FabSwingers.com forum: 2 or 3?

By *nverman67 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

My new partner has indicated that she would love to try additional male partners (which I approve of and we have discussed previously).

I mentioned that mmf would be fun and we should pick carefully. However she said to me this morning that it might be easier and more comfortable with less pressure if there were an additional 2 guys.

I am not sure I can see her reasoning but am more than happy for one other guy to join us. But 2?

Any advice would be appreciated.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"My new partner has indicated that she would love to try additional male partners (which I approve of and we have discussed previously).

I mentioned that mmf would be fun and we should pick carefully. However she said to me this morning that it might be easier and more comfortable with less pressure if there were an additional 2 guys.

I am not sure I can see her reasoning but am more than happy for one other guy to join us. But 2?

Any advice would be appreciated."

oh my sounds like she wants a mmmf and of course you got to give the lady what she wants or somebody else will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would 2 other guys make it less pressured?

Sorry, don't really understand that point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in this together, if there is something that either one of you are not happy with don't do it, if you find an experienced single male then there shouldn't be any problems.

Try that first as your ok with that and then see how your both feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the more males present the more pressure on her, after all she will be expected to please all of them as well as being pleased herself. Will she want them to line up one by one or would she be spitroast or do d.p. The more guys there the more cock to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Organise a gang bang

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By *nverman67 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"How would 2 other guys make it less pressured?

Sorry, don't really understand that point?"

She thought that it wouldn't then all focus on the other guy and what he was doing for her. If there was another then it seemed easier (as I said I am not sure I can see her point but willing to discuss).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah ok...speaking from past experience, I would have to agree with the above posters and advise more guys wouldn't mean less pressure, but more pressure.

Unless your going to be playing with them as well, the onus will be on your partner to keep the guys entertained.

If your playing with them as well then that's different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't have that problem with a well chosen single male there are some bloody good ones out there. More guys mean mire pressure on her, think about it one guy is having sex with her what are you and the other guy going to do? She would have to be looking after 2 at a time as soon as one cums you would be replacing him. Could she cope with that?

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By *nverman67 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I would definitely be involved in some capacity and want to see her enjoy herself. She mentioned that there would be no dp but happy with spitroast and being played with.

I would be happy taking a back seat and seeing her being pleasured as she wishes but also happy to be the 2nd guy rather than the 3rd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would definitely be involved in some capacity and want to see her enjoy herself. She mentioned that there would be no dp but happy with spitroast and being played with.

I would be happy taking a back seat and seeing her being pleasured as she wishes but also happy to be the 2nd guy rather than the 3rd.

Importantly have you tried a 3 sum why run before you can walk and spoil things.

There is another option, get another single guy and a couple to join you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me more like her roundabout way of saying she wants more than one guy (and you) - all part of the fun of Fab, living out your fantasies.

I (and I am sure a lot of other women) have "taken on" more than two guys at a time and it wasn't pressured - but I did chat with them beforehand so we all knew what the score was and my partner was there to oversee things, that should be both her and your primary concern that everyone is aware of boundaries if there are any and that she is safe and happy - and that if she says no at any point everyone respects that and adheres to it.

Its not always easy to arrange tho if you want to meet at home or a hotel, a lot of guys lose their nerve at the last minute and back out, not always letting you know first. Easier to have this kind of fun at a club if there are guys there that appeal and they are up for it.

If you are not comfortable with the idea tho then I would advise against it, playing as a couple means both partners should be happy with what is happening otherwise it can lead to resentment which benefits no-one and can be destructive.

You say she is a new partner so be sure and talk it thro first, your focus should be getting to know one another and what works for each as well as both of you before you begin involving others in your fun.

All that said, have fun!!

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