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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do people expect when they send you a wink. Am I supposed to do something just because they wink? Surely a message with more than one line is better than a wink or a friends request as a first move?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink to give people the no obligation to message option of peeking at our profile to see if we might interest them, rather than stacking inboxes with less than inspiring one line hello messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe it's the quality of winks we get. A 65 year old 300 miles away who winks and nothing else. Not sure what they expect. Then we get abused for not Messaging or returning the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it's better to block the winkers we've no interest in. Saves getting the abuse.

Oh and by the way........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the quality of winks we get. A 65 year old 300 miles away who winks and nothing else. Not sure what they expect. Then we get abused for not Messaging or returning the wink. "

Really? Abuse for ignoring a wink?

Never had that happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as an ice breaker as sending a message I think pesters the person or couple as the get a lot from single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is alike a msg, it is usually ignored lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the quality of winks we get. A 65 year old 300 miles away who winks and nothing else. Not sure what they expect. Then we get abused for not Messaging or returning the wink.

Really? Abuse for ignoring a wink?

Never had that happen

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never had that happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find it's better to block the winkers we've no interest in. Saves getting the abuse.

Oh and by the way........

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Oh my should i wink back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the quality of winks we get. A 65 year old 300 miles away who winks and nothing else. Not sure what they expect. Then we get abused for not Messaging or returning the wink.

Really? Abuse for ignoring a wink?

Never had that happen .

Sadly yes. A few times.

never had that happen "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to show an intrest that way they can have a look seeif they like an take it from there if not hey ho move on wld u expect some1 to tell u all about themself in a bar when they first catch your eye no a nice smile or look or wink wld see how the land lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

winks for us are an icebreaker, if the winker suits us we wink back or message them, we have never had abuse for not returning a wink, that seems a bit off

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By *razymadlunaticsCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

we wink because we cant wolf whistle on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winking. And would ladies prefer a message that there not intrested in followed up by abuse or just a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wink to give people the no obligation to message option of peeking at our profile to see if we might interest them, rather than stacking inboxes with less than inspiring one line hello messages"

That is exactly how I use them!

It also avoids the emotional scars of seeing your unreplied to message being deleted

I'm still in hiding after the last one boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it's better to block the winkers we've no interest in. Saves getting the abuse.

Oh and by the way........

Oh my should i wink back? "

Well if you don't there's a whole bag of 'abuse' with your name on it LOL

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