FabSwingers.com forum: Opening messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so a lot of women here ask guys to make an effort in their opening message. Which I always try to do. My question is would I be better off just sending a face pic and a brief message? I don't have a face pic on my profile but I always send one with my opening messages. It's frustrating to put the effort in only for messages to get deleted or not even read. Or would it be seen as lazy to just send a face pic?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You won't please everyone all of the time as not everyone likes the same things.

There is no harm to try what you suggest though...not all of us like war and peace mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a fuck?" never works.......believe me, I get it all the time.

hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just keep it simple me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha. I bet. Was thinking something a bit more subtle than that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just keep it simple me"

Ha ha with a user name like that I'm sure you don't have to say much!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Ok so a lot of women here ask guys to make an effort in their opening message. Which I always try to do. My question is would I be better off just sending a face pic and a brief message? I don't have a face pic on my profile but I always send one with my opening messages. It's frustrating to put the effort in only for messages to get deleted or not even read. Or would it be seen as lazy to just send a face pic?"

if you were to ask a million different people what they wanted... i am sure you would get a million different answers...

I think the mistake a lot of people make is they think they are trying to please everyone! and by doing that all then ends up happening is some generic mish mash.. and you end up appealing to no one!

as long as you are true to you.... focus on those who would focus on you! the rest isn't some form of popularity contest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" if you were to ask a million different people what they wanted... i am sure you would get a million different answers...

I think the mistake a lot of people make is they think they are trying to please everyone! and by doing that all then ends up happening is some generic mish mash.. and you end up appealing to no one!

as long as you are true to you.... focus on those who would focus on you! the rest isn't some form of popularity contest"

Good point well made. Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just keep it simple me

Ha ha with a user name like that I'm sure you don't have to say much!!"

it aint all about the size man, ive been rejected because its to big alot of times, i actually wish it was abit smaller ha

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

The one I send to people I'm interested in say "hello, I like what I see on your profile, have attached my pic if you're interested please get back to me with. Autumn x"

The ones I like to receive are

"Hi, have read your profile and seem to fit the bill, have attached a face pic, I'd be interested in chatting if I'm to your liking. Fred x"

Simple and gives someone the chance to see the person before long winded often misinterpreted messaging starts, if there's no attraction then it's either a polite no thanks from either party and no time wasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one I send to people I'm interested in say "hello, I like what I see on your profile, have attached my pic if you're interested please get back to me with. Autumn x"

The ones I like to receive are

"Hi, have read your profile and seem to fit the bill, have attached a face pic, I'd be interested in chatting if I'm to your liking. Fred x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh (oat) so simple aint just a porridge, bad joke i know lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The one I send to people I'm interested in say "hello, I like what I see on your profile, have attached my pic if you're interested please get back to me with. Autumn x"

The ones I like to receive are

"Hi, have read your profile and seem to fit the bill, have attached a face pic, I'd be interested in chatting if I'm to your liking. Fred x"

That's very helpful. Much appreciated

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The one I send to people I'm interested in say "hello, I like what I see on your profile, have attached my pic if you're interested please get back to me with. Autumn x"

The ones I like to receive are

"Hi, have read your profile and seem to fit the bill, have attached a face pic, I'd be interested in chatting if I'm to your liking. Fred x"

And then a decent profile tells me about someone... My selection goes profile pic (if its a cock, its deleted) message sent, profile, public images, then look to see any veris and then reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty you will have to send a face pic at some point so sending one in the first message could help especially if you look nice also a personal message doesn't have to be massive just tailored to someone's profile.

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