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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right lady's and gents, this isn't the first time I have asked for guidance and help with my profile, I consider myself a fairly decent lad. I seem to be doing something on my page that send people running. I have struck up a few convos, sending pictures and chatting away, only for them to later see my profile and boom ignored for ever more.

Am I unknowingly coming across as some sort of wet-melt? any criticism or advice welcomed. (No this is not a "look at my profile" attempt.)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Kik and What's App are a bit naff in my eyes and a face pic on your profile would help. Your profile is ok, but doesn't really stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a hi vis jacket? Say no more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I wanted people to see me cuming :p

I keep face pics back for discretion. I am not in a "professional" job but I still feel I should maintain some anonymity.

I do have face pics set to friends only.

kik is basically for the same reason, it allows contact without disclosing personal info (phone number)

Inboxing back and forth on fab can be a bit tedious, and kik allows better picture swapping pre-meet to help build up the mood Etc

- thanks for the advice, ile be taking down the high viz pic. X

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

- thanks for the advice, ile be taking down the high viz pic. X"

Or modify it, by holding up a copy of Viz above your head and putting on a caption, such as me in a high viz holding a high viz...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, you're quite right to be discreet and hide your face pic.

Except you have a face pic as your avatar.

You may like to consider keeping the hi-viz as I know ladies like the builder look.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

You were doing fine till

"use kik first and what's app once we have met..."

Whatever. What are you, 12?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You were doing fine till

"use kik first and what's app once we have met..."

Whatever. What are you, 12?"

Ide like to think I was uptodate with current trends :p aka: clinging onto my youth with both hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, you're quite right to be discreet and hide your face pic.

Except you have a face pic as your avatar.

You may like to consider keeping the hi-viz as I know ladies like the builder look. "

I though so too - the rough n ready look, peoe don't come to this site looking for a guy they can take home to meet the parents... Ultimately (not completely) it's about being fucked / satisfied, doing the things you can't do in the everyday world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*thought

** people

(Forgive me I am at work )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

- thanks for the advice, ile be taking down the high viz pic. X

Or modify it, by holding up a copy of Viz above your head and putting on a caption, such as me in a high viz holding a high viz... "

This is a great idea :D I like how you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the pic of a woman with her tits out?? Not sure about other women but I don't want to see a pic of a naked woman on a mans profile or previous meets (or cocks for that matter) I must be old fashioned!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

So, are you gonna keep the hi-viz pic or not? You said earlier that you would remove it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, you're quite right to be discreet and hide your face pic.

Except you have a face pic as your avatar.

You may like to consider keeping the hi-viz as I know ladies like the builder look. "

The avatar is quite difficult to make out (although I am using my mobile atm) and as it's set to friends only, it can't be viewed in it's entirety. If it's quite clear, please let me know as I need to alter it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, are you gonna keep the hi-viz pic or not? You said earlier that you would remove it. "

I have already swapped it out, it's set to private now, my avatar picture should be me in a black shirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why the pic of a woman with her tits out?? Not sure about other women but I don't want to see a pic of a naked woman on a mans profile or previous meets (or cocks for that matter) I must be old fashioned!!"

tis gone - anything for a red head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right lady's and gents, this isn't the first time I have asked for guidance and help with my profile, I consider myself a fairly decent lad. I seem to be doing something on my page that send people running. I have struck up a few convos, sending pictures and chatting away, only for them to later see my profile and boom ignored for ever more.

Am I unknowingly coming across as some sort of wet-melt? any criticism or advice welcomed. (No this is not a "look at my profile" attempt.) "

It seems fine but it doesn't really stand out above other single male profiles. I don't know how you can do that but if you can make it unique it might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm in a similar situation. I've been on here a while and wanna make a few changes to profile. anyone got any ideas?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi, I'm in a similar situation. I've been on here a while and wanna make a few changes to profile. anyone got any ideas?"

Hey mr thread hijacker, you're getting plenty of meets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm in a similar situation. I've been on here a while and wanna make a few changes to profile. anyone got any ideas?

Hey mr thread hijacker, you're getting plenty of meets! "

Hear hear!! your doing fine, you advise me :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really find the term NSA puts me off. I look mainly for friends with benefits on here and enjoy the social side as much as the sex. NSA always sounds too cold and clinical to me.

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