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Finding it hard to get a meet on here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What am i not doing?... just need a meet so i can get the verification...even if its a social meet..what am i doing wrong?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So you dont a meet to get to know someone and maybe have great sex you just want a meet to get a verification

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By *xxwiganMan
over a year ago

LEIGH

you have only been here two weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure all these ladies would love to be the consolation prize for a veri.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined : 2 weeks ago.

Gee, let me think...?

C xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"What am i not doing?... just need a meet so i can get the verification...even if its a social meet..what am i doing wrong?"
You can get verified by cam, pop into the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried taking a picture of your cock next to a sky remote? its quite the 'in thing' apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean. .... I'm struggling too..... Will someone please do some of my work so I can meet???

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Hello! Welcome to the forums,

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Welcome.

You need a bit of patience. Join in, go to socials and clubs. Go into chat to get a cam verification.

Write decent messages and don't stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you dont a meet to get to know someone and maybe have great sex you just want a meet to get a verification

"

Way to boost your chances!!!


"you have only been here two weeks."

Exactly. What were you expecting?

Like most single guys, I suppose you thought you'd be beating them off with a stick.

Single men outnumber women on here at a ratio of around 100:1

You're profile isn't great - although it's not the worst on here.

Having cock pics is fine, but it's a matter of balance.

If the majority of your pictures are of your cock, then the ladies are going to think you are, well, a cock!!

There have been a number of threads not too dissimilar to yours over the past couple of days - all from guys fairly new to the site.

They've all been told exactly the same thing.

Patience. Some of us didn't get our first meet until we'd been here for around 6 months.

Profile. You need to make yourself stand out. Try and put yourself in a womans shoes (figuratively - not literally)

If you were a woman, would your profile really appeal? What does it say about what she is likely to get from a meet with you. Or do you think that a woman's approach to sex is the same as a blokes - it isn't.

Try and engage their brain by proving that yours is in your head and not between your legs.

None of what I've said is intended as an insult or to cause offence. Just trying to help a fellow chap along the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lool... I see how that came across..I would like to get a meet for some NSA fun but a lot of people that are ready to do that on here will need someone to get verified first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I appareciate that... i guess more patience is needed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried taking a picture of your cock next to a sky remote? its quite the 'in thing' apparently "

Not all of us have sky tv!

Tomato ketchup bottle could be the answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks mate... really appreciate that..guess i might change a few things around..however in all my messages i do send face pics to the females or the couples whose profile i find very interesting and appealing.. I guess i am just trying to be as discreet as i can be.. I mean i dont know who might be going around stealing peoples personal pics... But i will definitely take heed to your advice.. more patience is needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have neither... guess i am screwed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lool... I see how that came across..I would like to get a meet for some NSA fun but a lot of people that are ready to do that on here will need someone to get verified first..."

Not everyone does, but the critical thing is how long you've been here.

There are a lot of time wasters on this site (not that I'm suggesting you are among them) and many people have been let down by people simply not turning up.

It's happened to me.

I've even had a no-show from someone with veri's too.

I've even messaged people who after having been here for less than a day suddenly decide it's not for them and leave.

This can also be particularly frustrating if you arrange a meet with them and drive 40 miles to find nobody there and the user no longer on fab.

This is perhaps why the more genuine of our new users get frustrated and feel that they're not getting anywhere.

You really have to give it time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gracias... I will try doing that...guess its time i see what the chat rooms offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried taking a picture of your cock next to a sky remote? its quite the 'in thing' apparently

Not all of us have sky tv!

Tomato ketchup bottle could be the answer "

I used a wine bottle....then got knocked back for my cock being too big (don't think it is)....so you can't always win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried taking a picture of your cock next to a sky remote? its quite the 'in thing' apparently

Not all of us have sky tv!

Tomato ketchup bottle could be the answer

I used a wine bottle....then got knocked back for my cock being too big (don't think it is)....so you can't always win!"

You can always enjoy knocking back the wine my friend

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Have you tried taking a picture of your cock next to a sky remote? its quite the 'in thing' apparently "

Be different and go all "retro", dig out the old Amstrad sky remote from the early 1990's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried taking a picture of your cock next to a sky remote? its quite the 'in thing' apparently "

LOL this really made me giggle but its true how saad are they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be alright. Just give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This can also be particularly frustrating if you arrange a meet with them and drive 40 miles to find nobody there and the user no longer on fab.

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This is why you never drive anywhere until you seen them either on cam they have VERY GOOD veri you have chatted for a while too many men think with the dick no offense meant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This can also be particularly frustrating if you arrange a meet with them and drive 40 miles to find nobody there and the user no longer on fab.

This is why you never drive anywhere until you seen them either on cam they have VERY GOOD veri you have chatted for a while too many men think with the dick no offense meant x"

None taken. I considered it a lesson learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".I like older and bbw sized women however I have nothing against slim and athletic women too if they can handle the cock"

Sure I can't be the only one who will read this and be put off!! It implies that only older bigger women can take big cock ....... what are you trying to say about us ....... should we all change our usernames to Slack Alice?!!!!

Do you really need 3 cock pics which are indentical? Photos can be "discreet" without having to have a face in them but we all know what a cock looks like!!

The body shot is far more appealing (in my opinion!) and a few more of those wouldn't go amiss

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What am i not doing?... just need a meet so i can get the verification...even if its a social meet..what am i doing wrong?"

Your profile, both in text and photos is very cock orientated and might appeal to bi or gay men because of it. Putting 'no timewasters' really, really works and is a total barrier against them. No way, will they waste your time with that warning!Come back in a couple of months and if you've not had a meet by then, you can have some further advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More body shots less cock. Might be an idea to move the empty glasses and wipe the side - just saying! You can also get verified on cam. Lots of people block unverified so you are automatically reducing your potential audience.

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