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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Realistically do I have much chance?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Many do alright, why wouldn't you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends whether you put effort in or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer? It's not a huge chance due to overwhelming odds.

Do your best to stand out from all the generic single male profiles, engage in the forums, attend social events and network yourself out there and your chances improve massively.

Sit and wait for it to come to you via the interweb, chances fall through the trapdoor.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Well you are tall and slim. You like guys too so at the very least you will get a T girl action.

But work at it and you should do well.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not with that attitude.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

stand true to yourself, sell yourself well and have realistic expectations and you can do really well on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a Social go to it.

Get to a club.

Have a look at some of the more succesful profiles on here and borrow some of it to your style.

Put in the effort and it will get rewarded in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why you would have any trouble, just try and post in forums and keep positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a single guy and I'm having a ball

Lots of single guys on here but there is opportunity for all genders to play.

PMA required

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Depends whether you put effort in or not

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best answer you will get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can only reap what you sow! and remember no one finds negativity attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where you live to, heard the horny ones live in north England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can only reap what you sow! and remember no one finds negativity attractive "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many do alright, why wouldn't you? "

Very average here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends whether you put effort in or not

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Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you are tall and slim. You like guys too so at the very least you will get a T girl action.

But work at it and you should do well.

Good luck "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends whether you put effort in or not

best answer you will get "

I agree I have not had a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it also depends how single you actually are.

If there's nobody at home and you can do late nights and weekends, unlike those with family commitments, your chances will naturally increase.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends whether you put effort in or not

best answer you will get "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I had much success. Deleted or unread messages. But the site seems full of porkers!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Realistically do I have much chance?"

Turn the question around....

what can you do to improve your chances?

are you using all the tools available to project the best you possible?

if the answer is no... and you need someone else to tell you..... only you know you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically do I have much chance?

Turn the question around....

what can you do to improve your chances?

are you using all the tools available to project the best you possible?

if the answer is no... and you need someone else to tell you..... only you know you!!!"

Great way of putting it Fabio. Utilise whatever you can to maximise the chances of success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say I had much success. Deleted or unread messages. But the site seems full of porkers!"

Wanna borrow my stab vest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically do I have much chance?

Turn the question around....

what can you do to improve your chances?

are you using all the tools available to project the best you possible?

if the answer is no... and you need someone else to tell you..... only you know you!!!"

Again wise words from sensai Fabio

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I can't say I had much success. Deleted or unread messages. But the site seems full of porkers!"

And the non porkers that you are messaging aren't replying to your messages... Not much action on the horizon for you then

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I can't say I had much success. Deleted or unread messages. But the site seems full of porkers!

And the non porkers that you are messaging aren't replying to your messages... Not much action on the horizon for you then "

OP, Living up here the scene is very discreet, but chat to folks get known, watch out for socials and events.

If you are genuinely single, respectful and make an effort - you're never going to have a queue forming, but some fellas do ok.

And no, its not easy for us ladies either, but you make of it what you will. Check you are doing all you can to make the most of meeting who you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically do I have much chance?"

No.

You have two choices.

Stay on here and face continual rejection or worse still woman ignoring your messages.

Or go to clubs and pay extortionate entrance fees with no guarantee of sex.

Your better off going down the pub/club and finding the local bike. Or alternatively buy a whore.

I am only on this for the forum now. Its the only thing that's stimulating about this site for me now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say I had much success. Deleted or unread messages. But the site seems full of porkers!"

But you are married and that will severely limit the Ladies who will reply to your messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you're so far from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically do I have much chance?"

In a word..... No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy and just started. I went my first proper swingers party on Friday. I thoroughly enjoyed myself. I spent most of the night with one girl. We lost track of the time because we were having so much fun. I met some real nice people and potential couples and singles to meet again. I think the best thing is going to the parties and talking to people. Don't be pushy and respect others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be fine dude be your self unless your a ginormous pleb lol don't lie!!! Or fib you will get caught haha

Try to be a breath of fresh air play on your assets I chat to loads if lady's on here we have a ball

Do not ever ever send a pic of the wand unless it's asked for! A cock is a cock simples lol be creative don't just say hi I'm blah blah blah it doesn't work I've got my mascot flerpy the unicorn two heads are better than one lol

Good luck dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be pessimistic n you will be fine....it's a piece of piss on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically do I have much chance?

No.

You have two choices.

Stay on here and face continual rejection or worse still woman ignoring your messages.

Or go to clubs and pay extortionate entrance fees with no guarantee of sex.

Your better off going down the pub/club and finding the local bike. Or alternatively buy a whore.

I am only on this for the forum now. Its the only thing that's stimulating about this site for me now.

"

Funny guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say I had much success. Deleted or unread messages. But the site seems full of porkers!

And the non porkers that you are messaging aren't replying to your messages... Not much action on the horizon for you then "
.....me ....makes me laugh when fellow posters claim that any slagging of fab or the people off fab damages chances of future meets!!!

Not the centre of the swinging world.. xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think the OP will do fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically do I have much chance?"

you do but as many will testify there is a lot more single guys than couples and single F put together so basically you have to put a lotof effort in or try to get reregular meets from the same couples or single F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. Very funny response. Its all about time and people feeling comfortable with you. I have learned its slowly slowly catches the monkey.

frustrating it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile could be better.

Like others have said, there are a LOT of single guys on here so you need to do everything you can to stand out from the rest of us.

I don't tend to look at single male profiles (as a straight guy why would I), but compared to the profiles I do _iew, yours is severely lacking in the information department.

Have a good look around the site at other profiles to get some sort of idea of what others might be looking for in a profile.

New users tend to fall into the trap of posting as little about themselves as is possible - but at least you haven't put 'will fill in later'

You've mentioned what it is you're looking for, but think about what you have to offer to others.

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