FabSwingers.com forum: Verification Etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabs, I'm curious if it's considered cheeky to request a meet stating the intention to get verified? I've been on here for a while now, had a meet on a previous profile with a few guys but am not yet verified on my new profile here and I'd like to get that seen to. Is there any etiquette to asking for meets *only* from verified people, with the aim of being verified myself? How would the experienced fabsters go about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose some people would object to seemingly be used just to get a verification.

If it's that important you get one, why not go to a local social event and there'll be plenty who would verify after meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suppose some people would object to seemingly be used just to get a verification.

If it's that important you get one, why not go to a local social event and there'll be plenty who would verify after meeting you."

Yes that was my concern, seeming like I'm just using someone for that sole purpose. That's not the case tho, I just feel I could sort verification out at the same time as meeting someone for some fun.

I hadn't thought of social meets, it's something to consider for sure. I tend to shy away from public meets tho as I'm far too scared to go outside en femme yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anybody on here you met previously that might give a veri?

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By *andL-LiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Huyton

So long as your upfront with what you want and what your willing to do then no issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you are verified on Web Cam, can't you verify others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"anybody on here you met previously that might give a veri?"

I've had a look but can't find them

was two nice older guys near Fulham, had some fun being the centre of attention at a party they hosted

Thanks for the advice though everyone, seems like as long I'm open and honest there shouldn't be a problem. I should add that I don't mean jump into bed with any verified member, but rather finding someone who ticks my boxes and can verify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabs, I'm curious if it's considered cheeky to request a meet stating the intention to get verified? I've been on here for a while now, had a meet on a previous profile with a few guys but am not yet verified on my new profile here and I'd like to get that seen to. Is there any etiquette to asking for meets *only* from verified people, with the aim of being verified myself? How would the experienced fabsters go about this?

If you are honest I don't see a problem with it but it also wouldn't surprise me if you got a meet and no verification as there are some strange people here who say one thing and do another. Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Social, coffee or cam first. What if you opened your legs for some manky git in the hope of a verification and then you didn't get one? Do you move on to the next manky git? X

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Socials are good and also if you know any Tgirls from the scene there are plenty on here, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see nothing wrong in stating that you will only meet with verified users (though some may criticise you for it) - but you can counter that by stating that you have returned to the site.

What I wouldn't do is make any comment about meeting to get a veri, as I would suspect this might put people off.

I would certainly think twice about meeting someone who only wanted to do so to get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy messaged me not so long ago that basically said would I meet him so he could get verified.

I deleted it without answering, fair enough you're looking to get verified - but that will happen if you meet somebody decent. Check them out, have a look at their veri's at if they do so in return.

I had zero interest in meeting him because of that. Personal opinion though! Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the comments

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