FabSwingers.com forum: Hi all any suggestions

By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

(HACKNEY)

Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about saying "A black man" instead of "A BBC"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with "FB" - it means "fuck buddy", few women want to think of themselves in these terms. "A play mate" sounds much better.

Otherwise great profile.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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Thanks for your input Hun much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks."

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks.

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

It is his preference. He is doing well to warn people beforehand.

I will have the compulsory drinks. And food.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

(HACKNEY)

Thanks for the response to not preform oral it's called having a preference everyone is not into the same things , and nothing is compulsory on here I would rather meet and feel the chemistry before play , doesn't mean I'm not partial to meeting and getting straight to business lol .

Thanks for the feedback though much appreciated x

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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Lol thanks sweety xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear and to the point.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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Thank you ! that's what I was going for

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Good to see you clarified your bareback pics as this sometimes puts people off if they think that's what your into.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If marketing yourself as a BBC is what you want - your choice. It will deter as many as it attracts.

What is a 'genuine woman'?

As for the bareback pics comment? A previous partner that knows you're using her image to attract the attention of others? Or just an old pic that you're using without her consent/knowledge?

It's your preference re the oral statement. Far better to be honest up front than announce it in a meet. But do you expect BJ's? If so I'd add that so people know what to expect.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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Thanks Hun yes definitely not into unprotected sex with strangers

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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Thanks , thought I'd changed the BBC part but anyhow ,

yes ex partner was on here also , so agreed to use pics as long as no face was shown vice versa,

it says I'm into oral in my interests obviously seen as I don't do it it's not compulsory that I receive it ,

do you think this is something I should mention ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Hun yes definitely not into unprotected sex with strangers

Dental dams

Flavoured condoms

Good to go

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

How would you feel if the woman didnt want to perform oral on you, would that be an issue!!

P.s this isn't a bash !!!

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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My sentiments exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My sentiments exactly

Tip: use reply and quote...

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

(HACKNEY)

Well seen as I don't perform oral I'd be a bit of a knob to have an issue with the woman not wanting lol , I'm pretty laid back like that if it's something the female doesn't want to do its her prerogative

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"My sentiments exactly

Tip: use reply and quote..."

Oh ok I see now lol cheers

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Wow, Dwayne, you got quite an earful but you ve also received excellent advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the profile its clear and straightforward

but oral

its almost like those who dont like kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say remove the first negative sentence and block men in your message filters then they won't bother you. Also the bit about not winking if you're not going to reply to the message you send as a result is a bit negative. I've often winked at people by mistake especially on my phone! Cock shots put some off, so do action shots so maybe think of putting a better variety of pics up. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the profile its clear and straightforward

but oral

its almost like those who dont like kissing"

Yep - it's not called Australian kissing for nothing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

@dwayne: it all looks good except for the 'no timewasters' bit cos real actual timewasters love that...and will try ad waste your time. Better than putting the onus on them not to contact you, be proactive and make sure your selection criteria and process s them out.

you're the first guy I've read about who doesn't like oral sex with a woman.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"Wow, Dwayne, you got quite an earful but you ve also received excellent advice

Yup but it's what I needed to hear

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"I like the profile its clear and straightforward

but oral

its almost like those who dont like kissing"

I know I get it all the time , can't help it though it's just not for me

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"I'd say remove the first negative sentence and block men in your message filters then they won't bother you. Also the bit about not winking if you're not going to reply to the message you send as a result is a bit negative. I've often winked at people by mistake especially on my phone! Cock shots put some off, so do action shots so maybe think of putting a better variety of pics up. Good luck."

Thank you for your advice will definitely be making some changes , much appreciated

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"I like the profile its clear and straightforward

but oral

its almost like those who dont like kissing

Yep - it's not called Australian kissing for nothing

Lol never heard of that saying before but makes sense haha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks.

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"@dwayne: it all looks good except for the 'no timewasters' bit cos real actual timewasters love that...and will try ad waste your time. Better than putting the onus on them not to contact you, be proactive and make sure your selection criteria and process s them out.

you're the first guy I've read about who doesn't like oral sex with a woman. "

Cheers fella I know what your saying

about the no time wasters I will amend that .

And I haven't seen any other man write it either but I know I can't be the only one , maybe I'm just the only one who doesn't want to disappoint anyone , so I'd rather get it out of the way from the get go.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks.

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men."

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

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You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement"

In MY hedonistic experience never had a black man perform oral on me and was married to one for 25 years who did it about twice.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks.

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement

In MY hedonistic experience never had a black man perform oral on me and was married to one for 25 years who did it about twice. "

Well I know loads that do , and have seen pics on here where many guys are performing oral sex on women , don't tar us all with the same brush there are some out there don't let the ones that don't spoil it for those who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks.

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement

In MY hedonistic experience never had a black man perform oral on me and was married to one for 25 years who did it about twice.

great response OP . Also know many that do and they do it very well... Trust me

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By *mmie2014Man
over a year ago

London

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

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You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement

In MY hedonistic experience never had a black man perform oral on me and was married to one for 25 years who did it about twice.

great response OP . Also know many that do and they do it very well... Trust me

One here! One here! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

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You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement

In MY hedonistic experience never had a black man perform oral on me and was married to one for 25 years who did it about twice. "

13 years wasted here - on a man who had any kind of sex as infrequently as he could get away with. If I were to make any conclusions from that - luckily not.

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By *..DwayneBlack OP Man
over a year ago

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"Hi all just wanted feedback on my profile and any suggestions on how to improve it ?

Thanks.

You don't perform Oral on a lady! Wow thats quite unusual ( I think )

Anyway I think your profile is fine. Maybe improve your photos a bit when you can with some clearer shots that dont hurt your head trying to work out whats what

The compulsory drinks before hand would put me off

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

Not all black men don't perform oral so a bit confusing that statement

In MY hedonistic experience never had a black man perform oral on me and was married to one for 25 years who did it about twice.

great response OP . Also know many that do and they do it very well... Trust me

Thanks , each to there own and all but I didn't quite get that post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it's not. One of the reasons I don't meet black men.

It wasnt a comment aimed at or concerned with the colour of the OP I'just suprised at any guy not liking oral sex. Ive never met on who doesnt have it high up on his list of staples.

As for they Guys choice....of course it is.

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