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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

Hi all

I've just been tweaking my profile/gallery, and it struck that my pics only seem to get fab'd by guys. Since my sexuality might best be described as 'variable' or 'random', I don't have a problem with that

But I was wondering whether my pics are particularly homo-erotic rather than hetero-erotic? Or is it just that there are much more men on here, and therefore possibly more gay/bi men than straight/bi women? And maybe women are wary of giving encouragement?

Just wondering cos I'd like to attract some straight attention too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a quick look and there was no movement in my pants.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

I've just been tweaking my profile/gallery, and it struck that my pics only seem to get fab'd by guys. Since my sexuality might best be described as 'variable' or 'random', I don't have a problem with that

But I was wondering whether my pics are particularly homo-erotic rather than hetero-erotic? Or is it just that there are much more men on here, and therefore possibly more gay/bi men than straight/bi women? And maybe women are wary of giving encouragement?

Just wondering cos I'd like to attract some straight attention too "

Yep those pics would certainly attract men..nice ass by the way!

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly


"Yep those pics would certainly attract men..nice ass by the way! "

Thanks!

What do women like to see in pics then?

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly


"What do women like to see in pics then? "

Just a cheeky little bump to try to get a bit more feedback on this

Possibly my topic heading is putting people off hahaha - maybe 'Pics - TOO homo-erotic?', or just 'pic advice please' lol

You live and learn… anyways, thoughts anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of nice pics. Fab my fav

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There's a couple of good quality photos spoilt by a couple of crap ones. The subject matter does nothing for me but I like the photo style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a quick look and there was no movement in my pants.

Hope that helps. "

I looked, there was no movement in mine either!!

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

Thanks for the replies.

The purpose of the thread was to understand why the vast majority of my fabs are from single men:

because there are so many more men on here?

women are wary of encouraging guys?

some other reason? (please explain)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pictures sometimes get buckets of views from males all at once, then I get a mix of views including women and couples, then loads of males again.

I consider them homo-erratic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes think there more towards the bi men no offence meant

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

Thanks sexybrain - i see what you did there!

If they are more bi-leaning, then what kind of pics would be more straight-leaning?

What do women/couples prefer to see?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ladders tend to be quite straight leaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't homoerotic. Any picture of a mans cock is gonna attract bi and gay guys. And they outnumber women ten to one on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being serious for a moment male pictures in general get more male views than females and couples, I used my smile as an avatar for the past week as an experiment, and my male/female/couple viewing ratins were largely the same, I just got less of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you joking..????

I've had a look at your pics and they're as gay as a gay thing!

I don't think you could have tailored your choice of pics better to appeal to gay men!

And I'm saying that as a mostly-gay woman who has a big circle of gay male friends, and I know what they like..... Oh, they'd like you!

In fact, looking at them on their own, I'd seriously wonder if you were interested in women at all!

C'mon you Bears - what do you think???

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

Thanks sissy, thanks sexy.

Annie, what kind of thing would appeal to women then? I'm not really an expect at photographing myself so my approach was to expose some flesh and press the shutter button haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks sissy, thanks sexy.

Annie, what kind of thing would appeal to women then? I'm not really an expect at photographing myself so my approach was to expose some flesh and press the shutter button haha"

Use a timer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I saw those pictures, I'd assume you were making every effort to attract gay men. Can't explain why haha

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By *indobona_1TV/TS
over a year ago

Tring

Maybe guys have a wish factor or simply do a comparison with themselves and then do a simple fab thinking I look like that? I am saying this as not looked at the OP's profile or pics!

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

Having received some much-welcome advice via PM I've uploaded another pic…

…so far it's been fabbed by two guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a quick look and there was no movement in my pants.

Hope that helps. "

Same here.

I can understand the feedback you're receiving about how your pics appeal to gay men though.

Think you need some more feedback from Gay and Bi guys on this too, as so far it looks like the only feedback you're getting is from Women and straight guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an idea...turn the fabbing button off?

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly


"Just an idea...turn the fabbing button off?"

How would that help? I've made it clear more than once that I don't have an issue with them being fabbed. I was only wondering why I get so many more fabs from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't be wondering then why men were fabbing them?

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly


"You wouldn't be wondering then why men were fabbing them?

"

Well yes, it would stop me from thinking about it. But I want my profile to appeal to women and couples also, so ignoring the possibility that my pics might be more male-orientated wouldn't help me solve the problem.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I'm as straight as they come but almost half my fabs are from guys, being comfortable with my own sexuality and having bi/gay friends anyway i just think hey! what harm does it do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fabbed the ones I liked. I don't fab for the sake of it,I only fab the ones that make me think mmmmmmm

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

thanks clacton - so it's not just me! good to know…

hi banana, and thanks for the fabs - it's good to know there's something there for the ladies too

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

90% of my pics fabs are from guys, i find it flattering all the same

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

thanks rivers - i just flattered you some more

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

haha returned the favour

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly


"haha returned the favour "

that was the one pic where i didn't need anyone to tell me it was gonna appeal more to men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok having critiqued your photos ... my views are that most women have got to love a peachy bottom but a guy laying on his front with his bottom slightly raised and the urm... undercarriage ... on display is such an unnatural pose to see a man in (unless with a female underneath) and as such is usually reserved for gay porn or... crikey... backdoor play the two cock shots, however, do zip for me... I much prefer the clothed arty ones with a hint of...

hope that helps

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly


"ok having critiqued your photos ... my views are that most women have got to love a peachy bottom but a guy laying on his front with his bottom slightly raised and the urm... undercarriage ... on display is such an unnatural pose to see a man in (unless with a female underneath) and as such is usually reserved for gay porn or... crikey... backdoor play the two cock shots, however, do zip for me... I much prefer the clothed arty ones with a hint of...

hope that helps "

thanks for the critique

yeh, the bum pic gets fabs from guys and gals - i'm cool with the guy fabs, i just wanted to make sure i wasn't doing something to totally deter girls and couples. so i'm gonna let it stay haha

I've shifted the cock shot that doesn't even have any torso to friends-only now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a couple and though we usually play straight, we are both bicurious. We both think they are very homo-erotic. Possibly the ass one as it's inviting the viewer to read it at eye level. Unless you wanna attract women with a penchant for rimming guys, that's deffo turned right up to ten on anyone's gayometer!

Jane (my other half) says they aren't natural enough for her. A bit too posed in her personal opinion.

We have no problem with them being artful. They just feel a little like they're aimed at a male gaze, not a woman's.

Nice profile btw. Your personality really comes through

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By *jeibm2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

thanks coffee+cream the ass one gets girl fabs so i've allowed it to stay haha

what might be better for girls/couples do you think? i thought i might take a couple of snaps with a towel next time i shower - bit cheeky without being too crude…

ps thanks for the kind words about my profile - i redrafted and took on some feedback so I'm glad it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem. Remember it's just our opinion. Everyone's will be different.

Just take the pictures you want to take and don't get hung up on the audience. You'll attract interest no matter what you put up. Just enjoy the 'likes' when they come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most if mine are from guys too. Can't think why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the recumbent inviting pose aside, you are sadly cursed with the kind of arse that would make just about any gay man wish he could breathe through his ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the recumbent inviting pose aside, you are sadly cursed with the kind of arse that would make just about any gay man wish he could breathe through his ears. "

Love it

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