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Best way?? Advice please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious to know why nobody meets on here and was wondering on how to best way to get noticed and to get a few meets in im only looking for local but has to be discreet thou!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone meet's, they just aren't meeting you

go to socials and clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 line profile, been over a year and no veri's

i'd consider deleting the account and starting again

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

As said above... Get out there and meet people in clubs and at socials...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads meet but it seems nobody wants to meet you.... Take a look at your profile and ask yourself if i was a couple or a single female would they meet you...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Plenty of people meet...

'I want a lady room ruin me' !!!!!!

Do you really think this is appealing? I suggest you have a serious profile make over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep people meet. No doubt about that! People moan as well - about not getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in = rewards out

Can't put it any simpler than that when it comes to trying to attract people to meeting you. Are you doing the best to sell yourself. Current evidence suggests you're woefully short on effort.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"woefully."

That's an excellent word

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys i mean like i dont put anything in there as what are you suppose to talk about if you do get chatting.. Lol but ok ill try see what i can do, honestly im terrible at the personal bit about myself, if doesnt work then i think ill delete and do 1 as iv tried and tried, i used to have a big read up and deleted because wasnt getting no attention so i thought a short and somple approvh might of worked lol but honestly thanks guys for replying. Happy swinging

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

An attractive shop window is to get people to stop and look and maybe pop in...

Enough of interest in the window will make clients inquisitive about products on offer....

Boarded up shop fronts get little attention...

Make them look .. Twice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of people meet...

'I want a lady room ruin me' !!!!!!

Do you really think this is appealing? I suggest you have a serious profile make over."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys i mean like i dont put anything in there as what are you suppose to talk about if you do get chatting.. Lol but ok ill try see what i can do, honestly im terrible at the personal bit about myself, if doesnt work then i think ill delete and do 1 as iv tried and tried, i used to have a big read up and deleted because wasnt getting no attention so i thought a short and somple approvh might of worked lol but honestly thanks guys for replying. Happy swinging"

if you've tried and tried then you'd have veri's by now

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Putting "I will write more when I have time" would make me think that this guy isnt going to have time to do the legwork of having a decent conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting "I will write more when I have time" would make me think that this guy isnt going to have time to do the legwork of having a decent conversation "

unless he's just lazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here over a year with no verifications.. i wouldn't meet you like has been said I'd delete and start a fresh and make a bit more effort and don't moan on the forums about not getting a meet lol

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with all the above, I know I may not be verified, but I was on here a few years ago and a male who had a decent profile got my attention more than anything.

First thing most people look at before opening message is profile.

Nothing about what you can offer couples or women, or are you looking just for a woman?

Not being able to accomodate does not help either, most will think your cheating.

Look at other guys profiles who have success.

Get to a social or a club is the best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is going to "show you the ropes". At 29 it's worth assuming you already know them. Being a teacher for someone sexually inexperienced is something out of crap porn. Never happens in real life.

If you can't describe yourself or put up any decent account of you and what you have to offer then you're just going to be ignored and deleted.

And the fact that you've put in a bit about having to be discreet means you're married or attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 line profile, been over a year and no veri's

i'd consider deleting the account and starting again"

Sad to say that is probably a good point over a year and no meet profiles do tend to hint at someone nor being serious.

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