FabSwingers.com forum: Lady Advice!?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, so I am looking for some advice from all you ladies out there, guys feel free to join in if you think you can help out.

So basically, its about a girl that I like, I mean REALLY like. I have known her for two years from a prior job and over the two years we have been friends. When we first met we used to text each other all the time and speak on phone. Eventually we both got different jobs which allowed us to see each other outside of work and went on a few dates together. However, due to our work schedules we never really got to meet up that often we would go out every 3 months or so

as we couldn’t see each other that much we spoke on the phone a lot and met up when we were both free. The most intimate we ever got was kissing but nothing further. It just felt as though the spark died out every 3 months, lol.

Anyways, she’s been out the country for last 4 months for work and is returning soon and I can’t wait to see her. How can I make things move further? I know she is interested through a mutual friend of ours but it seems as though I can’t get things up and running.

So, I need some advice on how to approach the situation…. Should I tell her straight up how I feel? Has anyone ever had the experience of moving from friendship into a relationship?

I like the girl so much I think I am overthinking the whole thing

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd let her unpack her cases first. She may have changed radically after being away for so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Tina said and then ask her out for a meal or quiet drink,for catch ups. One small step at a time,no planning too far ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd let her unpack her cases first. She may have changed radically after being away for so long.

Yeah before Tina went on hols she was a bloke lol

(sorry Tina... couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not as if your asking her to marry you?

If you have already kissed and you have heard via a mutual friend she likes you.

I'm sure she would already know you would maybe want to take things further.

As it's been said before let her un pack ask her for a coffee or drink and just chat i'm sure you will get the feeling either way on how she feels xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yeah before Tina went on hols she was a bloke lol

(sorry Tina... couldn't resist

That's what happens when you go to Brighton for a week

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Women like confident men. Confidence is SEXY.

Ask her out and just tell her how you feel.

Personally if I liked a guy but he was dragging his feet a bit, I might get fed up too.

So find your balls......and tell her!

Good luck !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married my best friend. It's a great start to a relationship.

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