FabSwingers.com forum: younger for older

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we seem to only get young men approaching us and dont know how to make it clear we meet any age couple but only men over 50? should be simple enough i think!

thanks in advance for advice,

chloe (lonely work widow due to hubbies late shifts grrr) xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the internet my dear!

If you put 50+ teens will contact you, if you put straight, bi's will contact you, if you put tall, short will contact you, if you put black white will contact you...get the picture!

Just ignore and move on to the next as you'll give yourself an ulcer trying to deal with those that don't read profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same only over 30 but golly gosh dont the little boys try it on

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

As said above, state your preferences, and stick to your guns, but be prepared for lots of people to ignore your wishes.......however, couldnt help noticing your veris are ALL from single guys well below the age range you specify!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As said above, state your preferences, and stick to your guns, but be prepared for lots of people to ignore your wishes.......however, couldnt help noticing your veris are ALL from single guys well below the age range you specify!?

you also state you hate their attitude(ref younger guys) that's an open invitation to be proved wrong - if it's purely attitudethen refer to 'we'll only reply to well manered gents' type of comment. Get themworking for your attention. I'm 40 can be a grumpy old fart of 60 at times but can also be abig ofa nutter attempting to do things that only bold 20yrs shoud do lol

if it other factors list them - you'll still have chancers regardless - just block em haha

ps I'm only 40 but was wondering would you concider........... Hahaha

well it's all

fun at the end of the rainbow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha can also type like a 10 yr old

oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and Ella have the problem that between us we usually fall out of either end of peoples age spectrum, its a bit arbitrary and everyone shouls be given a chance to prove themselves......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've just seen your ages 22 and 29.

Probably like the guys who are over 50 - they probably see your ages and assume that you wouldn't want to meet any older blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all the good that writing a decent profile does you on this site, you may as well just put "ONLY PENGUINS AND GEESE NEED APPLY".

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"...however, couldnt help noticing your veris are ALL from single guys well below the age range you specify!?

That's the biggest problem, inconsistency between what people say they do and what they are found out to be doing. After that the profile isn't trusted any more, or people think that they can push the boundaries.

There are those with "no single men" in their profiles who have verifications from single guys...the inconsistencies go on.

Puzzles me when you see people's interests including Gangbangs, but they don't want to be contacted by single guys...where are the men supposed to come from? "Couple'd" guys only? How will that work? The ladies are left downstairs watching soaps on telly whilst the guys are all upstairs with the greedy girl? You see what I am saying though? If the whole profile doesn't hang together then people will either not believe it and think that they will be the exceptional case that you will go for, or they will fire off a reply because, hell, why not, it doesn't cost anything.

Mind you the guys get it just as bad...put in that you are straight and looking for females and couples and you still get the gay guys approaching you unless you put a bar on messages from men.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Blimey, it's a wonder we put up with it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may also find that because of your ages older blokes would be wary of contacting you

But there again you may not lol xx

No seriously just filter the mail you get and stick to your guns cause there really is no way of stopping it unless admin bring out an age filter which is doubtful

Good luck to you both xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And by the way you may be giving mixed messages to males in so much as you state 50 plus yet your verifications range from 35 to 40 so some males may think you are flexible to a point and will try it on

Just pointing that out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to make it clearer Put in big letters at the top of your profile what you are lookin for xx

Not many people check the little age box xx

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

It may be a good idea to add your age range preferences onto the main page of your profile, even though it is in your preferences we have found that this is sometimes not read before contact is made.Also perhaps a liitle more detail about what you are looking for may(or may not!)discourage people who dont meet your preferences from contacting you

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