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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, i can understand some people don't like using them, but if i wanna use them then that's my choice because it's my only form of contraception. This topic is about protecting myself and not to judge about using them or not.

Are there any tricks i should be aware of where guys try not to use them and i might not notice? Like they slip it off when they think you wouldn't notice or something? Am sure someone tried to pull something like this on me and worried now if there's other stuff they might do as well that, that i don't know about.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Be very wary with men who dislike putting them on in doggy style. Its easy for them to be wrapped, let you feel it, and then slip it off if they slip out.

Keep an check, and if in doubt, they're not worth playing with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks. yeah what i was on about in my original post... it was when we was doing stuff where he was behind me.

it's bad enough worrying about them just coming off accidentally, never mind this shit as well. might start using femidoms, no way they can sneakily remove that.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Don't do doggy on meets until you trust them? If you only meet once, keep it positions where you can see them?

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

I Dan, always try and keep an eye on men when they are playing with Susie. However, maybe you could check with your hand every no and again as if you were playing with yourself.

I'm convinced one meet we had split the condom on purpose, caused a bit of panic and a trip to the GUM clinic. Never played wit him again.

I think if you are not sure you can fully trust someone, then maybe its best not to play with them. Although I know that's difficult in a party/puppy pile type scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point.

i don't always think in the heat of the moment but i'll try and remember that in the future.

might change the way i play from now on as well, as in no sex until i can trust someone, which defeats the purpose of how i use this site really. oh well, will just chat to guys tonight and maybe have a fb accompany me to everything, i like the idea of having someone to look out for me (like the guy below you says he does for his wife).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i didn't even know guys slipped them off until the meet i am talking about originally.

will try the femidom first and if they aren't great then ill probably just look for a regular fb i can trust and then only play when they are around to keep an eye out for me.

thankyou everyone's advice. am gonna go chill out for a bit and have fun chatting.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

If i had the slightest doubt after i had said 'a condom' he would be spinning out the door if he couldnt show me it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick a cock ring over the condom. That will keep the fecker on and the bloke's cock hard too maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a worry hun.

I make it a habit every now and then to reach back and feel if I'm in a position that I can't see.

Hope you don't come across this again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stick a cock ring over the condom. That will keep the fecker on and the bloke's cock hard too maybe "

will this actually work? he had no trouble staying hard, it's just if it will keep the condom on then i would love to do this. i seriously do worry about it coming off as well as the other stuff we are duscussing here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh and thanks bbw, i hope so as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick a cock ring over the condom. That will keep the fecker on and the bloke's cock hard too maybe

will this actually work? he had no trouble staying hard, it's just if it will keep the condom on then i would love to do this. i seriously do worry about it coming off as well as the other stuff we are duscussing here."

It can help keep a condom on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stick a cock ring over the condom. That will keep the fecker on and the bloke's cock hard too maybe

will this actually work? he had no trouble staying hard, it's just if it will keep the condom on then i would love to do this. i seriously do worry about it coming off as well as the other stuff we are duscussing here.

It can help keep a condom on "

brill, will go get one, thankyou very much. and thanks everyone else who replied.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

A femidom won't protect you from sti's...it's not just pregnancy you want to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be sure to pick the right bloke. A decent and honest one should resort to underhand tricks to slip in bare.

You can always cop a feel of his cock occasionally to ensure the condom is still on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get into the habit of always reaching for a feel on every re entry... rub his balls while your there

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Knew a bloke who could stretch a condom, then shove the closed end up his nostril and pull it out of his mouth while keeping hold of the other end. That was a cool trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A femidom won't protect you from sti's...it's not just pregnancy you want to avoid "

Yes, they do protect against stis, according to their website and the who website. It's argued by them that they provide better protection than a male condom because there is additional coverage on the external genitalia from the base of the penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

If a cock ring isn't practical then use a couple of feet of Duck Tape to attach the condom to him.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you."

didn't know this, but yeah it was pretty serious to me that he leave it on and i didn't consent to sex without one so you do make sense here.

thanks all, i will be buying a cock ring, facing forwards, and pretending to molest testicles from now on. and talking a lot more to get a better idea of what the guy is like.

it's great that you guys are supportive and i'm very greatful for all the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you."

Quite so. The other thing that some of my lady friends assure me is that fellows turn up for a safe(r) sex meet without their own condoms! Surely to door is the only way for such as these?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A femidom would not protect against genital warts passing from his balls onto your anus.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Ok, i can understand some people don't like using them, but if i wanna use them then that's my choice because it's my only form of contraception. This topic is about protecting myself and not to judge about using them or not.

Are there any tricks i should be aware of where guys try not to use them and i might not notice? Like they slip it off when they think you wouldn't notice or something? Am sure someone tried to pull something like this on me and worried now if there's other stuff they might do as well that, that i don't know about.

"

The only trick I've tried is hanging a jonny out of the car window at 70 mph and watching it inflate into the size of a python!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch out for guys who put them on and keep spilting them "trying" get it on and guy who say my dick is to big for comdoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand the mentality of men who would do this. Its for their protection as well! Having said that, I have had one split and 'lost' one before. It does happen!

As others suggest keep a check every so often, or don't entertain doggie. I now glance down occasionally to check. Doesn't break the rhythm.

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

for group-sex / gangbang / all-cummers it is generally good to have a partner or friend keeping an eye out for you - especially for this - "smart guys" slipping condoms off, etc..

One I've heard of is - lady likes a guy and she inspects sees condom on right - he goes behind then another guy smoothly pushes him aside and tries to slide his bare penis into the lady. So look behind and see the guy you think is there is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't understand the mentality of men who would do this. Its for their protection as well! Having said that, I have had one split and 'lost' one before. It does happen!

As others suggest keep a check every so often, or don't entertain doggie. I now glance down occasionally to check. Doesn't break the rhythm."

The "mentality" of it is he thinks if she always uses a condom with others she will be disease free so he can happily fuck her bareback without risk. She should tell him to wear a condom because she recently had bareback sex with a guy who has syphilis and she is awaiting the clinic results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any tricks you ask?

Here is a good one.

Put some tiny pin pricks in the end and inseminate every woman in the club. Lol!!!!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"A femidom would not protect against genital warts passing from his balls onto your anus."

Neither would a condom surely? Never seen a condom cover a guy's balls before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, i can understand some people don't like using them, but if i wanna use them then that's my choice because it's my only form of contraception. This topic is about protecting myself and not to judge about using them or not.

Are there any tricks i should be aware of where guys try not to use them and i might not notice? Like they slip it off when they think you wouldn't notice or something? Am sure someone tried to pull something like this on me and worried now if there's other stuff they might do as well that, that i don't know about.

"

You could try telling the man you have aids! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A femidom would not protect against genital warts passing from his balls onto your anus.

Neither would a condom surely? Never seen a condom cover a guy's balls before. "

Hahahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sorry, just repeated what someone else said... can't understand why a guy would try it! I would agree it would constitute rape though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tricks you ask?

Here is a good one.

Put some tiny pin pricks in the end and inseminate every woman in the club. Lol!!!!!!!"

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tricks you ask?

Here is a good one.

Put some tiny pin pricks in the end and inseminate every woman in the club. Lol!!!!!!!"

It's ok to make the odd light hearted joke as some have done here but the lady op is serious in her request for advice. Not really helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tricks you ask?

Here is a good one.

Put some tiny pin pricks in the end and inseminate every woman in the club. Lol!!!!!!!

It's ok to make the odd light hearted joke as some have done here but the lady op is serious in her request for advice. Not really helpful "

The best advice for the op on a serious level in my opinion is use your common sense, if the guy seems reluctant to wear a condom ask yourself if you really want to go any further in the first place. If you do not trust the guy don't shaggy him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any tricks you ask?

Here is a good one.

Put some tiny pin pricks in the end and inseminate every woman in the club. Lol!!!!!!!

It's ok to make the odd light hearted joke as some have done here but the lady op is serious in her request for advice. Not really helpful "

the jokes on him.

there'll be even less ladies available for sex if we are stuck home raising kids

main reason i can't hookup whenever i want to is because of my responsibilities. want to avoid making any more.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Yes

1)always user own condoms you should never trust what the guy supplies without examining it first including the date stamp.

2) never use flavoured one for fucking only oral.

3)always put on the cock yourself ive seen a lot of guys not putting them on correctly.

4)have a spotter with you (someone to check they are wearing it the whole time).

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

I've caught the same bloke twice pulling out, then palming the condom as he puts his cock back in - the club said it was my word against his, so didn't throw him out. (Next time I see him do it, I'll be the one getting thrown out after beating him to within an inch of his worthless life, but meh...)

Anyway, his M.O. involves doggy style and, ahem, the more "well-nourished" ladies. He pretends to pull his condom off as he's withdrawing after shooting his load, but he's had it in the palm of his hand since he took it off after the first "accidental" withdrawal. I'm guessing he has some medical condition that means he doesn't leave a mess afterwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing he has some medical condition that means he doesn't leave a mess afterwards..."

Or the worthless piece of shit shoots his load inside the poor unsuspecting woman!

I'd chop his dick off and feed it to him followed by a shot of something erosive to wash it down.

I make it a rule to provide my own condoms, I know where they've been, if they're intact/in date. I tend not to play with people reluctant to use them either!

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A femidom would not protect against genital warts passing from his balls onto your anus."

Nor would a comdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm learning a lot here

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By *p4u77Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you."
don't be ridiculous if both parties consent it's not assault or rape stop giving folks ideas too many innocent men are falsely accussed every year simply put if u aren't sure u can trust someone don't do it or take the consequences if u catch something personally for me this sort of thing is kept for someone I trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP have you considered having a back up form of contraception?

I know that's not the only reason to use condoms, but I have a back up for in case a condiment splits. It it's just additional piece of mind.

I always use my own & I have them in a variety of sizes & with or without latex....all free from the clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you.don't be ridiculous if both parties consent it's not assault or rape stop giving folks ideas too many innocent men are falsely accussed every year simply put if u aren't sure u can trust someone don't do it or take the consequences if u catch something personally for me this sort of thing is kept for someone I trust"

I refer you to Julian Assange vs Swedish Prosecution Authority 2011 when the President said "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if AA had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if Mr Assange used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

I suggest you write to the President of the Queens Bench Division and tell him he is being "ridiculous".

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By *p4u77Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you.don't be ridiculous if both parties consent it's not assault or rape stop giving folks ideas too many innocent men are falsely accussed every year simply put if u aren't sure u can trust someone don't do it or take the consequences if u catch something personally for me this sort of thing is kept for someone I trust

I refer you to Julian Assange vs Swedish Prosecution Authority 2011 when the President said "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if AA had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if Mr Assange used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

I suggest you write to the President of the Queens Bench Division and tell him he is being "ridiculous". "
u are swinging often with folks u don't know repoting someone for rape and assault by two consenting adults in that situation wouldn't make an iota of difference simple action is not to agree to something u do not have full control over problem solved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's bloody amazing and scary how little some people know about there sexual health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A femidom would not protect against genital warts passing from his balls onto your anus.

Neither would a condom surely? Never seen a condom cover a guy's balls before. "

I've been trying to get my balls in the condom too since that post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you.don't be ridiculous if both parties consent it's not assault or rape stop giving folks ideas too many innocent men are falsely accussed every year simply put if u aren't sure u can trust someone don't do it or take the consequences if u catch something personally for me this sort of thing is kept for someone I trust

I refer you to Julian Assange vs Swedish Prosecution Authority 2011 when the President said "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if AA had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if Mr Assange used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

I suggest you write to the President of the Queens Bench Division and tell him he is being "ridiculous". u are swinging often with folks u don't know repoting someone for rape and assault by two consenting adults in that situation wouldn't make an iota of difference simple action is not to agree to something u do not have full control over problem solved!"

I am not suggesting this as an every day course of action. I was simply pointing out the view the Law takes of condom removal without consent.

If the dishonourable men that do this read that they can be convicted of rape they may think twice before doing it. You will of course need to be able to identify them.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Just a point of Femidom caution. Femidoms are magic for popping one in pussy and anus so the man can go from one to the other without interruption. Its very easy for a man to get round the side of the femidom in an excited pussy tho and I can''t say if the lady would notice the cock escaping.


"yeah i didn't even know guys slipped them off until the meet i am talking about originally.

will try the femidom first and if they aren't great then ill probably just look for a regular fb i can trust and then only play when they are around to keep an eye out for me.

thankyou everyone's advice. am gonna go chill out for a bit and have fun chatting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ensure you see the guy take the condom out the wrapper. ..some guys can put slight cut in top of condom then put it on and insert cock into you...then it splits open inside you as he intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you google the C-B Sheath-Condom it gives you something that covers everything. Although I will guarantee someone will say it is too small for them!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you.don't be ridiculous if both parties consent it's not assault or rape stop giving folks ideas too many innocent men are falsely accussed every year simply put if u aren't sure u can trust someone don't do it or take the consequences if u catch something personally for me this sort of thing is kept for someone I trust

I refer you to Julian Assange vs Swedish Prosecution Authority 2011 when the President said "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if AA had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if Mr Assange used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

I suggest you write to the President of the Queens Bench Division and tell him he is being "ridiculous". u are swinging often with folks u don't know repoting someone for rape and assault by two consenting adults in that situation wouldn't make an iota of difference simple action is not to agree to something u do not have full control over problem solved!

I am not suggesting this as an every day course of action. I was simply pointing out the view the Law takes of condom removal without consent.

If the dishonourable men that do this read that they can be convicted of rape they may think twice before doing it. You will of course need to be able to identify them."

The identifiable evidence would be in the poor womans virgina. DNA doesn't lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuck it in the bin, easiest way, stay hardcore !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something thats occured to me lately is there are things for men to consider too..you could have the safest sex as is possible..chuck the condom in the bin ..kiss goodnight and leave..if the woman was desperate for a baby she could rummage thru the bin and inseminate herself with the contents..very sly and probably doesnt happen but you never know..id say you should take the condom with you boys and dispose of safely

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

ffs ..hide the turkey baster !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I was hoping this thread would be about blowing up condoms and making balloon animals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of crazy meets are people having!! "Don't let a guy do doggy if you don't trust him"

Here's a fucking thought, if you don't trust the fella, don't get naked? Get out his house or throw him out of yours....

Wow.... just wow

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Something thats occured to me lately is there are things for men to consider too..you could have the safest sex as is possible..chuck the condom in the bin ..kiss goodnight and leave..if the woman was desperate for a baby she could rummage thru the bin and inseminate herself with the contents..very sly and probably doesnt happen but you never know..id say you should take the condom with you boys and dispose of safely"

I take it you have also seen The Crush with Alicia Silverstone? Soooo creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent seen it no..i take it she does this?? Some sick people out there

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I havent seen it no..i take it she does this?? Some sick people out there"

She does indeed. More to accuse him of the word we're not allowed to mention than to get preggers. Scary as it could happen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staple gun?

I've had a couple of close calls in group situations where i've been too caught up in what i've been doing but hubby realised what they were going to try.

So hence the reason i now have eyes in the back of head

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Heard some propa Horror Stories when we first started swinging... Men putting holes in condoms so they more likely to split and then the person gets to fuck you bare etc... So, we always make sure we see the condom unwrapped in front of us!

Seen also men going from one woman to another ( in our early days!) wearing the same condom! Woman being totaly oblivious to it?! ... I would just say check n double check and make it clear condoms used throughout.. And changed often too. Ps those who say they alergic( wiv no condoms wiv them that they aint alergic to) or have problems putting condoms on, instantly tells me they are not used to them at all! A man can put a condom on in seconds when he used to doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick a cock ring over the condom. That will keep the fecker on and the bloke's cock hard too maybe

will this actually work? he had no trouble staying hard, it's just if it will keep the condom on then i would love to do this. i seriously do worry about it coming off as well as the other stuff we are duscussing here."

Yeah it helps and you can get ones which vibrate too ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman agrees to sex on the basis the man uses a condom and he then removes it and continues to have sex he has commited sexual assault or potentially rape. It is as serious as forcing himself on her. Ladies be firm and do not let men do this to you.don't be ridiculous if both parties consent it's not assault or rape stop giving folks ideas too many innocent men are falsely accussed every year simply put if u aren't sure u can trust someone don't do it or take the consequences if u catch something personally for me this sort of thing is kept for someone I trust

I refer you to Julian Assange vs Swedish Prosecution Authority 2011 when the President said "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if AA had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if Mr Assange used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

I suggest you write to the President of the Queens Bench Division and tell him he is being "ridiculous". u are swinging often with folks u don't know repoting someone for rape and assault by two consenting adults in that situation wouldn't make an iota of difference simple action is not to agree to something u do not have full control over problem solved!"

Actually a man had been convicted of rape in the UK because the woman agreed to have sex if he didn't cum inside her he deliberately did and is now convicted sex offender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've caught the same bloke twice pulling out, then palming the condom as he puts his cock back in - the club said it was my word against his, so didn't throw him out. (Next time I see him do it, I'll be the one getting thrown out after beating him to within an inch of his worthless life, but meh...)

Anyway, his M.O. involves doggy style and, ahem, the more "well-nourished" ladies. He pretends to pull his condom off as he's withdrawing after shooting his load, but he's had it in the palm of his hand since he took it off after the first "accidental" withdrawal. I'm guessing he has some medical condition that means he doesn't leave a mess afterwards..."

What club did this happen in because I want to avoid that place!

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

Well, I can't really say because,as was pointed out, it's my word against his. "The Rapist", as I now loudly call him when explaining to others what I caught him doing, obviously knows I'm on a mission to catch him with witnesses so now tends to slither away when he clocks me watching him in open rooms. The worst of it was that the first time I caught him he shrugged his shoulders and laughed. I really should have thrown him down the stairs there and then.

I'm happy to tell people where and who he is (a very distinctive first name), via PM or face to face (in fact I go out of my way to tell his likely targets to watch him closely).

The point is,ladies and gentlemen, he is very slick and practised at his sleight of hand, and it was only previous suspicions that made me watch him closely in the first place. He's as quick as lightning and when he doubles over in ecstasy as he finishes and puts his hands over his crotch as he pulls out, it's too late, he has the element of doubt on his side. I know what I've seen though, absolutely no question.

Like I said, he does this in darkened rooms when there are lots of men taking their turn, and seems to go for the larger lady.

If someone's in the doggy position and slips out, as most of us do from time to time, however briefly, if they have to guide it back in by hand, please get into the habit of just reaching down and checking the wet suit is still intact. Don't rely on your spotter, they may not be at the right angle to be sure, so take a second to be sure yourself, even if it kills the moment slightly.

Many of us have had condom malfunctions, they DO break, but any genuine chap will stop immediately and explain the situation, even though it brings things screeching to a halt. It's just as worrying for us as it is for you ladies, or at least it should be, though stopping when at full steam can be like stopping a train,it takes a lot of self-control. However, men KNOW when an accident has happened (it suddenly becomes a LOT nicer feeling) and there's no excuse for carrying on, however turned on you are.

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Another trick is to use ribbed condoms, you can feel when those are definitely on (or atleast I can) and I always provide my own condoms can never rely on a man to bring them! Freedoms shop is great i got 144 for £16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of crazy meets are people having!! "Don't let a guy do doggy if you don't trust him"

Here's a fucking thought, if you don't trust the fella, don't get naked? Get out his house or throw him out of yours....

Wow.... just wow"

I was thinking exactly the same

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

If you have to take as much precaution as listed here to ensure a sneaky sly bastard aint removing a condom mid fun it begs the question - What are you doing having fun with someone so untrusted in the first place. Surely it cant be good good fun

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"If you have to take as much precaution as listed here to ensure a sneaky sly bastard aint removing a condom mid fun it begs the question - What are you doing having fun with someone so untrusted in the first place. Surely it cant be good good fun "

Ah yes, I'm sure you always go through the process of getting to know someone over a few months first, just to make sure they are right for you and can be trusted 100%. That's why you are here on No-sex-before-marriage-and-only-then-after-a-long-courtship.com

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you suspected foul play you could always threaten the bastard with a staple gun to keep the condom in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have to take as much precaution as listed here to ensure a sneaky sly bastard aint removing a condom mid fun it begs the question - What are you doing having fun with someone so untrusted in the first place. Surely it cant be good good fun

Ah yes, I'm sure you always go through the process of getting to know someone over a few months first, just to make sure they are right for you and can be trusted 100%. That's why you are here on No-sex-before-marriage-and-only-then-after-a-long-courtship.com

"

No we are on don'tletnuttersinmyhouse. com....

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"If you have to take as much precaution as listed here to ensure a sneaky sly bastard aint removing a condom mid fun it begs the question - What are you doing having fun with someone so untrusted in the first place. Surely it cant be good good fun "
but you wouldn't know they were a "sneaky sly bastard" until they did something like that!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Be very wary with men who dislike putting them on in doggy style. Its easy for them to be wrapped, let you feel it, and then slip it off if they slip out.

Keep an check, and if in doubt, they're not worth playing with."

I had a guy do this - or try to. That was the end of that meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always guide a guy into you. That way you can feel the condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have to take as much precaution as listed here to ensure a sneaky sly bastard aint removing a condom mid fun it begs the question - What are you doing having fun with someone so untrusted in the first place. Surely it cant be good good fun but you wouldn't know they were a "sneaky sly bastard" until they did something like that! "

Then I must be super naive....

Because most of the ladies/couples that post in these forums, talk about their selection process, how they can spot a wrong un etc... Apparently that selection process and intuition doesn't stretch to trusting a guy behind you

I would gave thought that any single/married/coupled guy mental enough to try bareback in swinging circles must have spinning eyeballs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be very wary with men who dislike putting them on in doggy style. Its easy for them to be wrapped, let you feel it, and then slip it off if they slip out.

Keep an check, and if in doubt, they're not worth playing with."

Would someone rally do that? I'm shocked

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"If you have to take as much precaution as listed here to ensure a sneaky sly bastard aint removing a condom mid fun it begs the question - What are you doing having fun with someone so untrusted in the first place. Surely it cant be good good fun but you wouldn't know they were a "sneaky sly bastard" until they did something like that!

Then I must be super naive....

Because most of the ladies/couples that post in these forums, talk about their selection process, how they can spot a wrong un etc... Apparently that selection process and intuition doesn't stretch to trusting a guy behind you

I would gave thought that any single/married/coupled guy mental enough to try bareback in swinging circles must have spinning eyeballs... "
well these things do happen and as I said in my post heard all about this when we first started swinging. Unfortunatly there is always gonna be the odd dick head , who gets thro the radar! Lol .... Don't hurt ta be awear of all and not to become too complacent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex equals a condom ... Protects the guy as well as the woman ... Said with the utmost respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why any man would be so disrespectful as to covertly remove a condom.

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Another good one, when you are messaging organising a potential meet is

"But you agreed to go bareback with me 6 messages ago!".

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