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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im a 23 y o bi guy who's recently joined the site. I really want to get into swinging! Anyone lend a hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a 23 y o bi guy who's recently joined the site. I really want to get into swinging! Anyone lend a hand?

No disrespect, but you could start by taking a look at your profile from an objective point of view.

A one line profile description and the only pictures are one of your cock and one of a 4-way power adapter aren't exactly going to have people flocking to you.

Your status suggests that you're hoping people will come seeking you out.

Not going to happen I'm afraid young man.

Most of the ladies on here receive in the region of 100 messages a day, so many of them just don't have time to go searching as well.

Us single men outnumber the ladies by around 100 to 1, so they really can afford to be fussy.

If you want better luck, you need to really stand out.

Remember also that you've only been here for 3 weeks. Most single guys wait around 6 months to get their first meet, so you will need to be patient.

Get pro-active and message people, but don't make a pest of yourself. If you get no-reply or even a 'no thanks' leave it at that. Further messages to those who aren't interested in you will get you blocked.

Above all, have fun!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You certainly gave me a laugh with the power adaptor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any advice on mine coz I just attract men or tv no disrespect but its not my thing...the few women but not enough...must b ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 100-1 thing is true...but also bollocks. Why? Because most of the 100 are:

A) Like you. Dreamers/idiots/total waste of time who expect a free fuck with no effort.

B) Married and pretending to be single. Easily Sussed by the ladies/couples on here. Especially those with half a brain, a bit of nous or any measure of experience

C) ugly

D) Asian/black/too old/ too young - outside the preferences of many....for whatever reason.

Some even fall into 2 or more of these categories

Look at your own profile?

For the few of us guys who tick none of those boxes...meeting has NEVER been a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more of being in luck as you have to consider the ratio is around 100 men to 1 woman lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice on mine coz I just attract men or tv no disrespect but its not my thing...the few women but not enough...must b ugly "

If you want to stop men or TV's messaging you, there are mail filters that you can apply to your profile.

Your profile description could do with some work. All you are saying is that you have a high sex drive. Welcome to the club!

Try and think about telling people a little bit more. What sorts of things you're into and what do you like to do to get the ladies going?

Like i've said above, try and stand out.

You can't accommodate. Though there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, consider explaining why. On seeing that you can't, the majority of women are going to suspect that you're cheating on a wife - and for many, that's an instant turn off. (and your current meet listing is only adding further suspicion)

It might seem pedantic, but poor spelling and grammar can put people off. I know it shouldn't, but I have seen many ladies making such comments on other threads where guys have been asking for help.

For example, Horny has no 'e' in it.

Neither does 'Loving'.

You've got a good range of photos, but try and avoid duplicates. Two of them look identical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice on mine coz I just attract men or tv no disrespect but its not my thing...the few women but not enough...must b ugly "

your age restriction is a more likely reason.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Wow! OP only asked if someone would lend a hand.....not for a profile criticism

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Its more of being in luck as you have to consider the ratio is around 100 men to 1 woman lol."

stop thinking that joining a website makes you a swinger, get out there put the effort in and make your own luck.

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