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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone ,

if somebody chatch our eyes and wink back we prefer to write a longer message instead of "Luv pics..how u doing...".

We always take a time to create a letter..read through the profile twice.

We introduce ourself who we are ..what we are looking for ..experience. .etc.We also asking to get a chance to hold the conversation. .however we noticed a few times after we received the wink and sent a message it has been deleted without an answer.

So it's a bit confused. .what's the point to wink than.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winked by mistake? I've done it a few times when looking at profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have experienced this too. Bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us, a wink is a simple compliment. We like what we've seen and read, take a peek at us and if you like, let's go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres to many winkers on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..

We think the wink means (for us)

: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..

We think the wink means (for us)

: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..

"

id wink but respect you not looking for single guys

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If it was a couple then maybe it was only one of them who winked/liked your profile.

We have had messages before from couples where one has jumped in before checking with their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't work out why some people on here do what they do. I messaged a guy once (yes, shock horror, women do message guys first!) and he deleted it without reply. Fine, not worried, now I know he's not interested, move on. A few weeks later, he's fab'd a few of my pics and winked at me, now I'm confused!!

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"I really can't work out why some people on here do what they do. I messaged a guy once (yes, shock horror, women do message guys first!) and he deleted it without reply. Fine, not worried, now I know he's not interested, move on. A few weeks later, he's fab'd a few of my pics and winked at me, now I'm confused!!"

Some people delete messages as soon as they have read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't work out why some people on here do what they do. I messaged a guy once (yes, shock horror, women do message guys first!) and he deleted it without reply. Fine, not worried, now I know he's not interested, move on. A few weeks later, he's fab'd a few of my pics and winked at me, now I'm confused!!

Some people delete messages as soon as they have read them. "

I know, I do all the time if not interested but I don't then fab their pics and wink at them a few days later lol. Oh the wonderful world of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..

We think the wink means (for us)

: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..

id wink but respect you not looking for single guys "

Thanks , you are a polite gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps once they have received your message they realise they're not interested in the same experience as you guys. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..

We think the wink means (for us)

: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..

"

Perhaps once they start talking they realise you are not their cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I occasionally send a wink and if it gets a response start a conversation.

Can't understand why a polite reply from you would result in a delete.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

think a few people are getting up there own arses

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By *C69Man
over a year ago

Nr Doncaster


"If it was a couple then maybe it was only one of them who winked/liked your profile.

We have had messages before from couples where one has jumped in before checking with their partner.

"

very true. I know my man does it (winking) alot. Which can be annoying and to some extened embarrassing for all involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best meets have started with a wink and a cheeky message. Personally I like someone who asks questions, then you can ask questions back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've winked guys and their first message has put me off so it's gone no further. Perhaps they like the profile & pics but when you sent the message you weren't for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP could be they like your pics, but maybe they don't like your faces, think you look too young etc etc, wouldn't worry as plenty more fish in the sea on here, loads wink and when ask for a face pic they go quiet etc.

Look forward not back I always say and if your ugly there's always someone who will meet you, I do ok and im fug ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've winked guys and their first message has put me off so it's gone no further. Perhaps they like the profile & pics but when you sent the message you weren't for them?"

Hmm well probably. ..

Never mind we noticed many couple not really genuine

But we are still looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP could be they like your pics, but maybe they don't like your faces, think you look too young etc etc, wouldn't worry as plenty more fish in the sea on here, loads wink and when ask for a face pic they go quiet etc.

Look forward not back I always say and if your ugly there's always someone who will meet you, I do ok and im fug ugly "

Lol we didn't attach our ugly face pics But yeah we are not everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was a couple then maybe it was only one of them who winked/liked your profile.

We have had messages before from couples where one has jumped in before checking with their partner.

My fb does this all the time on our couples profile. It drives me mad! I like to read the profile first to see if people looking for the same as us…he just looks at the photos.

very true. I know my man does it (winking) alot. Which can be annoying and to some extened embarrassing for all involved. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look to be a very attractive young couple which can be a hinderance as some folks prefer the older, less good looking couples, as the comparrison with their own looks is not so bad. Catch 22 in some ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mind of a fabster is a wonderful thing... What someone wants today is different to what they want tomorrow...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"You look to be a very attractive young couple which can be a hinderance as some folks prefer the older, less good looking couples, as the comparrison with their own looks is not so bad. Catch 22 in some ways. "

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