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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its down to luck usually cos the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or so.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?"

Cos you never asked me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're verified, and fairly recently too so just keep doing whatever made you attractive to those people.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Here we go again...

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

I'm having the worst luck on here then. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe if your willy was a little bigger... only joking, it's very nice x

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Thank you for your help

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Ha ha thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha thank you "

your very welcome x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ignore my flippant post....oh...you did.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Ha ha your not a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am lol x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I am lol x"

OP play your cards right looking like a potential meat

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Ha ha your not a woman"

There's nothing wrong with your profile but gimme a yell if you turn bi

Hahaha!

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

No chance of that. But thanks anyway

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No chance of that. But thanks anyway"

That's what I thought till I sucked a guys cock.

Seriously though, you've had meets so just keep doing what you have been doing. Join in on the forum lounge and swingers bit more and get the ladies to see your photos.

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By *r tickle 22Man
over a year ago

Sheffeld

It's the ratio of 1 woman to every 200 men mate don't worry about it , plus must be 50% of profile are dreamers 30% are fake so that leaves you with 20% and 10% them are nutters , so your chasing 10% good luck dude lol

Yes I'm a mathematician and next week I will be posted the lotto numbers lol .

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Nothing wrong... At all! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks all right to me x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I found it so hard to get meets on here I gave up. But good luck. I am sure the people of Wirral will come round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% of men in here are rude, some have a couple profile while they are on their own which kills the trust. This is a big jungle you need to be courteous and people are not animals even if we all want some fun still we need a bit of charm. The libertine world is art of fun and delicate pleasure not a jungle like in here that's why it is different in Germany, France and Spain.

You will meet no worries !!!!

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Thank you

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Yeah so do I. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your user name is quite one dimensional. As are your pictures. I never actually read your profile but you have to remember not everyone is in to BBC.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the ratio of 1 woman to every 200 men mate don't worry about it , plus must be 50% of profile are dreamers 30% are fake so that leaves you with 20% and 10% them are nutters , so your chasing 10% good luck dude lol

Yes I'm a mathematician and next week I will be posted the lotto numbers lol .

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And 72% of all statistics are made up. Do you have any basis for those figures or have they just been picked at random?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Yeah I know not every one like bbc. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I know not every one like bbc. Thank you "

But lots of people do and you have a very nice example x

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Ha ha sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the ratio of 1 woman to every 200 men mate don't worry about it , plus must be 50% of profile are dreamers 30% are fake so that leaves you with 20% and 10% them are nutters , so your chasing 10% good luck dude lol

Yes I'm a mathematician and next week I will be posted the lotto numbers lol .

And 72% of all statistics are made up. Do you have any basis for those figures or have they just been picked at random?"

I love it when people bemoan their lack of success here and blame it on a fictional 100:1 ratio (when its more like 10:1) rather than look at how crap their profile and choices are.

OP, you've been on a few weeks and have 4 veris. Did you think you'd be fighting them off with a shitty stick every day? Lower your expectations as you're doing better than most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you click on 'reply and quote' we can all tell who you are replying to

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"OP, if you click on 'reply and quote' we can all tell who you are replying to "

Although in a nice long thread, if you don't, you can get away with saying stuff like 'what a stupid and WRONG opinion' and no one will know who youre referring to haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree that the name you've chosen doesn't help hun! I see a lovely black guy regularly - but i'd be disgusted if someone implied that it was because he's a 'bbc' - he's simply a lovely man!!

The 'nsa' bit is what most of us are obviously looking for too - but to spell it out in your name may give the impression that you're only interested in as many one-off's as possible?

That said - you've a good body - you can string a sentence together - and most guys on here can only dream of four meets in two months!

Good luck sweetie!

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Its down to luck usually cos the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or so."

its down to what you put into it, if you are just going to sit and send messages on a website and hope for the best, then yes you will need a bit of luck, if you want to put some effort in and get out to clubs and socials, get yourself known, you can make your own luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its down to luck usually cos the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or so.

its down to what you put into it, if you are just going to sit and send messages on a website and hope for the best, then yes you will need a bit of luck, if you want to put some effort in and get out to clubs and socials, get yourself known, you can make your own luck."
YEs that's right. Personally I hardly email at all. I mostly use the forum, more fun

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

Wait a second, the OP is struggling to get meets when he's had FOUR over the last two months? What the.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?"

You live too far away.....that's why!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?"

You only 5 public pics are various angles of your cock?

Ever notice that porn mags for both men an women are not just high res close ups of flaps an cocks?

People tend to like to look at the body much more than the gonads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?

You only 5 public pics are various angles of your cock?

Ever notice that porn mags for both men an women are not just high res close ups of flaps an cocks?

People tend to like to look at the body much more than the gonads"

and action shot! *vom!*

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Thank u all for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did miss somit you have veri on your profile!! but you cant get a meet i hate liars!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile suggests little about what you bring to the table. Just that you want people for NSA and maybe an FF. Not good enough on here when there are many men to choose from. I do wonder where people get their statistics though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics for me, is that all you have to offer or is there more to you than that? I can't speak for all women obviously, but many are more interested in what the cock is attached to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whinhing isnt going to help either...we keep saying!! You are trying to get a free fuck with someone else's girlfriend/wife/fuckbuddy!!! put a bit more effort into your profile....or try the bbfc meets and try and find your own...and seems strange you can accommodate single females but NOT couples...would ring alarm bells with a lot of folk on here...and agree with all the other posts..You arnt the only single guy on here and people are becoming more choosy..Its as difficult for couples too..This isnt a free fuck site!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Not being able to take a hint might have something to do with it.

Nortyair is obviously gagging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see a problem apart from all the cock pics. I'd like four meets in four weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe your expectations of this site are unrealistic. You have had meets in a relatively short timeframe and you are expecting to meet a FF couple. They are the rarest breed on here. I think you have 0.1% of being successful but I maybe over exaggerating. Cock shots, user name and action pics all a massive turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?

You live too far away.....that's why!! "

Yep , agreed

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I think maybe your expectations of this site are unrealistic. You have had meets in a relatively short timeframe and you are expecting to meet a FF couple. They are the rarest breed on here. I think you have 0.1% of being successful but I maybe over exaggerating. Cock shots, user name and action pics all a massive turn off for me."
Thanks I will take that on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe your expectations of this site are unrealistic. You have had meets in a relatively short timeframe and you are expecting to meet a FF couple. They are the rarest breed on here. I think you have 0.1% of being successful but I maybe over exaggerating. Cock shots, user name and action pics all a massive turn off for me. Thanks I will take that on board "

If your profile accurately reflects you and says all you want to say then don't change it to suit others. It seems to be working just fine even if things seem to have slowed down for you. So now all you need to do is move further south.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Wait a second, the OP is struggling to get meets when he's had FOUR over the last two months? What the....... "

............. which would lead me to ask what the OP thought the expectations would be? because I could think of a lot of single guys thinking "what the hell is he complaining about!"

the unrealistic expectations vs the realities of swinging.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait a second, the OP is struggling to get meets when he's had FOUR over the last two months? What the.......

............. which would lead me to ask what the OP thought the expectations would be? because I could think of a lot of single guys thinking "what the hell is he complaining about!"

the unrealistic expectations vs the realities of swinging....."

Again wise words

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