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Trying to get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on for a bit now messaged a few peeps but no luck yet just chatting away but that's about it any tips???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tip would be to search for similar threads posted and read the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is against us men, its 100 men to 1 woman, so its all about getting lucky really lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get that kinda feeling budy thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on for 2 years, 3 meets. Keep at it and you will get lucky. It is hard work for us single blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be forget swimging and buy a whore.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Many ladies look at the profile before answering, and then may not answer.

Some get so many hundreds of messages they can't possibly read them all let alone reply.

Others don't allow men to message them and look for what they want and contact you (Be wary of anyone doing that though as it is usually a man posing as a female - don't ask me why)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless your a couple or female in swinging you have better odds of getting a ride down your local pub or nightclub.

I'm afraid swinging is massively over subscribed by males all trying to feed off the scraps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on for a bit now messaged a few peeps but no luck yet just chatting away but that's about it any tips??? "

You've been here 6 weeks according to your profile, that's no time at all, it takes some guys 6 months or more to get meets.

There are some social events in the next few months coming up, Glasgow, Bathgate and Stirling, get along to one of them, more chance of hitting it off in person with someone at these than across the forums or site.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Been on for a bit now messaged a few peeps but no luck yet just chatting away but that's about it any tips??? "

yes avoid making a tred moaning about the lack of meets when you haven't been on the site that long oops too late

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peeps for the feed back I am still learning!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself and be positive

Be jolly and show more of your personality on your profile

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Give it time...be polite and respectful to the ladies on here, avoid putting moany statuses about lack of meets...not sure where you imagine that will get you - you wont find anyone willing to give you a 'sympathy shag'. And please ignore him up there ?? who posts numerous threads about 'whores' and realise that swinging ladies and prostitutes are totally different! Be patient and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the effort in and you will be rewarded....or go to a club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always posts about this subject! Do you get lucky every time you go out? This maybe a swinging site but don't expect to have a meet everytime you message someone! As others have said, the ladies and couples on the site have plenty of choice. Threads like this come across as needy, again another reason for avoidance. Go to a club or a social. Its not easy on here for single males, but then life never is! Patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP its not easy for single males, but there is plenty of advice on previous forum threads. But effort and patience is needed. I have had plenty of meets so it can happen. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really thanks peeps I get the picture a couple of verry nice girls explained it all to me and a couple of sound helpful straight guys aswell cheers people and hope to get results wry soon lol???? Xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Really thanks peeps I get the picture a couple of verry nice girls explained it all to me and a couple of sound helpful straight guys aswell cheers people and hope to get results wry soon lol???? Xxx "

Would you accept advice from a bi guy?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Really thanks peeps I get the picture a couple of verry nice girls explained it all to me and a couple of sound helpful straight guys aswell cheers people and hope to get results wry soon lol???? Xxx

Would you accept advice from a bi guy? "

And were the 'very nice girls' straight or bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem for us single male profiles is not only that there are so many of us, but that so many of us are rude, misogynistic, or otherwise unpleasant. There's at least one example in this thread, for example.

It might be difficult to get a conversation going - the inbox system isn't great for people getting dozens (or even hundreds) of messages - but I find it's pretty much like real life:

If you (a) encounter someone who fancies you and (b) you're not an arsehole, then you'll probably have sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So true buddy!

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