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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you're one among 1000s of others all wanting the same thing,you have to stand above them to get noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

these look at me threads are getting old now I don't think that its just us that are getting sick of the short profiled, no pics moanalots that cant be bothered to read the other similar titled threads that pop up hourly, reap what you sow

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

This is precisely why I keep advocating a permanent FAQ posting on this Board specifically to address this issue...It would save SO much time for the posters and contributors...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its pretty obvious what the thread is about from the title

Easy to ignore if it gets on your nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your profile is sub standard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was only asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its pretty obvious what the thread is about from the title

Easy to ignore if it gets on your nerves "
I thought it was going to be about meets? not another look at me? never mind it must just be us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm genuinely asking why that's all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you're one among 1000s of others all wanting the same thing,you have to stand above them to get noticed "

I've ordered some stilts from ebay, that will get me higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its pretty obvious what the thread is about from the title

Easy to ignore if it gets on your nerves I thought it was going to be about meets? not another look at me? never mind it must just be us "

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"these look at me threads are getting old now I don't think that its just us that are getting sick of the short profiled, no pics moanalots that cant be bothered to read the other similar titled threads that pop up hourly, reap what you sow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you're one among 1000s of others all wanting the same thing,you have to stand above them to get noticed

I've ordered some stilts from ebay, that will get me higher "

That will be a good party piece

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm genuinely asking why that's all? "

Why do you think you are struggling? If you were female and looked at your profile, would you be gagging to meet you? I doubt it!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?"

Type "no meets" in the Search box in the top left corner and you will find that question is answered....many many times

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your profile is a little short on detail, try putting a little more information in it.

We went to a social last night that's an excellent way of meeting people and getting to know them.

Good luck

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hun, you have a 2 line profile and no public pics. Amongst 94,000,000 single guy profiles yours will not stand out. You've put little effort in and will get little back. As my learned friends have said, use the search box and you will find many tips on how to improve your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im liking the pics he has now put on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im liking the pics he has now put on display "
at least he is taking things on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was only asking "

and the responses attacking/dismissing you for asking are out of order in my opinion.

That said, your profile is very poor and I suspect your lack of success reflects your lack of effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is precisely why I keep advocating a permanent FAQ posting on this Board specifically to address this issue...It would save SO much time for the posters and contributors..."

Answers like this are one of the reasons why I started my own thread

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

There is no need to read the thread if you are not interested. Please let others use the site how they want to and ignore anything you don't want to read.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...I see you have dipped your toe a bit into the forum, if you join in on threads you might get yourself noticed that way.

If you are happy to go to a social then there are lots about....a bit more of what you are looking for on your profile might help too.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?"

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Your pics are better than most, thats a good start. The big thing for me would be that you appear to have taken as little time as possible over your profile and are expecting ladies to do all the work and contact you. It seems rather lazy. More time and effort needed then I am sure you will see results. Good luck

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Right, your pics are a big bonus. Next step is the blurb on your profile. Think about something that says what makes you unique, why you should be picked, what makes you interesting as a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate."

This is where it gets confusing,what one person suggests another will disagree with

I don't feel you should have to justify why you can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate.

This is where it gets confusing,what one person suggests another will disagree with

I don't feel you should have to justify why you can't accommodate "

I don't disagree with you as it's totally his choice. It's just a potential aid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate.

This is where it gets confusing,what one person suggests another will disagree with

I don't feel you should have to justify why you can't accommodate

I don't disagree with you as it's totally his choice. It's just a potential aid."

I don't agree with the assumption that people that can't accommodate are cheating but when I was single at various times I could and couldn't accommodate. And when I could meets were undeniably noticably easier to come by, I think it does make a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you're one among 1000s of others all wanting the same thing,you have to stand above them to get noticed "
Like my xcross pic, is pretty out there, for originality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile just doesn't stand out. It's very bland. Make it reflect what you are (unless that's bland then you have it spot on)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate.

This is where it gets confusing,what one person suggests another will disagree with

I don't feel you should have to justify why you can't accommodate

I don't disagree with you as it's totally his choice. It's just a potential aid.

I don't agree with the assumption that people that can't accommodate are cheating but when I was single at various times I could and couldn't accommodate. And when I could meets were undeniably noticably easier to come by, I think it does make a difference."

Ditto, I cannot accommodate (or rather I choose not to), and I'm certainly not cheating

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?"
because people are waiting for you to finish the second and final sentence in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?"

Fear not we were going to go to BGHS last night but we got no response to our meet either

But stay positive, who knows what's around the corner!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard with the number of guys on the site. Just keep plugging away. There is no magic answer, or tweak to a profile that will get you instant meets. Have a look at other posting on the subject to pick up tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm. You have a meet in person veri?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate.

This is where it gets confusing,what one person suggests another will disagree with

I don't feel you should have to justify why you can't accommodate

I don't disagree with you as it's totally his choice. It's just a potential aid.

I don't agree with the assumption that people that can't accommodate are cheating but when I was single at various times I could and couldn't accommodate. And when I could meets were undeniably noticably easier to come by, I think it does make a difference.

Ditto, I cannot accommodate (or rather I choose not to), and I'm certainly not cheating "

That's because women who can't accomodate are never questioned or doubted, it simply passes as "her prerogative".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I not getting any replies to meet up?

The "cannot accommodate" may go against you. It is often assumed you'll be in a relationship. It may be worth jotting down why you cannot accommodate.

This is where it gets confusing,what one person suggests another will disagree with

I don't feel you should have to justify why you can't accommodate

I don't disagree with you as it's totally his choice. It's just a potential aid.

I don't agree with the assumption that people that can't accommodate are cheating but when I was single at various times I could and couldn't accommodate. And when I could meets were undeniably noticably easier to come by, I think it does make a difference.

Ditto, I cannot accommodate (or rather I choose not to), and I'm certainly not cheating

That's because women who can't accomodate are never questioned or doubted, it simply passes as "her prerogative"."

If I'm questioned, it's because they haven't read the profile (or they doubt it's validity lol).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuinely asking why that's all? "

your profile is your window of oportunity x and yours is lacking sparkle.

So prople may think the meet will be as boring....

Spice it up and im sure youll have some fun x

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