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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is anal always painfull eny tips x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is to start with but once it's in it feels amazing lots and lots off lube and control how much u put in at ur own pace xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anal always painfull eny tips x"
Yeah avoid the extra wide tips..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not always painful. It does feel uncomfortable when being entered sometimes.

The key is to relax, take your time and use plenty of lube. Try different positions, I find missionary or me on top is less painful to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it painful and very difficult to relax, I do enjoy it eventually though. I shall look forward to reading tips too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube lube lube and relax! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube lube lube and relax! X"

and position. I can't start doggy. Prefer spooning and when more relaxed I love getting on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube lube lube and relax! X

and position. I can't start doggy. Prefer spooning and when more relaxed I love getting on top. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube lube lube and relax! X

and position. I can't start doggy. Prefer spooning and when more relaxed I love getting on top. "

Yes, and position! I cant get on top, but doggy and spooning! All for it!

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

plenty of lube plenty of play before hand maybe even the odd toy or 2 every thing else then will be amazing xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anal always painfull eny tips x"

More lube smaller insertions.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Lube, build up to a penis, small toys and fingers 1st take it slow and most of all relax as soon as you clench its probably pointless. Try different positions to start and never rush. Some people just find it too painful and uncomfortable but if you can get it right as far as i have seen the orgasms are explosive.

If you have time and the inclination play solo and try stuff without the pressure of another person around. Also dont go for it 1st time have a few sessions of teasing and light penetration before going for the whole sex thing as this will allow you to get used to the idea of anal pen and the feel of objects in there.

GL and HF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very much an anal virgin until my boyfriend and I tried it a few weeks ago ...he took things very slowly ...fingers.... Toys (small vibe and butt plug. We find poppers work and help you to relax ...I was literally begging him for Anal today and I have to say I'm loving it Tracey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends if you have piles or not from child birth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anusol...works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take it easy, never rush, lots of prep, lube, and you having control of the penetration, taking your pace,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very much an anal virgin until my boyfriend and I tried it a few weeks ago ...he took things very slowly ...fingers.... Toys (small vibe and butt plug. We find poppers work and help you to relax ...I was literally begging him for Anal today and I have to say I'm loving it Tracey "

Tried popers never worked for me :-/ do give me a amazing buzz during sex tho xxx

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By *indobona_1TV/TS
over a year ago

Tring

I have taken to using specialist anal lube which does ease things. I don't know what is in it but I guess it is some form of very mild topical anaesthetic. I have heard that some 'preparations' can be a bit dangerous as numbing can lead to tearing of the anal passage by a brute and potentially an infection risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends if you have piles or not from child birth."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it like a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried it a couple of times with a guy before but get sharp pains.

Really want to do it fully tho...guess a guy with a small cock might help

But for now I'm def gonna fuck the wife's ass tonight

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester


"Is anal always painfull eny tips x"

if it hurts id stop doing it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spit first then fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was a very slim guy. His cock was slim too and he had immense patience with me. First attempt was bad as I tensed up, second attempt was more successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porno birds masturbate during anal. Is that because it's just a job or does it really help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to find it painful but now im relaxed with it ...i love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to find it painful but now im relaxed with it ...i love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All above tips.. Lube different positions and a guy that does as u say.. Even the smaller build can be a bit painful if they go fast and fully in.

I say go in slow inch by inch till we synch then can take various speed and depth is good. Good anal sex is never painfully whatever the girth and length.

Enjoy

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By *ittleLillyTV/TS
over a year ago

Pontypool

Plenty of lube and staying relaxed helps. If you're scared that there may be pain, you're more likely to tense up. If you can't fully relax you could try poppers?

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