FabSwingers.com forum: Understanding Bi

By *andL-Liverpool OP Couple
over a year ago

Huyton

I guess everyone has diffrent view's on everything, there was a thread recently about bbw's and sizing ect...

so being BI how we see it

Bi-Curious to us in intrested in same sex sexual contact, maybe not done it or havn't done much of it, don't know there like's or dislikes

Bi-Sexual to us is intrested in sexual contact with both genders, they know what they like / want and are happy to play (with boundries set) with both genders, not nessiceraly individually (some bi girls like to be bi in 3some's but not fem on fem)

being bi-sexual to us has nothing to do with relationship's / life partners, it's just a sexual thing

if a person wantes to have relationship with both sex's would they not be bi-relationship ?

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"I guess everyone has diffrent view's on everything, there was a thread recently about bbw's and sizing ect...

so being BI how we see it

Bi-Curious to us in intrested in same sex sexual contact, maybe not done it or havn't done much of it, don't know there like's or dislikes

being bi-sexual to us has nothing to do with relationship's / life partners, it's just a sexual thing

if a person wantes to have relationship with both sex's would they not be bi-relationship ?"

I think you have described it in a nutshell - if I could tick a box to describe myself as bi playful then I would

As long as all peeps are respectful it's a great way to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the OP description is as close to right as it can be in a short explanation as far is I can see. Of course, let me add here that this is only my opinion.......... on a subject as as involved as human sexuality and how people describe 'Bi' themselves though, I'm sure there will many many more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me classing myself as bi sexual isn't 50-50 men and women.

I find females sexually attractive if their what I like but I don't find men sexually attractive as a whole like I do with women.

I can't kiss or cuddle a guy, the thought repulses me but I like sucking cock but I'd never look at a guy and think he's sey or hot or whatever.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I see bisexuality a a spectrum from exclusively straight to exclusively gay with lots of variations in-between and with people moving from one bit to another back and forth over a period of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do an internet search on j r little research into bi sexuality it describes the 13 definitions of bi sexuality. Interesting stuff.

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By *andL-Liverpool OP Couple
over a year ago

Huyton

After reading the 13 step's of bisexuality as suggest above, we both agree that we fall into this catagory

Hedonistic - Primarily straight but will sometimes have recreational sex with a different gender purely for sexual satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see bisexuality a a spectrum from exclusively straight to exclusively gay with lots of variations in-between and with people moving from one bit to another back and forth over a period of time. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree with your definitions. I used to state myself as bi-curious but have changed it to bisexual now that I know I enjoy meeting with girls for sexy fun without a bloke in sight.

I haven't had a serious relationship with another female but I've had enough naughty experiences to know I fancy the pants off the right girls!

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

"For me classing myself as bi sexual isn't 50-50 men and women.

I find females sexually attractive if their what I like but I don't find men sexually attractive as a whole like I do with women.

I can't kiss or cuddle a guy, the thought repulses me but I like sucking cock but I'd never look at a guy and think he's sey or hot or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a sexy TV is different, even though their male, If they look feminine and have a woman's body shape and dressed up then I can find them extremely arousing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm very bi. As one of my veris on our couples profile says.

I fancy both sexes. I kiss both and have full sex with both. I don't fuck guys but they do me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see bisexuality a a spectrum from exclusively straight to exclusively gay with lots of variations in-between and with people moving from one bit to another back and forth over a period of time. "

Yep, shades of grey that can vary depending on the mood!

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I like the saying homoflexible. Since I don't want to date a man but am definitely by during play time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I see bisexuality a a spectrum from exclusively straight to exclusively gay with lots of variations in-between and with people moving from one bit to another back and forth over a period of time.

Yep, shades of grey that can vary depending on the mood! "

Not grey...brighter more vivid colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And cushions!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you do an internet search on j r little research into bi sexuality it describes the 13 definitions of bi sexuality. Interesting stuff. "

Im hedonistic bisexual then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect most of us who identify as Bi on here are Hedonistic. There definitely quite a few motivational ladies too. I'm not sure about motivational guys as I haven't encountered any as far as I'm aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After reading the 13 step's of bisexuality as suggest above, we both agree that we fall into this catagory

Hedonistic - Primarily straight but will sometimes have recreational sex with a different gender purely for sexual satisfaction"

OOh, I am Hedonistic- I like that better than bi-playful

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If you do an internet search on j r little research into bi sexuality it describes the 13 definitions of bi sexuality. Interesting stuff.

Im hedonistic bisexual then

So am I!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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I think its a bit too prescriptive - theres fluidity and uncertainty and that big thing - horniness which can warp many minds and needs. Dont rule out the interconnectedness of romance too, as this has a massive influence on sexual drive. With and without this can make a huge difference. People can also be fickle, even to themselves, where ideas and invests come and go. I think if we lived in a world without inhibition and social controls we would be a much more free range group of sexual animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect most of us who identify as Bi on here are Hedonistic. There definitely quite a few motivational ladies too. I'm not sure about motivational guys as I haven't encountered any as far as I'm aware."

Lots of motivational bi women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its a bit too prescriptive - theres fluidity and uncertainty and that big thing - horniness which can warp many minds and needs. Dont rule out the interconnectedness of romance too, as this has a massive influence on sexual drive. With and without this can make a huge difference. People can also be fickle, even to themselves, where ideas and invests come and go. I think if we lived in a world without inhibition and social controls we would be a much more free range group of sexual animals."

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