine and up for meeting and you can get several veri's in one night. "
was just being flippent.. Adding humour.. Not very well either, all i say is if you like a profile, and they have no veris.. U should go for it, not forced into meeting someone u dont like.. Gaawd some people get sooo.. Wound up on here.. Yes i agree with others, go to a club and get veri'd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left. Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing What if they don't fancy you?"
well youve had your chips.. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left.

Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing

What if they don't fancy you?

well youve had your chips.. Move on."

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

This has turned out to be one of the most peculiar threads this month....with one very strange attempt at humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so we have to do sympathy socials now. Behave!!! Make the effort and go to one of the big socials. If you have social skills you will get some veris. It's YOU that has to make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not mega selfish but to a degree i think so yes.. Bit like people wanting to beat a que turning left at a roundabout so turn right and gor riggght the way round to go left.

Serously though if a profile seems good, and the messages are not fancy a shag type and lucid sensible etc.. They could do a social, i dont mean jump straight into playing "

so they're selfish for not fancying you?????

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By *aul2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Thanks for all the replies

I've updated my profile and changed my avatar.

It's the guys that like the cock pic!

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