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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi my boyfriend and I recently joined Fabswingers as a couple looking for a lady to join us for a three some as I have never experienced it. We know what we are looking for so are genuine but we don't seem to be having much luck We can travel and accommodate. I was wondering if we're doing something wrong or someone give me some tips.....cheers

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Without a few verifications you will have problems getting single fems to meet you. Maybe try clubs and socials to show you're genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a social event near to you, build up rapport with people. It's hard to begin with as a large amount of people won't meet non-verified folks but don't get disheartened.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd add in more information. No single lady would go to someones house based on a 1 line profile. Sell yourselves, interests, boundaries, what you're looking for, what turns you on, what you can offer etc. Make more of an effort with your profile. After all, the 1 line isn't working, is it? Change her status to bi curious as why would a straight woman want to have sex with another woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it looks like the classic fake couples profile, male username, one line profile, one blurred photo could be male or fem, another face pic of the male and the other, a breast pic, that could be anyone or pinched off the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi my boyfriend and I recently joined Fabswingers as a couple looking for a lady to join us for a three some as I have never experienced it. We know what we are looking for so are genuine but we don't seem to be having much luck We can travel and accommodate. I was wondering if we're doing something wrong or someone give me some tips.....cheers"

Apart from what has already been said about the pictures and lack of information in your profile, it gives no clue as to what would be the benefits for the woman who might meet you. You're listed as straight, so what exactly are you looking to experience with her? And knowing what you're looking for makes you genuine in exactly what way?

Are you sending out messages or waiting for the women you hope to meet to come looking for you?

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I have to say you've only been on the site 2 weeks and your profile does look very strange.

I take it you want to find a straight women so you and the person can have sex whilst your parnter watches???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To us it looks like the classic fake couples profile, male username, one line profile, one blurred photo could be male or fem, another face pic of the male and the other, a breast pic, that could be anyone or pinched off the net

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Having a quick look at your profile I thought exactly the above has said. The profile looks like it has been written by a male. I would definitely pass on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To us it looks like the classic fake couples profile, male username, one line profile, one blurred photo could be male or fem, another face pic of the male and the other, a breast pic, that could be anyone or pinched off the net

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Agreed

Profile needs some work

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great. "

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?"

Or photoshop a pic for admin veri....it has been done and mentioned on here before.

I have no interest in a profile just seeking women. Have asked the opinion of three of my lady friends on here. They all say the profile absolutely screams fake.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?"

To get photo verified as a couple it needs to be both of you, both sets of hands showing and holding a sheet with user name and site address.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?"

I meant on first glance, seeing the pic and the name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?

To get photo verified as a couple it needs to be both of you, both sets of hands showing and holding a sheet with user name and site address."

We are photo verified and our hands are not showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To us it looks like the classic fake couples profile, male username, one line profile, one blurred photo could be male or fem, another face pic of the male and the other, a breast pic, that could be anyone or pinched off the net

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Does to me too, all its says to be is once the meets arranged the fem is suddendly ahem "sick" or cant meet for another reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?

I meant on first glance, seeing the pic and the name. "

Can someone be photo verified as a single man, then convert the profile to a couples and keep the verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples

I meant on first glance, seeing the pic and the name.

Can someone be photo verified as a single man, then convert the profile to a couples and keep the verification?"

yes I believe they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?

To get photo verified as a couple it needs to be both of you, both sets of hands showing and holding a sheet with user name and site address.

We are photo verified and our hands are not showing"

ive been here longer than you so maybe they they have relaxed the rules. Had photos rejected because hands not showing on couple profile when we first joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples profile?

To get photo verified as a couple it needs to be both of you, both sets of hands showing and holding a sheet with user name and site address.

We are photo verified and our hands are not showing

ive been here longer than you so maybe they they have relaxed the rules. Had photos rejected because hands not showing on couple profile when we first joined."

That might be what happens now

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Blueboy as the profile ID and a pic of only the male as the avatar made me do a double take cos it just looks like a male profile. Very little information about what you want and can offer, pics aren't great.

They've been verified by admin or do only one person get verified on a couples

I meant on first glance, seeing the pic and the name.

Can someone be photo verified as a single man, then convert the profile to a couples and keep the verification?

yes I believe they can "

I don't believe they can no, I think you can go from couple to single but not the other way round.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

This is all odd to me when I first joined I had to have my full face and hands holding a sign with my name, fab swingers and date on joining showing....

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