FabSwingers.com forum: fab etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just wondering, is it "fab etiquette" to verify someone after a meet, or is it something that generally agreed upon.

And do couples, actually look at veries, of single men. If it does help boost my chances of more meets, I migh change my view of veries.

But for now, I like to keep the comments private (sort of not kiss and tell .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering, is it "fab etiquette" to verify someone after a meet, or is it something that generally agreed upon.

And do couples, actually look at veries, of single men. If it does help boost my chances of more meets, I migh change my view of veries.

But for now, I like to keep the comments private (sort of not kiss and tell . "

I like to read veries for various reasons, but it's up to you. Have you got the summary up if you like to hide actual veries?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to the individuals concerned.

I've met a verified couple on here, had what I thought was a great meet, they said they would verify but didn't.

C'est la vie.

I thought it was just me but when I cross referenced their veri's it seems like they never verify back.

I don't think there is an unwritten code that says anyone should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually write veris for people I've meet. Not the graphic 'he fucked every hole' type just to say they are genuine etc.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I usually write veris for people I've meet. Not the graphic 'he fucked every hole' type just to say they are genuine etc. "

This!

Whether they choose to display them is their choice.

And yes OP - we wouldn't meet a single guy without visible veri's!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I now write a social veri which can be published without besmirching the receiver, whilst fulfiling the job of letting others know what I thought of them.

Sometimes if they want a more graphic one

...then I allude to more than I describe.

Just hate those porno type veris that proclaim respect whilst talking about the other person as a piece of sexercise equpt.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I verify people when I have met them. I do understand that its hard for single guys and a good verification makes a difference from experience. So I recommend having even one visible and keeping others hidden if you feel comfy. But as already said show the verification summary.

I also would not be keen yo meet a guy woth no verfications on display x

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We always verify the people saying about being nice people etc, but wont go into details as to what we did on the meet...

We read verifications to see if they meet with the same people all the time or to give us a bit of an idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never wrote a sexual veri but if the meet hadn't gone well we don't leave a veri at all

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I ask people if they want verifications or not. I haven't asked for one myself since my first meet either. Not all of mine are displayed since I have had a few lovely meets with people that are since UNLOS and I also didn't see the point of displaying similar 'I saw this girl on cam' last night ones. I don't often venture into the chat-rooms and received a flurry of verifications following one foray into them - I figured displaying all of those would give a false impression of my interests since I'd rather meet in real life.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We always verify new meets, especially single guys but we meet up often with friends we have made on here we don't do them all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I now write a social veri which can be published without besmirching the receiver, whilst fulfiling the job of letting others know what I thought of them.

Sometimes if they want a more graphic one

...then I allude to more than I describe.

Just hate those porno type veris that proclaim respect whilst talking about the other person as a piece of sexercise equpt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering, is it "fab etiquette" to verify someone after a meet, or is it something that generally agreed upon.

And do couples, actually look at veries, of single men. If it does help boost my chances of more meets, I migh change my view of veries.

But for now, I like to keep the comments private (sort of not kiss and tell . "

Its personal choice but you don't meet someone just because you are wanting a verification that's pretty sad. Give one if you want to but once you have 3 or 4 they become immaterial anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have verified most people we meet - all that we have played with - we only show one or two on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to go for a how nice the person was veri rather than kiss and tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few varis but unfortunately the folks (females and couples) who left them have now left the site, so obviously their varis dissappear. It can be quite awkward if someone asks to see your varis

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses and opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always verify when I've met someone social or otherwise,think its a bit rude not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always verify after a meet - never graphic though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read veris. They are just one or two peoples opinions. And I might not think what they think. I never ask people to verify us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always verify after a meet - never graphic though."

We don't verify if it didn't go well or to plan, I think better to say nothing rather than be negative, not that anyone would show a negative verification

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

As I already have one or two veris myself

I'm in no need of others but always ask guys if they want one as I know it can help by proving them genuine, if in return they verify me, I'll happily show it...as others have mentioned, I'm not one for graphic "he banged my holes all night and I flooded the street" type verifications - less is more for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to leave veris for most meets, as I think it is a common courtesy. However I do not expect to receive them...if I do it is nice. I tend to display them at least for some time. Some I leave up as I'm too lazy to take them down.

To be honest it's probably a good job I don't receive veris from every meet....I would be somewhere well over 300 by now if that we're the case!

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