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First meet experiences - exceptional, good, bad?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello All,

Newish joiner and have been wondering about people's first experiences on this particular site, especially with couples - how did it go? Anything out the usual? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember first meet when I moved to Malvern.

Had message day single from Malvern a few times. Saw her status one day when she had been let down....arranged to go round for "just an hour, just a glass of wine"

Left the next morning.....pierced nips, sweet, tight pussy and the most comfortable bed I ever slept in....in a huge room!

Saw her a few more times (she actually lived in Fernhill Heath lol.... Half an hour away!). Shame but she left site after a couple of months....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting for mine! But I have patients!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I had to check my veris to remind myself of my first Fab meet. It was a good 'un

My first ever 'swinging' meet is far too long ago to remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a good meet with a single female ....not sure if that count as swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha too long to remember I am sure you have had many exceptional experiences between that time.

I don't think I single counts ha x

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

well 11 month ago i had a meet with a couple, they were great, havent heard anything from them since but i cant seem to get any meets from others, been trying every which way i can

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Our first meet was incredible. We were both terrified but the minute we looked over and saw each other having fun we were hooked. That was over 10 years ago and we still remember it fondly.

Happy times

K and T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time mf meet for me was fantastic. Not on this account I may add....Such a shame the bloke spoilt further meets by messaging asking me to meet him behind his woman's back. Would have rather met up with her more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let y'all know when I eventually get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first time was at a club soft swing with a single guy then shortly after a meet with a guy of here ! Both and all that followed have been amazing !

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"I'll let y'all know when I eventually get a meet "

agreed on that, but for me it is a second meet im looking for and hopefully more this year instead of just one

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By *ady G and GTCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I remember mine very well. Nervous as anything but he and I are now a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was a bit last minute but

Was wonderful. .I've only had one on one meets... so can't coment

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

We haven't had our first yet... unfortunate circumstances raised their ugly head haha

But I settled to the idea to treating it like the first time you have sex, even if it't not great... just try again!

We have a great sex life at home, but as we were both virgins when we got together all those 6 years ago, I still count us as inexperienced as a whole because what one person likes, others may not! Need to practice

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

my first ever meet when I joined this site was a disaster. Will never meet in a guys home ever again. Lesson learned!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

my first ever meet when I joined this site was a disaster. Will never meet in a guys home ever again. Lesson learned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first meet last year, it was good she came up and we just had a shag, sadly she is not on the site anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was with a single man. I hadn't met him prior to the date and when I opened the door to him and my heart sank. I wanted to send him on his way but couldn't so I chatted to him for as long as I could before I gritted my teeth and got on with it . Rang my husband afterwards in tears because I was so disappointed with myself. It didn't put me off though and I learned a lesson from it and haven't looked back since. Won't ever meet for sex without a social hello now to make sure there is chemistry .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember mine very well. Nervous as anything but he and I are now a couple "

I.hope it works out for you.. Mine didn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional considering there was six of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am assuming you mean sex not social? in which case, fabulous and continued that way regularly for a good while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha a varied bunch. Sorry to hear about the disappointing ones!

Hope I will meet someone on here who won't disappoint! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for mine! But I have patients!"

Patients? Are you a doctor?

Or maybe you have patience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first few meets were social only. Had some really nice laid back chats but found most never came back so was getting pointless plus 50% no showed. Since we decided to play on first meets if the feeling is right we've had less no shows and a couple of repeat meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet from here, was with a couple, at theirs.

It was fantastic, and I've met them a few times since, and it's just got better each time.

(If they happen to be reading this "hey, how about hooking up again soon"

I've maybe been lucky, I don't think I'm anything special, and have periods when I'm not very active on here, but I do try to make an effort when I am.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

With my partner and I, we met a lovely chap and played the second time we met him. I was very nervous and probably chatting and giggled a little too much before we started in the bedroom lol, but the meet went very well as soon as we started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our 1st ever meet was crazy but fantastic lol he was like a duracell bunny to say the least lol

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Had a great first meet,just chat and coffee but gave me confidence.The T Girl I met is still my friend

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Went to a fab social and ended up in an mfm back at the hotel. Was expecting just the lady, but her fella's planned partner was shagging someone else.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

My first meet went a little strange as the husband put a sudden halt to proceedings just as his wife was really beginning to enjoy my ..input rather loudly.

Unlike all subsequent male partners who have enjoyed witnessing the pleasure induced by another man, he got rather jealous and just couldn't handle it...

It didn't stop him from giving me a nice (and my first) verification though.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Very good experience. She led the way but I soon got into the swing of it.

Her feedback was invaluable in bolstering my confidence and she has helped in many ways since.

She is my Fab partner in crime now as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will let you know tomorrow haha, first 4sum tomorrow with best friend who's now on here x a guy I've met with his friend.. should be a fab time ..

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

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Mine was ok, was a mmmf, she was busy sucking us all off and then went to fuck her and mother nature had started Unexpectedly. Rather spoilt things to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was good a super hot man and we have played loads since I was nervous though lol first meet off internet !!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky guy "

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

My first meet was very good, thank goodness! I was very very nervous and he put me at ease, was a perfect gentleman and helped ease me nicely into the world of FAB which is a good thing really as if it had been a bad meet I doubt I'd have arranged anymore!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Our first meet off here was fantastic and went really well. It was a private party...

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Wonderful! We'd played in clubs before our first home meet, but having another couple in our bed was a new experience. That couple slept over which made things even more interesting!

Now most of our swinging is done at our, or our friends homes. You can be ore relaxed and more intimate during a home meet... and of course, take pictures/videos!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Pics look great...all of you are so bloody happy

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'm still waiting for mine! But I have patients!"

Are you a doctor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site our first meet with a single guy was wonderful and Mo realised she wanted to take things further as she had only socialised in clubs before.

However the first couple we met on here was an horrendous experience.

We have moved on since and never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a group meet and it was truly memorable. The lady was a stunning blonde who clearly enjoyed every second of the meet, which put me at ease.

I met her then partner and her a couple of times after that. Unfortunately she is now with someone else and despite her best efforts he will not swing.

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Many years ago when my wife and I decided to start swinging we met a couple in Durham

As this was our first time we were both nervous

Unfortunately the photos of the couple were at least ten years out of date and it soon became apparent that all the guy wanted was to watch his wife get fucked by someone else. It was a very strained meeting and we ended up making our excuses and leaving.

That is when we decided to try clubs instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a great time with a lady off site but we didn't realise that we both were on here ?

Still meet and get her advice on things I don't understand about the swinging scene ?

Hoping to get her too join me and a lady friend in the near future another first on fab for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely woman came to visit me from Swindon. It was a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we had thought that our first experience of swinging was indicative of the whole scene we would never have done it again

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By *s3forfunMan
over a year ago

pewsey

Would be great to hear some reminisce from pre-covid first meets!

Mine was suitable awkward but damn good fun in the end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was ok, wouldn't want to repeat it in all honesty we have grown a lot since then so things can't be that bad again

(Can they ) haha

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

Our 1st meet was a mmf,good laugh and lots of naughtiness

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