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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

We're thinking of arranging a good old fashioned couples/singles orgy using a nice easily accesible hotel.

We already have a hotel in mind and would be renting a nice roomy suite with plenty of room to cavort rather than a pokey double room.

The suite we've chosen works out around £140 for the night.

Would it be reasonable to expect to split that per person among the attendees?

Is that the normal procedure?

We'd include ourselves of course plus around another 3 couples and about 4 single guys making around 12 people in all.

Any tips or guiding lights welcome.

Cheers

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

If you have booked the hotel then be prepared to pay for it, I'd say.

On your 'meet today' post, say something to the effect of, 'we have booked a nice room to swing in. Looking to meet 3 couples and hopefully split the cost of £140.' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have booked the hotel then be prepared to pay for it, I'd say.

On your 'meet today' post, say something to the effect of, 'we have booked a nice room to swing in. Looking to meet 3 couples and hopefully split the cost of £140.' ?"

This

Try it but contact people you've met previously rather than random. But at least if you get no takers or no-shows you get a night in a nice room.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

totally made up that someone gave my post a thumb up!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Asking for a voluntary contribution towards the costs is perfectly acceptable in my opinion. I've done that before for a gangbang. I provided snacks and drinks and condoms and lube and extra towels as well as booking the hotel room. I put a money box amongst the snacks and said that a little towards the costs would be great but that it wasn't obligatory.

If you already know everyone then suggest splitting the costs between all attending and see what the response is.

The problems arise when people arrange parties/gangbangs and start demanding x amount from each attendee and it's clearly obvious from a little basic maths that there is more going into the pot than it cost. Especially when single guys are being asked for anything from £30 to £100.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh and consider apartments. Many can be booked for one night only for a similar price as a room and the staff are not usually onsite so there's no issue about getting a party into a room booked for two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask for a small contribution never offended who would say no to night of sex for 10 or 20 quid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can ask nothing wrong with asking. People can say no though so ask in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you would have to be prepared to stump up the whole £140 yourself and alot of no shows. Unless they are people you know and trust.

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