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By *lexxj92 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have updated my photos changed my profile texts and still struggling to even get a message replied too. Just confused at what to do now. Maybe my profile is too boring? Any advice you could give would be good advice thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep trying son. It is a buyers market. You will appeal to someone at some point so just keep trying.

Be polite, read the profiles and maybe even get yourself to a club or social.

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By *lexxj92 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks mate. I am a positive person just wondered if there's anything I may be doing wrong. I couldn't give up either it's not in my nature aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just understand the ratios of men to women. Try and stand out ( in a good way) and just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep trying son. It is a buyers market. You will appeal to someone at some point so just keep trying.

Be polite, read the profiles and maybe even get yourself to a club or social.

"

Good advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it this way, in the shop there are 100 snickers bars when the woman enters the shop and when when enter just 1, so next to imposible lol.

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By *lexxj92 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Just understand the ratios of men to women. Try and stand out ( in a good way) and just be yourself "

Thanks for the advice I like the way you think

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Mmm. Have pm'd you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm. Have pm'd you "

And BINGO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me I wouldn't reply to you as you haven't been veried in over two years.. Loads of guys then reply I haven't used it in x amount of months.. I'm always willing and happy to veri someone via cam. Takes what a few mins some idle chit chat and bam you have an up to date meet.. And yeah try clubs and local socials. It will happen when it's meant to hunnie!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have updated my photos changed my profile texts and still struggling to even get a message replied too. Just confused at what to do now. Maybe my profile is too boring? Any advice you could give would be good advice thank you "

Maybe more text about you might help other than that you can only mail people and send creative polite messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have updated my photos changed my profile texts and still struggling to even get a message replied too. Just confused at what to do now. Maybe my profile is too boring? Any advice you could give would be good advice thank you "

Welcome to Fabswingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there. I would put your profile through spellchecker. Add more about what you can offer and what kind of person you are. You can just use a few key words like confident or playful. Check out your horoscope personality traits online and choose a few things from there that you feel applies to you. I would add a picture of you smiling and perhaps crop the picks where we can see you Drinking (booze?) from a plastic cup. Personally I feel it suggests you are a bit of a party animal which isn't a bad thing but shows your age a lot and could suggest immaturity. That's just personal preference though. Xx

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By *lexxj92 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks guys great advice given. Will definitely take all this on board and make these changes

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